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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region Forumsthe pearl clutching going on over someone directing "fuck you" at President Obama
is, well, ridiculous. He's a politician, not some deity. It's not terribly rare that DUers direct that phrase to other elected democrats, and yet that hardly results in the outrage currently on display. And the circumstance in which that utterance was issued make it at least somewhat understandable.
Yes, he's the President, but the anger and outrage clearly have nothing to do with the old saw about respecting the office. This reaction has much more to do with those who are so devoted to the President that their sensibilities are offended by the anger toward him.
He's a politician. People get angry at politicians. They say things in the heat of the moment.
JoePhilly
(27,787 posts)ProSense
(116,464 posts)is not fucking "pearl clutching."
"He's...not some deity."
Neither is the poster who made that comment. The attack was misguided, and judging from the followup, intentional.
The criticism is justified.
cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)suffering from a terrible disease and have some damn empathy, rather than rushing to President Obama's rescue like some damn Lone Ranger.
So, in your book lashing out in despair and frustration is okay, as long as one doesn't disparage Barack Obama? That about right?
It wasn't a fucking attack on President Obama. Learn some context and practice some empathy and you might be able to see that.
ProSense
(116,464 posts)"Put yourself in the shoes of someone whose OTHER HALF is suffering from a terrible disease and have some damn empathy, rather than rushing to President Obama's rescue like some damn Lone Ranger."
...instead of listening and understanding, the poster simply doubled down to justify an uninformed and vile attack on the President.
Let's say someone truly doesn't know that the President has nothing to do with formularies. After learning the facts, that person would remove the vile attack. That was not the case. The attacks continued, and were clearly personal and intentional as the followup threads prove.
Drug formularies are not the President's decision. They existed before the ACA. They exist in Medicare Part D.
The one thing the ACA did do is introduce a new rule applicable to appeals.
The Affordable Care Act ensures your right to appeal health insurance plan decisions--to ask that your plan reconsider its decision to deny payment for a service or treatment. New rules that apply to health plans created after March 23, 2010 spell out how your plan must handle your appeal (usually called an internal appeal). If your plan still denies payment after considering your appeal, the law permits you to have an independent review organization decide whether to uphold or overturn the plans decision. This final check is often referred to as an external review.
http://www.hhs.gov/healthcare/rights/appeal/appealing-health-plan-decisions.html
fleabiscuit
(4,542 posts)You're not making sense in the context of what happened. Again.
ProSense
(116,464 posts)fleabiscuit
(4,542 posts)Individuals may take a moral stand, the STATE does not represent morality, only power. POTUS represents the STATE.
The nonsense is trying to extract some kind of political blood from an emotionally charged post. You're trying to take some kind of moral high ground at a lash out that mentioned POTUS. Learn to recognize the difference. There's plenty of crazy to go around, no sense in whipping up more.
ProSense
(116,464 posts)brush
(53,847 posts)Response to fleabiscuit (Reply #64)
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sheshe2
(83,898 posts)Let me guess a long time reader.
Cha
(297,655 posts)fleabiscuit
(4,542 posts)Cha
(297,655 posts)They just went bye bye!
Cha
(297,655 posts)In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)from a site that shall not be mentioned [img][/img]
hootinholler
(26,449 posts)Since it attacked ProSense.
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)sheshe2
(83,898 posts)It's gone Cha~
beef bit the dust.. we hardly knew ya, flea.
sheshe2
(83,898 posts)They are flea as a bird. Fly away home.
fleabiscuit
(4,542 posts)I've been told it's the 'biscuit that scares people.
AnalystInParadise
(1,832 posts)for Nonsense.....
cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)Take the blinders off there... Lone Ranger.
People of devout faith have been known to blaspheme against and curse whatever God they believe in in situations like this... and all YOU can see is an attack on our beloved president.
Empathy. Buy some.
ProSense
(116,464 posts)"I'm talking about how a person feels when their OTHER HALF is suffering from a terrible disease and you're talking about an 'uninformed and vile attack on the President.'"
...you're trying to justify why someone decided to direct a vile comment toward the President, and then refuse to acknowledge it was worng even after being informed.
"Empathy. Buy some."
Spare me the lame attempt at guilt.
cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)What does that say about you? That you can absolutely totally completely ignore any and all context, empathize with someone suffering at the thought of losing THEIR OTHER FUCKING HALF, and focus only on "a vile comment toward the President".
Would it KILL you to even entertain the notion that his words were borne of despair and frustration and concede that maybe he was angry and hurting? Or is it simply the Lone Ranger in you that must, in any and all circumstances, ride to the rescue of President Obama?
ProSense
(116,464 posts)brush
(53,847 posts)He was proven wrong and still doubled down on his attack with another post.
My prayers go out to his wife, but for him to come back with another post after it was explained to him by many, many people last night why his attack was unwarranted and extreme seems to show he meant to insult.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)When you defend an inhumane system because you like a particular politician, I think you have an issue.
Maybe it's just me, but I don't think even President Obama would like the pressure of being the arbiter of the US health care system. It is such a mess God probably couldn't sort it out. What I do know is that it is killing people.
Tell me how much compassion I lack, and how on the wrong side of the argument I am.
brush
(53,847 posts)The old system? Talk about something screwed up.
The ACA did not create the formularies that insurance companies have used for forever (and denied Pitt's wife the med she needed with them), but it does have built into it an appeals process to get around denied coverage something that didn't exist before.
So you see, the ACA is an improvement. No one says it's perfect but it has helped 5 million people get health insurance.
Pitt was wrong and over-the-top with his misdirected hater rant, and he even doubled down on it today even though many DUers told him how to go around the insurance companies.
My prayers to his wife but no way should he make those kind of hateful insults, be proven wrong, get the help he needed, then still not be man enough to make an apology.
A Simple Game
(9,214 posts)Then why didn't they get fixed when the ACA was crafted? And don't tell me about the appeals process. If they knew of the need for and had time to craft an appeals process then why didn't they fix the problem correctly? I really would like an answer to this question.
Yes overall the ACA is an improvement, but with just a little effort could have been so much better.
The frustration one feels when they pay for and then don't receive correct medical care does not go away very quickly, I hope you never find out first hand.
brush
(53,847 posts)No repug votes and just enough blue dog dem (repug lite) votes.
With that in the bill the blue dogs would have backed out (ordered to by their big insurance clients) and the bill would not have passed.
It's politics, we have to deal with that reality and try to work around that now and try to improve and fix the gaps now that the ACA is law.
And it won't be easy with all the bought-and-paid-for pols in the repug party and their blue dog allies.
A Simple Game
(9,214 posts)all kinds of insurance including life, auto, etc.
It would have necessitated a slight increase in the cost of a policy, something that happened anyway.
But now that we know there is a problem, who's working to fix it?
questionseverything
(9,658 posts)we should look at this entire episode as a learning experience...... a problem has been identified, we should be coming together to look for solutions
not pretending the problem is not there
potus asked us to "hold him to the fire", to me this implied he needs a huge public outcry to gain belt way support for change
A Simple Game
(9,214 posts)VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)who appreciate what President Obama has done for THEM! It was insulting to THEM particularly since the "beef" was with the insurance company NOT with the ACA OR the President...
THAT is why...
cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)seeing him disparaged that way for BULLSHIT on a website that calls itself DEMOCRATIC....might be offended...AND I might be one of those that just got healthcare...How would YOU know how that feel about this President? My grandparents were self proclaimed "FDR Democrats" they respected that President immensely....should they not be offended if someone called FDR a "piece of shit car salesman" by a person who CLAIMS to be a fellow Democrat? I think they would tell YOU you are wrong....just as he is WRONG for not admitting it. In fact...he is being hypocritical for not doing it BECAUSE he and his wife are now both benefiting FROM what that "piece of shit used cars salesman" did for he and his wife! How is that "used car now?" At least he is not having to shell out for COBRA now! Damn he should give the man a freaking break for once. But of course he cannot because that would make him look bad among his followers on DU now wouldn't it?
Liberal Veteran
(22,239 posts)Would you be saying "Well, she was just upset and was lashing out at the president because she was hurting? It doesn't concern us."
Or would you be saying, "She was misguided and out of line."?
cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)about the President or anyone else.
William Pitt isn't Sarah Palin, in case you haven't noticed.
Liberal Veteran
(22,239 posts)The question was designed to make you think about it in the abstract.
And you are correct. Will isn't Sarah Palin. We expect epithets from her, not from our erstwhile allies.
We are also more likely to say "I understand you were upset and angry." when someone on our side has the character to say "Sorry, I was wrong."
Especially if that someone has an otherwise excellent reputation within our little family.
Cha
(297,655 posts)to do. Sarah and her ilk never apologize.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)Even though he claims to be a Democrat AND has a history of hatred of this President? That is the M.O. of this clique.
WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)Jaysuz, people, get a grip.
Liberal Veteran
(22,239 posts)It lowers my opinion of the person I respect for being misguided and I tend to defend people I respect when I see them unfairly insulted.
AnalystInParadise
(1,832 posts)after every change of command must have difficult for you. OR you are just being obtuse on this issue. One or the other.
fleabiscuit
(4,542 posts)Feel free to pelt all the rocks necessary to satisfy your need.
Sara, "...Well, if you told me you were drowning
I would not lend a hand..."
Liberal Veteran
(22,239 posts)She has many admirers (which is about as much praise as saying Justin Beiber has admirers), but for the nonce, she is basically a high profile private citizen. I could have easily said Ted Nugent or Ann Coulter.
fleabiscuit
(4,542 posts)As do 99 percent of the paid rotating talking heads you see on "news" that recycle the talking points. Trying to argue otherwise is disingenuous.
phleshdef
(11,936 posts)zeemike
(18,998 posts)Whether they get health care depends on the insurance company and if they can afford the deductible.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)but of course he cannot admit he was wrong because the clique that are here defending him on this very thread would lose respect for him!
zeemike
(18,998 posts)But I defend his right to express his anger...and had it been someone I loved I might have said worse than that.
But bottom line is that it is not health care....that only comes at the pleasure of the insurance company and if you have the money...and pay what ever premiums will get the CEO a 50 million dollar pay check.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)that would be fine with you too....good to know how low you set your bar...
That allows every Republican to come here and vent their anger about the ACA! Because misguided anger at the President is now allowed apparently!
zeemike
(18,998 posts)Does Ron Paul have an account at DU...if so identify him for us.
But if Republicans come here (and I am sure they do)...they will come here as shills not trolls...and a good shill is one who adopts all the characteristics of a progressive...and usually they will be the most radical liberal on the board...because their purpose is to set us against each other and to control what can be said...not to spew RW propaganda, which would immediately blow their cover...
And should we be so foolish as to ban anger at the democrats for what they do or fail to do, it would play right into the hands of the right wing, making their criticism of us as control freaks a reallity...and turn this place into a joke of a discussion board...IMO
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)(and it was a direct quote)...they would be banned and YOU know that...
It is my opinion he retracts or should be banned just like Rand Paul would be!
zeemike
(18,998 posts)And the Rand Paul is the straw man.
The so-called typical "attacking a straw man" implies an adversarial, polemic, or combative debate, and creates the illusion of having completely refuted or defeated an opponent's proposition by covertly replacing it with a different proposition (i.e., "stand up a straw man" and then to refute or defeat that false argument, ("knock down a straw man," instead of the original proposition.[3][4]
This technique has been used throughout history in polemical debate, particularly in arguments about highly charged emotional issues where a fiery, entertaining "battle" and the defeat of an "enemy" may be more valued than critical thinking or understanding both sides of the issue.
The straw man fallacy occurs in the following pattern of argument:
1.Person 1 has position X.
2.Person 2 disregards certain key points of X and instead presents the superficially similar position Y. The position Y is a distorted version of X and can be set up in several ways, including: 1.Presenting a misrepresentation of the opponent's position.
2.Quoting an opponent's words out of contexti.e., choosing quotations that misrepresent the opponent's actual intentions (see fallacy of quoting out of context).[4]
3.Presenting someone who defends a position poorly as the defender, then denying that person's argumentsthus giving the appearance that every upholder of that position (and thus the position itself) has been defeated.[3]
4.Inventing a fictitious persona with actions or beliefs which are then criticized, implying that the person represents a group of whom the speaker is critical.
5.Oversimplifying an opponent's argument, then attacking this oversimplified version.
3.Person 2 attacks position Y, concluding that X is false/incorrect/flawed.
This reasoning is fallacious because attacking a distorted version of a position does not address the actual position. The ostensible argument that Person 2 makes has the form:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straw_man
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)President Obama up until now?
zeemike
(18,998 posts)On expressing his anger on DU?...Yes....just as anyone including you gets a pass from me on expressing their anger.
I don't tell anyone to STFU...because I am not that thin skinned and Obama is not my boyfriend that needs protecting from those mean old words...and I don't feel the need to control what others say, feel, and think.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)and ANY new member comes to DU and says that would be banned lickety split and YOU know it.
And STOP insulting everyone that supports the twice elected by a majority of Americans by calling them his "boyfriend". THAT is telling them to STFU....so even saying THAT just now proves exactly my point! Your clique should be ashamed of themselves for supporting this...Many people on this board worked their asses off to get Will Pitt and his wife that new insurance (instead of COBRA) that he will enjoy and what he said is a slap in the face to those that did that work!
Again I iterate...if anyone new came here and said it....they would be banned. PERIOD and you know that is true...
That DU'er comes here day after day doing NOTHING else but trashing this President and then he says that...and AFTER he discovered he was wrong....and IS still accepting his Obamacares.....he fails to retract what he said.......He should be banned...forever.
zeemike
(18,998 posts)And spare me your outrage...I have a right to my opinion just as you do...and unlike you I think I should be able to express it openly.
And IMO it is your clique that is calling the rest of us a clique because we call you on it.
But I think the greater danger to this party is from those who try to control what people say on a message board...And If I were a Republican shill I would have your POV about things people say, finding as many offensive things as possible to be outraged about... and it would work too, because you will hate me now and that is the whole purpose of trolling is to turn you against me and me against you...divide and conquer is always the objective.
And it may have worked for you but not for me...because your words do not make me hate you.
That is my opinion for what it is worth.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)Word salad....
So to you...its those that support the TWICE elected by a majority of Americans Democratic President and his SIGNATURE Legislation which is helping MILLIONS of people....no preexisting conditions....no lifetime caps...no charging women twice as much....just to name a few....
to you THOSE are the people that are the problem????
Voice for Peace
(13,141 posts)Are we here on the same team?
If so, then what?
The rules of good teamwork are nearly universal,
no matter what sort of team it is. Sports, families,
business, all of them.
We are trying to have his back.
Some of us are. It is not blind adoration, but
there is at least a measure of trust in the man, his
intentions and his intelligence. It's of no value to
knock him down, or blame him and/or everybody
who respects his efforts.
There is plenty of empathy and compassion for
Will and his wife. There are many here on DU
who are suffering in so many ways. Some are
poor, some are dying, some are addicts or
lonely or crippled or old as hell, and cancer
patients, some can't afford cat food, or rent.
zeemike
(18,998 posts)And everything to do with it when it is good?
mythology
(9,527 posts)yeah, it's kind of unfair to blame Obama for the problem. If as Pitt claimed all of the plans he had access to were grandfathered in to pre-ACA rules, then the problem isn't with the ACA.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)Ask the Koch bros....they have been searching and searching for that! It was an outright audition for one of their epic fail commercials...and ended exactly the same as each one of those did!
NorthCarolina
(11,197 posts)Egnever
(21,506 posts)When I put myself in his position. I don't find myself purchasing a plan that doesnt cover the most important med my wife takes...
Maybe you do.
daleanime
(17,796 posts)Egnever
(21,506 posts)Anyone with a chronic condition for any length of time should be well aware of how insurance companies work.
daleanime
(17,796 posts)usually only find that level of heartlessness in republicans and insurance CEOs.
Egnever
(21,506 posts)fleabiscuit
(4,542 posts)VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)Socialized medicine cover ALL drugs? If you do...then you are just as misguided as he is..
Egnever
(21,506 posts)Cause I am under no illusions that single payer means you get anything you want.
As someone with chronic conditions in my family I have run into denials plenty of times. It didnt take me very long to figure out you need to pay close attention to what is and isn't covered when you purchase insurance.
I have done my own rounds with insurance.
Formularys are not a new thing just like doctors accepting or not accepting a particular insurance is not new.
If you have a chronic condition and you do not ensure the things you want/need are covered by the plan you are going to purchase then i have a hard time seeing you as a victim. Maybe in the first year after you are diagnosed but after that you are sure to have bumped into some denial somewhere that makes you well aware of these things.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)Egnever
(21,506 posts)That or I am totally missing your point.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)particular drug for your wife? I responded that NO Healthcare system guarantees that you will get ANY drug. NONE....you are now hedging on that statement. Because its a ridiculous thing to say.
Egnever
(21,506 posts)you are confused.
Formularys arent mysterious, you can check them before you purchase a plan and not all plans have the same formularys.
You act as if all insurance plans have the same formularys.
What i am saying is if my family depends on a certain drug I make damn sure the plan I am purchasing covers it or I look for another plan that does.
I dont know what you are going on about. I never suggested going without because they didnt cover a specific drug.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)You apparently don't seem to.
Egnever
(21,506 posts)I see I have to explain it to you cause you are off on some tangent you made up in your head.
cherokee progressive said...
"Put yourself in the shoes of someone whose OTHER HALF is
suffering from a terrible disease and have some damn empathy"
My answer was in those shoes i check to make sure the meds I want are in the formulary before i purchase it ...Dont know how you turned that around into whatever wackiness you are going on about.
my exact post was
When I put myself in his position. I don't find myself purchasing a plan that doesnt cover the most important med my wife takes...
Maybe you do.
then someone before you who clearly understood what i said called me a heartless bastard or some such nonsense. They clearly got what I was saying, you ...not so much.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)some people are THAT wacky!
Egnever
(21,506 posts)WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)You just said you supported his stance to not buy Healthcare at all...why didn't you edit that response OR delete it...Apparently as you just said I wasn't the only person to misunderstand you then...Note it wasn't me that called you a heartless bastard...
SidDithers
(44,228 posts)If my wife had MS, and we didn't have extended health benefits from one of our employers (extended benefits are employer paid plans, which cover things like drugs, dental, vision etc), we'd be out of pocket for prescription medications.
There are government programs for large out-of-pocket drug costs - in Ontario it's the Trillium Foundation - but we would still have to pay a portion of the drug cost ourselves.
Once citizens of Canada hit age 65, then they go onto the Ontario Drug Benefit Plan for Seniors, and have their medications paid for.
There are also disability benefits in Ontario (the Ontario Disability Support Plan formulary is here: http://www.health.gov.on.ca/en/pro/programs/drugs/odbf_mn.aspx).
But working families, as a matter of course, do not have drug coverge. For years, we paid for our own birth control, blood pressure pills, antibiotics, thyroid medication etc.
Sid
TheKentuckian
(25,029 posts)VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)That makes perfect sense....
Do you believe every drug is covered in every other country?
Egnever
(21,506 posts)and find a plan that covers my needs or those of my family members. Will had options he just didn't bother exploring them or didn't like them.
This is not buying a freaking loaf of bread this is your health.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)if there WERE such a plan available....then what is the problem"? AND since it turns out he was WRONG about his position....he should post a retraction on his "Fuck You" and "piece of shit car salesman" statement....
But of course he can't because the clique would be mortified!
Egnever
(21,506 posts)you totally misread my post.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)and misinformed despicable rant....despicable BECAUSE he and his wife are BOTH benefiting from Pres. Obama's signature legislation....talk about ungrateful. But he cannot post a retraction BECAUSE the clique would not respect him! So the fact that he hasn't posted a retraction PROVES he would rather have a few DU'er's that hate the President respect him...then to have any self-respect at all!
Egnever
(21,506 posts)then go to the rant itself and look for my post there and come back and tell me how you are making shit up in your head.
You are raging at someone who agrees with you lol.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)when backed into a corner....stop arguing...accuse the enemy of being crazy....then suggest they need a rest....
Yes its so predictable....is the clique going to put out any new material soon?
Egnever
(21,506 posts)There I made it easy for you.
Come back after looking and tell me how I am excusing that rant.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)are you going to declare you renouncement of it or not?
Egnever
(21,506 posts)did you even bother looking?
You are tilting at windmills there.
Once again you are raging at someone who agrees with you the post was bullshit.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)You cannot ever ever disappoint the clique!
Egnever
(21,506 posts)did you have a case?
ConservativeDemocrat
(2,720 posts)Democrats who come to this forum are so used to seeing insults at lies spat at the President and other Democratic elected officials, the knee-jerk reaction now is to just go in guns-a-blazing.
I was on this forum practically since day one. It was a curiosity back then. And yes, there were family fights. But I remember that Skinner held out the D.U. as a place where Democrats could relax from the relentless lies being promulgated nearly everywhere else.
It's rather sad to now see it largely as a platform to be used by Naderite/Green trolls to scream epithets at us, and waste our time going out to research every one of their exaggerations, lies, twisting of facts, etc. trying to shit all over the Democratic party.
- C.D. Proud Member of the Reality Based Community
/ Actually, William Pitt is *better* than most of his fellow DU travelers.
WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)And middle-of-the-road Circle D bullshit *ain't* gonna do it. Just look at state houses and executive mansions all over the country -- Republicans control a disturbing number. Independent voter registration is surpassing partisan affiliation. After 8 years of George W. Bush and Dick Cheney fucking over the country, this SHOULD NOT BE.
DebJ
(7,699 posts)temper tantrums, unless the tantrum was directed at *.
Egnever (13,434 posts)
9. You didnt check to see if an ongoing medication was covered before you signed up? Seems pretty foolish.
"Political extremism involves two prime ingredients: an excessively simple diagnosis of the world's ills, and a conviction that there are identifiable villains back of it all." John W. Gardner
WOW, it is as if the poster DID NOT go and read your post! Unless calling Will foolish is agreeing with him in some roundabout way.
sabrina 1
(62,325 posts)Maybe this will help, s/he disagrees with ME! Now do you understand?
This is the funniest subthread I've ever read.
DisgustipatedinCA
(12,530 posts)I see you're making the baffling and confounding acquaintance of Vanilla Rhapsody, and I feel for you. She actually agrees with you but has no comprehension of this fact. She carries a head full of rage, strong opinions, and few facts. Once she gets started in a direction, there's no going back--reverse engineering will be conducted as necessary to keep a flawed point going. She's hopelessly incapable of admitting she may have misread something, even though we all misread things now and then. It never ends well because it never ends until you just decide to let it go when you realize that you may as well be talking to a stump. And yeah, this post may get locked, but in no way does that mean there won't be 58 DUers nodding their heads in complete recognition and understanding when they read this. I hope they're the ones on my jury.
Egnever
(21,506 posts)if it does get deleted
fleabiscuit
(4,542 posts)Bobbie Jo
(14,341 posts)VR....go back, read, and ease up a bit.
Egnever, you make some good points.
Egnever
(21,506 posts)brush
(53,847 posts)Vanilla, I'm with you on just about all of your posts but pls go back and read your exchange with him.
He's making good sense.
questionseverything
(9,658 posts)since they are covered on an individual basis after ins plan purchase.....if you meet the criteria
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http://www.bcbsil.com/PDF/rx/rx_list_std_il.pdf
Specialty drugs
Specialty drugs are used in the treatment of medical conditions such as hepatitis, hemophilia, multiple sclerosis
and rheumatoid arthritis. Specialty drugs may be oral, topical or injectable medications that can either be
self-administered or administered by a health care professional. For a current list of specialty medications,
visit myprime.com or bcbsil.com and log in to Blue Access for Members.
Note that some drug classes may be excluded by some plans and therefore may not be covered under your
pharmacy benefit. Your plan may have a different coverage level for self-administered specialty drugs. If you
have questions about your coverage for specialty medications or your prescription drug benefit, call the
number on the back of your ID card.
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how do I look it up before I buy?
I have to be a member before I can see the list
cimzia is what I am looking for
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cimzia is about 1600 bucks a month retail so the 700/month cap would screw us over too
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Response to questionseverything (Reply #280)
Tue Mar 18, 2014, 10:29 PM
Star Member Nye Bevan (14,819 posts)
344. Yeah, they are (deliberately, I think) vague about coverage prior to you taking out the policy.
Which sucks and is frustrating. I looked up cimzia on my plan and all it told me was that pre-approval was required (it would not even give a price). For this drug, however, the manufacturer's website seems quite helpful (go to http://www.cimzia.com/cimplicity/patients.aspx). They have a copay savings program where they help you verify insurance coverage and you get a savings card which (they claim) resulted in no out-of-pocket costs for 97% of the participants in 2013. It sounds like what they do is help walk you through the approval process to help you get the drug approved and then absorb any deductible or copay themselves, just accepting whatever the insurance company pays them, with you getting the drug for no out-of-pocket cost. You should definitely look into this; I have used a similar manufacturer's program with another drug and the savings can be enormous. Good luck!
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we need to look at this as a teaching moment, a problem has been identified...we need to work together to fix it instead of placing blame on consumers
Egnever
(21,506 posts)The formularies are available and if your drug isnt listed in the formulary you can be fairly certain they aren't covered. There are formularies for every single health plan on the planet including single payer plans.
This is not new stuff. I think educating consumers to this is important but any one with a chronic injury for more than a year has almost certainly run into some sort of denial. There is no excuse for someone with a chronic illness not being aware of these things and ensuring when they make their health care decision they take the time to see if what they want/need is covered or to look for another plan.
We arent talking about buying a bag of popcorn here we are talking about a decision that will affect your life. millions of seniors every year go through different medicare plans to find the one that covers the drugs they take.
This is not a new situation for Will they have been dealing with this for years now.
It sucks that he didnt bother to take the time to find out if the most important drug his wife takes is covered by the plan he purchased but that isnt Obamas fault. If he was a totally healthy person just diagnosed with a chronic condition I might understand the ignorance of how insurance works. But his wife has had this condition for years now he should be well aware of how insurance works by now.
No plan covers everything not even single payer plans. If you need a certain drug you should make damn sure the plan you are buying covers it or find another plan. Wailing at Obama was totally misplaced. Formularies are not new and they are not going away.
questionseverything
(9,658 posts)specialty drugs are in there own category and always need individual approval, after you buy
from reading what will said, wife's drug was first thing they asked about and were verbally assured it was a simple process to be approved......turns out the insurance company was not quite honest about that (imagine that)
your blame the consumer attitude is misplaced
Sarah Ibarruri
(21,043 posts)cause of our country being so fucked up and who are STILL hijacking it.
Rex
(65,616 posts)Third Way types don't help - but to assume the GOP is not working hard at denying benefits to the working class, is someone that doesn't pay any attention!
It is a MUST that we get back the House in 2014...and absolute MUST! I'll be driving people to the polls, as I always do.
Sarah Ibarruri
(21,043 posts)source of all the damage we've suffered for decades.
That would be like a surgeon, rather than removing a cancerous tumor, removing a nearby organ because, well, it's there and easily removed.
SOME have lost sight of who started this, and who is continuing it - the repukes.
Rex
(65,616 posts)I like this POTUS, I might have been very mad at him after the way he handled BP in his first term...I've even said at times he is an empty suit (and I was wrong) he has separated work from insurance (brilliant) and it eliminates the bosses ability to lord health insurance over their employees! It was a great progressive move to help the working class! It is THE reason the GOP tries to repeal it IMO. You know how their record is with the working class, the GOP can barely contain their hatred for those that are not rich or well off in some way.
We do need to focus on the people that hurt us daily - the GOP, NOT the POTUS. If we want to blame a branch for wrongdoing, CONGRESS is the one to focus on! Congress has failed us miserably year after year. The Tea Party Clowns have caused more damage then we can ever imagine. They want to DESTROY government!
Sarah Ibarruri
(21,043 posts)how does one change everything? I believe that one changes everything by changing what is causing the wrongs: the right wing ideology that swept this country, and the neo-con elections in office.
To expect 1 president to behave as if he were all-powerful, when all around the right wing ideology is still very much there, and the neo-cons are still stopping any chances of reversing damage, is lunacy.
It's like being a battle, and instead of shooting at the other side, you shoot your own because you think he's just not great at doing battle.
lumpy
(13,704 posts)didn't mean what he said. By trying to blame Obama for his misfortune indicates he has no respect and more than a helluva lot of dislike for the President.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)nice healthcare they both are not going to benefit from....how about some thanks to those of us who stood by President Obama to get it done! We deserve some respect yet all we expect is an apology for saying that....
phleshdef
(11,936 posts)So obviously, if you are all "fuck you" to someone over something they didn't do and something that actually was fixable, then yea, misguided is a nice way to put it.
Rincewind
(1,205 posts)Why blame the President for a decision the insurance company made? For that matter, why didn't he check to see if the insurance would cover the medicine he wife was taking before he signed up? Can he appeal the insurance company's decision? Can he drop that company and sign up for one that will cover the medicine? Can he actually do anything to try to improve his situation, or is he just going to cuss at the leader of our country? He is understandably upset, but cussing at the President isn't going to help, at the least, they should ask their doctors if any other treatment, that the insurance will cover, could help.
brush
(53,847 posts)My prayers go out to his wife and I hope she gets the medication at an affordable price, but the attack on President Obama was so unwarranted and over-the-top in it's hatred that it's inexcusable especially coming from a writer who should be able to express himself without going into the gutter for disgusting insults.
And it's not the first time Pitt has attacked the President unjustly. He did a similar wrongly-targeted attack on the President after the State of the Union address.
sheshe2
(83,898 posts)Not just a spouse. A child, a father, mother, sister or any significant member in their life.
Yes cherokee, do put yourself in another's shoes. Is Pitt the only one on DU that suffers? Out of all the members, how many others have you seen make this same rant? Ten,Twenty maybe a Hundred. Nope just Pitt.
You all want to trash and take away a health care law that has saved lives and one that gives people some freedom of mind? Really? Because Pitt said so.
And before you respond, yes you are trying to take it away. Your negativity towards this bill falls into the GOP's hands and they will use it. Before the law is even fully working you lambast it. I believe that the smartest thing to do would be working together to correct those flaws. Then move on to single payer.
But hey, that's just me.
treestar
(82,383 posts)Gee I'm not married but do I have any relatives I can use as an excuse to be absurd?
So you get to blame anybody and call them a piece of shit so long as you can pretend they did something to you OTHER HALF?
How insane to blame the President of the United States for the bad things that happen to your OTHER HALF. I wish I had one so I could have a scapegoat of any famous person.
pnwmom
(108,994 posts)I do have enormous empathy for Will's situation and I understand why he was on fire that night-- and I didn't criticize him for his emotional response.
But I did try, and I am continuing to try, to set the record straight about some of the false things he repeated in that first thread. His "friend" the agent told him it would be a waste of time to check the formularies of the other 9 insurers, that his wife would be rejected by them for having a preexisting condition. That was terrible advice.
Because Will's post was getting so many recs, there was a real danger that it could discourage other people who were on the fence from trying to get insurance. And I hated to see that happen.
theboss
(10,491 posts)My mother survived breast cancer. My mother in law died of breast cancer. My adopted daugther has been in a psychiatric hospital twice in the two years since we adopted her.
And Will was out of control.
Logical
(22,457 posts)lumpy
(13,704 posts)JoeyT
(6,785 posts)It was the people that insisted any criticism, no matter what it was over or how mild it was of being hate that did it. It didn't take them long to do it, either. I remember "hater" and "racist" being hurled at people that were upset over Rick Warren. So before his first term even actually started, the line was being blurred.
When people run around screaming the village is aflame every time someone strikes a match, eventually not even a smouldering house is going to catch anyone's attention. They've become the BOG who cried hate.
LuvNewcastle
(16,856 posts)stg81
(351 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)including that attack. some people seem to think that getting elected President, even one you supposedly support, makes you a scapegoat. Which was what that was exactly. Immature scapegoating.
sabrina 1
(62,325 posts)over ANYTHING else. I would think most people understand that. Apparently they do.
Politicians have pretty thick skins, I would worry more about someone with MS without meds, than the possible hurt feelings of any politician.
Egnever
(21,506 posts)She was being denied her med of choice. there were other options that were covered. There's a difference.
AnalystInParadise
(1,832 posts)So in this case a woman being told what she has to do with her body is totally cool......Thanks for clearing that up.
1monster
(11,012 posts)I've never had any passionate feelings toward Barak Obama one way or another. He is a politician. Every one of his decisions will affect millions of people, most of whom will have no say one way or another in those decisions or their consequences.
I can understand Will Pitts' rightous anger; he is paying for health insurance for his family and that insurance MANDATED BY LAW will not pay for his wife's necessary meidcations. It is just throwing away the money that could be used more wisely.
The money I will be spending on that MADATED BY LAW is far more than I can afford or justify and will not cover any medical expenses for my son or myself until after a $12,000 (for each) deductible is met and then it will pay only 60%. A policy I had in the past paid 80% after meeting a $2,500 (per person) deductible and 100% after meeting $8,000 out of pocket. And that was a policy for five people and cost $144 less per month.
ACA is a bad joke for many of us. I'm happy, really happy that it is working for those who were unable to be covered before, but I"m in the same place I was before ACA -- coverage is way to high priced for way too little benefit.
stg81
(351 posts)Response to ProSense (Reply #2)
Post removed
lostincalifornia
(3,639 posts)on the President.
Yes, when someone says, "FU" or calls you a "POS", that is a hate filled personal attack, not a criticism of a policy.
and yet when some threads criticize that thread through reference, it seems that many who are the first to justify calling the President a "POS", seem to have a problem with those threads by calling it "immature or childish.
Seems like tunnel vision and arrogance to me
840high
(17,196 posts)He got criticism, and I'm sure the President is more than capable of absorbing it. To see grown men and women have a fit because he is criticized kind of looks like a child being told the Easter Rabbit isn't real.
Politics get pugilistic.
lumpy
(13,704 posts)disdain of Obama.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)written by him!
lumpy
(13,704 posts)cali
(114,904 posts)VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)cali
(114,904 posts)VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)I had to treat him like my husband and defend his every word and deed.
lumpy
(13,704 posts)Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)for more than 20 minutes? If that doesn't convince you, head to the BOG.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)and any time he is...YOUR clique are there to excoriate him! And THIS time it is particularly egregious BECAUSE here you are defending the words "Fuck YOU President Obama" and "you piece of shit car salesman" when that poster was DEFINITELY wrong for his assessment AND hasn't once taken those words back thus far!
Meanwhile HE and his wife are going to greatly benefit from Obama's signature legislation.....that the rest of us who defended this Democratic President WORKED our asses for him to so greatly benefit from. And here he is throwing it back into our faces like feces....and yet no retraction!
He can't retract because his clique won't allow ANY defense of ANYTHING this President has done. He would lose face with them. Therefore his respect by the Anti-Obama clique is more important than his own dignity.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)But this time....is about something that that DU'er IS going to benefit greatly from....YET no admission of that fact!
and here you are pretending that you don't hate this President defending that....hahahahaha.
Enthusiast
(50,983 posts)That would be insanity!
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)sheshe2
(83,898 posts)It was misguided at best. Even when he got help from DUers he is doubling down on it once again.
Why is that? He blames this President exclusively, for everything.
Are not others on DU hurting, are not others here going without. Yes they are and they posted and told their stories to Pitt. Did he respond or commiserate with them. Not that I saw. So we only care about one person here and not all that suffer?
Aerows
(39,961 posts)But you also have to flip the coin and see the other side of it, too. People on DU are hurting under our health "care" system.
Telling the people that are suffering to STFU because Obama is President of the US doesn't help matters. It makes the people you chastise feel bad, and what does it accomplish in the end? Does it make Obama a better President, or does it just make you feel better because you love him so much?
sheshe2
(83,898 posts)Where in my post did I say that?
I love him? Not in the way you insinuate. I respect the man and love what he has accomplished. Is he perfect? No. I don't know anyone that is.
People are better off now than they were before under ACA. No more denial over
pre-existing conditions. Women are getting the healthcare that they need to survive in states that are not restricting it. Medicaid is helping many working poor, again in states that are allowing the expansion.
As for people hurting, it's not just about healthcare. It is about snap benefits, unemployment funds, jobs etc. It is not just about Pitt. It is about all of us. Nothing is ever going to be perfect for all of us all the time.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)who tried to describe there situations AND to all of us who have worked our asses off to get Healthcare Reform. To say what he said HERE on DU...was like throwing that in our faces.....and he STILL hasn't retracted what he said.....why? Because people like you and the rest of the Anti-Obama clique would lose respect for ANY one of you to give this Democratic President even a word of praise...he would lose face among them....so he cannot. He painted himself into a corner...
Frankly I think he should be banned UNLESS he retracts.
JI7
(89,264 posts)morningfog
(18,115 posts)polichick
(37,152 posts)But I doubt he sees himself as someone who needs to be coddled.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)grandfather's graves or their grandmother's graves were desecrated. Someone pissed in their child's crib. It's weird.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)would have a little respect for those that GOT his family that help....
but of course he cannot because his clique would be upset to hear him say anything positive about the President.
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)This is the perfect example of what's going on - a complete lack of empathy, sympathy or concern for a fellow DUer suffering real pain.
On no! He callled my President Hubby a bad name! GET him!
sabrina 1
(62,325 posts)appalled at the priorities people have. It certainly helps explain why we lost the battle for actual Health Care.
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)What's truly amazing is that the posts which COULD help Will's wife were buried in all that cheerleading and attacking.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)and this DU'er threw it all in our faces....But he is welcome to just go back to COBRA....but of course he wouldn't. He goes on and on with his disdain for the President day after day.....and then he did this...the fact that so many of us worked to save HE and his wife FROM Cobra....even THAT gets no respect.
keep doubling down on NEVER giving this President praise for anything EVER.
Democracyinkind
(4,015 posts)They are oh-so-moral and high-standard-demanding when defending Obama and sooooo fucking callous when attacking others.
It's just not believable.
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)It's not believable.
I still want to know if the Cheerleading Gang has matching uniforms with short skirts and all.
NYC_SKP
(68,644 posts)Welcome to DU.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)saying "FUCK YOU President Obama" and calls him a "piece of shit car salesman"....
That sets YOUR standard pretty damn low....
I guess if Rand Paul said this....you would support that too!
Democracyinkind
(4,015 posts)fleabiscuit
(4,542 posts)Someone might think that a politician should at the very least try to benefit the public. How does a politician earn extra credit by doing the job? Take a second look at blood letting posts and you'll see that they are mostly about the 'self.'
WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)And I've lived through ten different presidencies. What is it about Obama that makes them coddle him so much? I just don't get it.
morningfog
(18,115 posts)There are people whose job is to practice message control on message boards. It only takes a couple to rally others to echo. I don't think the level at which some take it so personally is genuine.
ProSense
(116,464 posts)"There are people whose job is to practice message control on message boards. It only takes a couple to rally others to echo. I don't think the level at which some take it so personally is genuine. "
...like what happens when anyone criticizes Greenwald or Snowden. LOL!
WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)Pitt can be a bit of dick, too.
Snowden doesn't phase me.
Obama definitely has some slickie boy used car salesman in him, just like so many other politicians. (Yes, Virginia, Obama *is* a politician.)
I agree with them sometimes; others I don't. See how easy that is?
LOL!
WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)but they're quite good at making the puppets dance.
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)You and me both, Worse! I've never seen anything like the Obama Cheerleading Squad.
I don't think it has anything to do with social media - just immaturity.
It's downright juvenile.
laundry_queen
(8,646 posts)WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)Cesca, Smartypants, Spandan, et al. Furiously tweeting and blogging, with no dissent in their comment sections. NONE. These blogs are chewed up and spit out by a majority of DUers, which amuses the hell out of me.
I'm thinking back to my office during the Clinton years and God knows there was plenty of criticism then, I just don't remember ANYONE taking it so personally. Hell, even Bush fans I worked with didn't take it personally, and we had some major disagreements.
I have no idea what 2016 will bring, but just think, maybe we'll have 8 years of a Clinton Cheerleading Squad. And instead of being called racist for criticizing Obama, we'll be called misogynistic for criticizing Hillary. I can hardly wait!
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)or debate.
I've never seen what I see here before - post some crazy blog link and then everyone fights about what the stupid blog says........it's absolute insanity!
There was a time when lots of intelligent debate was had on DU. Not anymore.
Now, it's just hair on fire, chew each other up and spit them out day after day.
WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)when Team Obama arrived, with their body-surfing pics and cutesy Facebook graphics. It still can be found, though; most of us know which GD posters offer up quality, thought-provoking, sincere posts. And I love my NC group for news. I miss the activist feel -- the old DU would have been ALL OVER Moral Mondays.
QC
(26,371 posts)Glitterati
(3,182 posts)It's just too bad we've been overrun by the teeny bopper crowd.
I hate those posts which are nothing but a graphic with misspelled text on them.
Jeez, incapable of thinking of something smart to say all by their (note proper spelling, kids) itty bitty selves?
L0oniX
(31,493 posts)Glitterati
(3,182 posts)This whole foot stomping temper tantrum is all about the fact that the Cheerleading Squad couldn't get a jury to agree with them and delete Will Pitt's entire thread.
LuvNewcastle
(16,856 posts)WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)who exhibit flaming asshole behavior and shouldn't be sitting in judgment of ANYONE. I seem to recall a recent in post in which a current MIRT member said something pretty hideous and had his/her post hidden. Many complain about the jury system, but I like it -- "you take your chances." And there's always going up the chain of command if you're not happy, which I imagine Team Obama has been doing non-stop since Pitt's post.
This is the first I'm logging on for the day -- can't wait to see what today's dust-up is all about.
brush
(53,847 posts)Last edited Fri Mar 21, 2014, 02:28 AM - Edit history (1)
but i don't want to see that kind of hatred on DU. If I want that kind of disgusting stuff I'd go to Freeperville where that kind of stuff reigns.
This is DU dammit. Show some respect to us. Pitt should cut out the guttersnipe insults or go to Freeperville and post.
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)And it is. As is this post.
Jeeezus! Even Obama asked that we hold his feet to the fire.
Maybe when you grow up and deal with real life like an adult, you'll realize that some things are really frustrating and TERRIFYING.
And, quite frankly, there's nothing more terrifying than watching your loved one in extreme medical danger. Been there, done that. And I watched him die in my living room waiting for the ambulance to arrive.
lumpy
(13,704 posts)Some of us would call that now-famous rant a juvenile tantrum filled with the worst kind of animosity toward a decent man who is trying to do what is best for us against the worst odds.
Many of us have dealt with loved ones dying right in front of us without little help; you are not alone.
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)real pain, experienced first hand by all of us.
Some who watched, pointed fingers, and displayed not one iota of sympathy for the pain a supposed ally was suffering.
Yeah, juvenile reactions.
lumpy
(13,704 posts)Was it Pitt's 'pain' or setting Obama's feet on fire?
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)Some disagree with Obama's actions........deal.
But what you watched, then spent the last 24 hours bitching about was a man in pain, terrified of losing a loved one. Sometimes people strike out at their most beloved when in that kind of pain.
It happens. Deal.
Why is it such a big deal for you? Did the jury disagree with you or something? Admin refused to ban Will on your orders?
Lars39
(26,116 posts)Glitterati
(3,182 posts)We still miss him greatly.
brush
(53,847 posts)You wanna talk about somebody being immature, it's someone supposed to be a writer and can't express his anger any better than that.
And as far as growing up, tell that to the writer.
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)Will Pitt is an internet writer.
The world does not revolve around the internet, contrary to the belief of the teeny boppers.
Real life intervenes on regular occasion and sometimes, it's painful and difficult to watch.
Watching Will deal with the idea that his loved one was in danger was a real life intimate moment he came here to share. Hoping for some empathy and help. Instead, he got finger pointing and accusation. How sad.
How utterly sad that anyone leads a life without empathy and gets upset when a jury disagrees with their alert.
That's what this is really all about......that jury just pissed you off!
brush
(53,847 posts)I've posted on this and the previous thread the my prayers go out to his wife and that I hope she gets the meds she needs at an affordable price.
There is no lack of empathy here.
What's lacking is Pitt's control of his anger, his respect for DU (who wants his Freeperville-style, ot-of-control rantings on a progressive site) and ability to act like a man and admit he was wrong when shown his rant was mis-directed
And if you don't get that, therein lies your problem.
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)Who the hell can miss the American Idol supporters who believe the alert button is their vote for their idol?
Good GAWD, no one can miss it.
Hell, you folks start 15 threads a day praying for a ban of another DUer because they DARED to disagree with you about your idol.
You keep tossing fellow Democrats out of the boat and drowning them means you're gonna run out of voters real soon.
Get over it. The jury disagreed with you and let his post stand. Deal.
brush
(53,847 posts)because many of his posts lean decidedly to the right, but maybe he's a blue dog dem (repug lite).
But it's a big tent, even big enough for people who calls someone an American Idol supporter who just doesn't like to see Freeperville-type crap on DU.
lumpy
(13,704 posts)Honey, I'm waaaay past the learning stage. Besides, what I learn today, I forget tomorrow because of old age.
lumpy
(13,704 posts)to learn and know when someone shows his true colors.
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)woot! There is it. Rah, rah, sis boom bah! Wave those pom poms!
lumpy
(13,704 posts)Glitterati
(3,182 posts)of the Cheerleading Squad.
Thanks for showing everyone exactly what I am talking about.
Good of you to be so demonstrative.
lumpy
(13,704 posts)Glitterati
(3,182 posts)HangOnKids
(4,291 posts)Good on you for stepping up and hitting it out of the park.
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)Actually, it was fun. But thanks!
treestar
(82,383 posts)No matter who it is.
Nobody blamed Bush for their medical issues. When he did nothing about them.
Liberal Veteran
(22,239 posts)I will say I have enormous sympathy for Will as someone who has had to jump through the insurance gauntlet a time or thousand myself, but I think once it was pointed out that it really didn't have anything to do with the president and being a Du'er that has some measure of clout, it would be have shown good character to say "I was misinformed and I regret aiming my comment at the President".
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)None of you would have cared. Your day was just too busy doing other things while growing up enough to get on the internet.
CJCRANE
(18,184 posts)It usually started with one of these phrases:
"To be fair to Bush..."
or
"I'm no fan of Bush but..."
snappyturtle
(14,656 posts)1) the cheerleading quells honest discussion and/or
2) CYA for when the NSA comes snooping the cheerleaders will get
their well deserved gummed gold stars and deemed non-threatening
to TPTB.
imho
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)Their behavior clearly shows the determination to get those gummed gold stars!
snappyturtle
(14,656 posts)L0oniX
(31,493 posts)exalt a hero, star, sports team or player. IMO it is a result of having no life or low self esteem or the desire to fit in with a group. Typically a follower and not a leader. Lacking honest introspect. In the case of Obama IMO it is also because of race. On the other hand about race it's been a great thing that has happened and should have happen long ago. The ideal American POTUS would be one of mixed race which represents the melting pot that America is however a cult like worship of anyone is not mentally healthy IMO. People are not gods.
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)that they really don't have to "vote" every week for their idol.
President Obama already won the race.
L0oniX
(31,493 posts)jsr
(7,712 posts)I hope there will be a forum for "The Great President formerly known as The Greatest President" after the next presidential election. At a minimum, His presence on every Greatest List must be defended and protected.
bobduca
(1,763 posts)are really only 7? or some other dividend of 35.
woo me with science
(32,139 posts)Maedhros
(10,007 posts)Blaukraut
(5,693 posts)in his or her defense. Sycophants come in all sorts of shapes and sizes, and their subject of adoration can be a president or a DUer. It's a little disturbing in either case.
Capt. Obvious
(9,002 posts)and DU in general.
It's a little disturbing in either case.
Blaukraut
(5,693 posts)You'll see it.
morningfog
(18,115 posts)To the extent posters can know each other. It is a much shorter step to a fellow DUer than a national politician.
Regardless, the reactions to any and all criticisms of the President by some is to take it so personally. Far more so than responses and new threads about DUers. Posters take personally criticisms of the President's policies as well as criticisms of his person. And they are nasty about it. And they engage in personal attacks against DUers. It makes no sense for the most part. Unless they are trolls or shills (which are still trolls).
Blaukraut
(5,693 posts)If a DUer posts nothing BUT criticism of the President, and the posts verge on thinly veiled hatred, the poster is suspicious. At the same time, if a poster has nothing BUT praise for the President, and even bends over backwards to explain the inexplicable, that person looks suspicious. DU has both. In equal numbers.
Voice for Peace
(13,141 posts)criticize him for.
I see a man who is trying really really hard to do a superhuman task.
Many here want to have his back, which includes objecting to disinformation
about the man: and hair on fire blame is no different than teapartiers'.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)that dog don't hunt.
morningfog
(18,115 posts)It doesn't matter what the criticism is, the reactionary and personal offense of some is the same every time.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)that is okay to let Republicans come and post "Fuck You President Obama you piece of shit car salesman"
that would be fine with you huh?
morningfog
(18,115 posts)That isn't remotely what I said or implied. I remember now why I had you on ignore. Back to it.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)"Fuck You President Obama" "you piece of shit used car salesman".
You down with that?
morningfog
(18,115 posts)I know it will do no good, but anyway...
I never said I was fine with the post in question. My point was that I don't understand those who take personally criticisms of the President or his policies. It makes no sense.
It doesn't matter if the criticism is valid, which it almost always is on DU, or whether it is over the top, which it sometimes is on DU.
What is so bizarre is the posters who respond to every single criticism of policy as if they had been personally attacked. Again, so you can follow, I am speaking broadly here, not about any particular post.
And the response is often a personal attack of the poster who made the original critique.
treestar
(82,383 posts)thinking you might be supporting a particular political direction.
Blind support of a DUer does nothing.
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)he sometimes makes mistakes.
The Obama Cheerleading Squad, on the other hand, can admit no such thing about their President Hubby. Sadly.
treestar
(82,383 posts)On the other hand, it is useless to just trash everything an elected Democrat does in office because you are afraid of being called his "wifey" due to mere political support. You can't prove you ever said any DUer was wrong when they were trashing him or some other Democrat. You're only supporting this DUer because he trashed the President, who you can't stand, which is weird for a supposed liberal or Democrat.
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)You simply can't understand the concept of intelligent debate and discussion.
You'll have to find somewhere that I have ever supported, agreed with, or otherwise interacted with Will Pitt. Because I haven't. I, personally, find him to be an illustrative writer with lots of pretty words that basically say nothing. A time waster.
However, I am sill able to see the humane side of life today and recognize pain and suffering while lashing out at those who can understand my pain and offer some empathy/sympathy.
I repeat - there is nothing on this earth more terrifying than watching a loved one be put in danger by some bureaucrat making life altering decisions.
There was a time when the majority of DU would have offered Will Pitt support.
Today, the Cheerleading Squad just alerts, alerts, alerts and then gets more pissed off when a jury disagrees with them.
THAT, dear, is what is pissing you off. Not Will Pitt. Just the fact that you couldn't get a majority on a jury to agree that Will Pitt is a BAD, BAD Man. Welcome to the grown up world.
ProSense
(116,464 posts)They're "coddling" the President. What's up with that? It's unusual. Never ever happened before.
Make a list of them.
LOL!
Do you think this will lead people to now accept vile attacks on the President that defy logic?
What next: he's a "piece of shit" for expanding Medicaid, but not in Republican-governed states?
Puzzledtraveller
(5,937 posts)if you meant that same, that's what I notice. They invested in the man more than the office holder.
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)Some of them seem to view Obama like a father figure. Like most kids they see their father through rose-colored glasses, so debates become intensely personal. I'll leave it at that.
KittyWampus
(55,894 posts)Maybe one poster comes to mind. And they aren't caught up in any of the ridiculous drama.
LOL!
People end up revealing more about themselves inadvertently.
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)See how many have Obama or Obama + Michelle. That's why it becomes so personal even though the DUers who disagree with Obama clearly have political and not personal disagreements.
Vashta Nerada
(3,922 posts)VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)that slung that vile about! And many of us on DU have taken ALOT of shit for supporting this President and fighting to get him that nice healthcare he and his wife will now enjoy. I think at the very least THAT deserves some damn respect. Most people who are getting help with insurance are GRATEFUL for that help.
treestar
(82,383 posts)Level headed criticism?
And why is it so needed to criticize our own side?
Republicans win because they don't make it a holy grail to use their own candidates as scapegoats.
City Lights
(25,171 posts)Not when Republicans did it with Bush, nor when Democrats do it with Obama.
cheapdate
(3,811 posts)fleabiscuit
(4,542 posts)~eom
cheapdate
(3,811 posts)For cripes sake. Practically no one at DU is insensitive or without empathy.
But "Fuck you, Mr. President, you piece of shit..." is absolutely, positively, guaranteed to stir up divisiveness and argument on a Democratic forum. Holy shit.
fleabiscuit
(4,542 posts)Egnever
(21,506 posts)Hell its a practically a paid position here.
Kurovski
(34,655 posts)I'd also be a-rustlin' mah petticoats if I was not presently descendin' to the faintin' couch as I type!
fleabiscuit
(4,542 posts)Autumn
(45,120 posts)and that wasn't nice.
ProSense
(116,464 posts)QC
(26,371 posts)Autumn
(45,120 posts)QC
(26,371 posts)when he comes to DU and sees what some people are saying about him.
Autumn
(45,120 posts)I'm afraid that things like this may just very well send him into bouts of melancholy. I just hope the First Lady will log into DU first, see what's going on and keep him so busy for a week or so that he doesn't have time to log in till all this blows over.
QC
(26,371 posts)Autumn
(45,120 posts)but we will get the President through this. God help us all if we don't
QC
(26,371 posts)Autumn
(45,120 posts)that we might help him to overcome the sorrow that dastardly Will Pitt has inflicted on him.
Iggo
(47,565 posts)Thanks, guys!
Autumn
(45,120 posts)Iggo
(47,565 posts)Lift up, lift up, Prez.
Lift up, lift up, Prez.
Lift up, lift up, Prez.
Iggo
(47,565 posts)Thanks, guys!
OnyxCollie
(9,958 posts)Or detain us indefinitely with the NDAA that he signed.
The NSA's probably going through Will Pitt's porn habits right now, upon the anonymous tip of a concerned DUer.
God help the person that says something bad about President Daddy/pretend boyfriend.
Lars39
(26,116 posts)grasswire
(50,130 posts)Topsy Turvey!
Lars39
(26,116 posts)Looks like a good movie. I keep humming Little List.
grasswire
(50,130 posts)"They'll none of them be missed, they'll none of them be missed..."
Yes, you DO need to see Topsy Turvey. You will love it.
Lars39
(26,116 posts)We don't really watch tv, just movies or good series, so I'm always on the lookout for movie recommendations.
Autumn
(45,120 posts)ZombieHorde
(29,047 posts)Rex
(65,616 posts)I'm sure you can imagine the fallout. Ranting about personal business, you know how that goes on a public forum.
Thanks for the heads up!
Happens to me a lot...leave...comeback and it is like WWIII in here. Sometimes I have to find out why.
uponit7771
(90,364 posts)Liberal Veteran
(22,239 posts)This is not a creation of the president or even indirectly his own fault. This shit has been going on for decades now. (As an HIV patient with heart disease, I can't tell you how many times I have had to fight a little to get something covered).
People who have garnered a lot of respect on this board over the years are still human, but they should at least be willing to say "Yeah, I was angry and didn't make a very good argument. My bad."
Egnever
(21,506 posts)uponit7771
(90,364 posts)brush
(53,847 posts)And not that hard a thing to do. If you're wrong, you're wrong. Admit it like a man/woman.
Number23
(24,544 posts)Liberal Veteran
(22,239 posts)lumpy
(13,704 posts)refuses to acknowledge his booboo. He really believes Obama (the used car salesman) should fuck off and he wishes this with all his heart and soul. Looks like he is not here to support our President.
HangOnKids
(4,291 posts)Ah fucking GAWD.
JaneyVee
(19,877 posts)Who is one of my favs.
cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)Voice for Peace
(13,141 posts)Sarah Ibarruri
(21,043 posts)it might be understandable, since right wingers are assholes who hate all Democrats, all libs, anyone that's not a right winger.
And as I said before, if you behave like a right winger, and say things a right winger says, hey, guess what? You ARE a right winger.
Response to Sarah Ibarruri (Reply #39)
albino65 This message was self-deleted by its author.
Sarah Ibarruri
(21,043 posts)albino65
(484 posts)Sarah Ibarruri
(21,043 posts)uponit7771
(90,364 posts)Whisp
(24,096 posts)as a fleabag winger.
This site is under a hostile takeover.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)grasswire
(50,130 posts)Puzzledtraveller
(5,937 posts)Sarah Ibarruri
(21,043 posts)dichotomous. Unless you can come up with a solution that will succeed, your only tactic is throwing the baby out with the bathwater, and opening the door for the Republicans to take over fully. That's not a solution. That's just plain damaging.
albino65
(484 posts)Cali, I keep putting you on ignore, but you keep showing up like a bad rash.
Capt. Obvious
(9,002 posts)albino65
(484 posts)Maybe it's better that I police myself rather than depend upon someone to do it for me.
Capt. Obvious
(9,002 posts)Autumn
(45,120 posts)I don't need it. If you get a lot of them you can sell them on eBay.
Capt. Obvious
(9,002 posts)You owe everyone an apology for that.
Autumn
(45,120 posts)a nice little business.
Capt. Obvious
(9,002 posts)An apology from someone like Pitt (a member of the 1% I read on here) would probably go for more money.
Renew Deal
(81,871 posts)I don't want to hear the lame rationalization. This is not the place for that type of hatred. They can take their tired act to freeperville.
Puzzledtraveller
(5,937 posts)Cha
(297,655 posts)"we pearl clutchers can Hate and call Obama anything we want with impunity thread.. "
Renew Deal
(81,871 posts)Where are my pearls?
Autumn
(45,120 posts)I've gone through it twice, maybe I'm just overlooking it or them. Unless I am misunderstanding the "call Obama anything we want with impunity" part.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)brush
(53,847 posts)And to then double down the next day? Some kind of hater.
SwankyXomb
(2,030 posts)the Professional Posters of Nonsense, regardless of their high post counts?
Puzzledtraveller
(5,937 posts)Response to cali (Original post)
Le Taz Hot This message was self-deleted by its author.
Vashta Nerada
(3,922 posts)If there's one little criticism of Obama, you can always guarantee who'll be there to defend him.
Cha
(297,655 posts)condone the raging hate coming from mr knee jerker.. who wouldn't know "truth" if it gobsmacked him.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4686372
woo me with science
(32,139 posts)in the good old USA.
Trying to suggest that anger toward politicians is somehow unseemly or inappropriate, instead of an expected part of vigorous, passionate political conversation in a representative democracy.
What surreal, Orwellian nonsense, to argue that apologies are owed, or that the community should be collectively offended and demanding of contrition...
[font size=3] ...because someone expressed anger toward a politician on a political discussion board in the United States of America.[/font size]
The demands are not just pathetic and silly to anyone who understands how political discourse in a vibrant and free country actually works. There's an underlying creepiness to it that fits right in with the constant weird demands to shut up all criticism as a proof of loyalty...instead of what we as Americans *should* be doing, which is to constantly challenge those hired as our REPRESENTATIVES to explain how their POLICIES will actually represent us.
There's a chill authoritarian wind blowing in this country. We're still at the point where we can laugh off and mock demands like this made on political discussion boards....but we had better damned well be sure to continue mocking and disgracing them, because there are people in power and implementing propaganda campaigns here and across the pond who, in other ways, have already shown their desire to make many types of previously safe dissent not so acceptable anymore...
http://www.wired.co.uk/news/archive/2014-03/15/government-web-censorship
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022666913
PowerToThePeople
(9,610 posts)steve2470
(37,457 posts)I think this was the very first time anyone has called a Democratic president a POS used car salesman.
PowerToThePeople
(9,610 posts)It was directed at a policy not a person. Yet, it was taken out fast.
lumpy
(13,704 posts)Whisp
(24,096 posts)if Bernie Sanders was called a piece of shit used car salesman.
Of course you would be just perfectly fine
yah sure, cali
Cha
(297,655 posts)"signiture legislation" of Obama's. WTF was he doing voting for "used car salesman pos" Law? Fuck Bernie from my god damn heart and.. aw shit.. I can't keep that up.. ROFL.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)since he ALSO voted for the ACA!
Whisp
(24,096 posts)the self appointed monarchy here is sometimes frustrating, but mostly hilarious. It's like a petri dish experiment gone real bad where only the protozoas think they have their rights and the multi cells are the lower, stupider class.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)apparently accept it too....you know because its just venting right? I think he should be banned frankly.
ProSense
(116,464 posts)zeemike
(18,998 posts)And I am not upset by it because I have the freedom to tell you you are full of shit and would do so...
But what you suggest is that we take both those freedoms from us...because if you are not allowed to say it I have no reason to say it back at ya...
What some seem to want is a sanitized DU where we praise Obama all the time and never is heard a discouraging word and the sky is sunny all day.
What a boring fucking life that would be...and I would not waste my time in such a place.
cali
(114,904 posts)freak the fuck out.
postatomic
(1,771 posts)The ACA sucks. Big revelation.
I'm probably just as angry about how much the ACA does suck. I guess my only complaint is that I saw it as a tad bit 'preferential' in allowing reactionary comments to just float merrily along.
crimeariver1225
(19 posts)a piece of s#!t. That seemed more than just anger and downright insulting to the actual man in office.
Skip Intro
(19,768 posts)Facts be damned.
"You will have blind faith in him as I do, and worship him as I do, or you're a rw racist freeper who..."
Yeah, fuck all that.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)of it being implied that I am a racist teabagger because I have a hospital bill that isn't covered and complain about it.
I was called a birther and a teabagger and the jury let it stand.
Skip Intro
(19,768 posts)Last edited Fri Mar 21, 2014, 12:39 AM - Edit history (1)
they are ONLY here to disrupt discussion they don't favor, and most of them run together in a very small pack, and some obviously have more than one screen name. I'll pm you a list of those I'm aware of. I'll bet they're the same ones harassing you for daring to have your own opinion on things. Sounds just like these cowards.
At any rate, Aerows, don't let a few, a very few, jerks define your experience on DU. Don't let them shape your activities here, your will to speak freely, start threads when so inclined. That is what they want. They want to cower you into shutting up, they want to silence you, because they can't engage you in the realm of reason, in the realm of reality, because they know reason, and reality and logic, their empty spin evaporates. So they can only attack.
Again, they're not here to discuss, but to disrupt.
ConservativeDemocrat
(2,720 posts)What you're complaining about is that your attacks don't go unanswered. As if you really expect to be able to go onto a Democratic website, attack Democrats, and get nothing but support. Seriously?
Listen, if I shit on Warren or Sanders to only *half* the degree you people shit on Obama - often including lies and blaming for things they have has no control over - you'd be screaming to the admins.
I know its true. It's happened for considerably less.
- C.D. Proud Member of the Reality Based Community
Skip Intro
(19,768 posts)Glitterati
(3,182 posts)They just can't control themselves. Same little gang, same bunch of Obama Cheerleaders on every single thread. I wonder if they have matching uniforms with short skirts?
ProSense
(116,464 posts)Facts be damned.
"You will have blind faith in him as I do, and worship him as I do, or you're a rw racist freeper who..."
Yeah, fuck all that.
The attack was on the President, and it was as fact-free as one could get.
Yeah, "fuck" facts, right?
As long as it's an attack on the President, it's justified.
Skip Intro
(19,768 posts)ProSense
(116,464 posts)Skip Intro
(19,768 posts)You'd have everyone on their knees if you could.
Do you really think you fool anyone in what you do here?
ProSense
(116,464 posts)greytdemocrat
(3,299 posts)I seem to remember many people here on DU
ragging on republicans as Bushbots.
But if some recognize an Obamabot here, certain
people on DU go on a search & destroy mission.
Such a shame. It's a good thing clear headed people
see bots for what they are.
jeff47
(26,549 posts)"Facts" like the ACA causing formularies to exist?
Guess what? Medicare has one. So does Canada's single-payer system.
Guess where people have to fight to get the same drug? Canada. The UK. And lots of other single-payer systems.
You don't have the facts here. You have a rant you like.
Bernie2016
(28 posts)While DU is a private forum and therefore "Freedom of Speech" does not strictly apply, it should still be practiced to whatever extent is reasonable. And sometimes people get frustrated and lash out. While the statement was clearly rude and inappropriate, I don't think it should be censored.
crimeariver1225
(19 posts)also has to be considered.
truebluegreen
(9,033 posts)crimeariver1225
(19 posts)think about a KKK member publicly acknowledging who they are and speaking their hate. That is an extreme example, but demonstrates how others will judge that person for their words--even if the government and our society protects free speech.
brush
(53,847 posts)If I wanna read that kind of stuff I can go to Freeperville.
I don't go there so I don't want to see it here. It's about respect for not just the Office of the President but for DU.
We're better than that, at least the vast majority of us are.
ecstatic
(32,731 posts)One where we can say the most vile things about each other with little or no consequences? The great thing about DU, at least what USED to be a great thing, was that people aren't allowed to throw around offensive words like, "bitch" etc. Disrespect leads to more disrespect. Next thing you know, this will be a pretty disgusting place. That poster was out of line. Period. Why waste time defending the indefensible? If we're now changing course into a site where ANYTHING goes, then count me out, but not before I squeeze in my "fuck you, piece of shit" comment as well.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)jeff47
(26,549 posts)Political speech should be built on truth and opinion.
Will's rant is not built on truth. His problems were not caused by the ACA. Formularies have been part of insurance for decades, and there's several routes to getting a drug covered despite not being in the formulary.
Additionally, virtually all single-payer systems have formularies. And people in Canada, the UK and lots of other countries have to fight for coverage of the same drug.
He blamed Obama for something Obama did not do. The proper thing to do in such a situation is admit you made an error, once you have cooled down.
Political speech should be built on truth and opinion. To do otherwise is to say Fox News's bullshit is A-OK. They're just politicians. Why should we care if Fox lies about them?
ProSense
(116,464 posts)He blamed Obama for something Obama did not do. The proper thing to do in such a situation is admit you made an error, once you have cooled down.
Facts don't matter. This is about some people wanting to justify the name calling by ignoring the facts. They approve of the name calling and the blame despite the facts.
jeff47
(26,549 posts)Someday, they might bother reading the posts and find out what the objections really were.
Not gonna hold my breath.
Whisp
(24,096 posts)phleshdef
(11,936 posts)It does make me angry. And I'll let you know why. Its because people from both parties and both ideological spectrums set out to undermine him since day fucking 1. The Republicans, the blue dogs, the Joe Liebermans of the world, the pissed off Hillary devotees, the corporate media and so on and so forth... since day fucking 1 have rooted for and actively engaged in encouraging, not just the failure of the Obama presidency, but the failure of Obama's reputation, his public image and his sense of dignity.
There are definitely things I disagree with the President on when it comes to drones and the NSA and a few other items. But he is never really given the benefit of the doubt for anything by the people that engage in this crap. No matter what he does, he gets shit on for it. Regardless of the political circumstances with Congress, regardless of the fact that this guy got more death threats his first year in office than other Presidents get in 8, regardless of the fact that he has to be everyone's President, not just the President of the left.
So yea, after 5 years of watching the first African American President, a man from humble backgrounds who devoted a good deal of his life to helping poor communities and being an educator, who literally did pull himself up from his bootstraps, who HAS done a lot of damn good things for this country while constantly dealing with opposition fueled more out of hatred than policy disagreement, then yea it does piss me off when well established, progressive DUers go take another knee jerk verbal shit all over him... especially when they were ultimately proven wrong about their own situation and especially when what they were shitting on him over is ultimately a huge set of laws, programs and program expansions that is UNDISPUTABLY saving and will continue to save a lot of American lives.
I would probably have been a lot more vocal in my criticisms of the things I disagree with this President on if it weren't for the extreme dog pile of unwarranted criticisms that have been aimed at him since day 1. We didn't even treat Bush this bad as a party/ideological spectrum... and he actually did WAY more shit to deserve it. Considering all of that, it kinda makes me not even give a damn about the warranted criticisms because I've been so desensitized by the never ending dogpile of hateful bullshit that isn't based on anything other than pure derangement towards Barack Obama.
The last point I'll make though is this. Criticism of a politician or personality is a two way street. If you think that its "okay" for a person to publically blast the President, and say "fuck you" and call him names and all that shit, then you need to also believe that its "okay" for others to publically defend the President, express why we appreciate things that he has done and send it right back at that person. I don't see you making threads calling people out for picking fights with posters who create threads admiring the President for something he did or just getting amusement from looking at his family and daily life type stuff. If you don't want to be guilty of engaging in a double standard, then you probably need to be calling out those folks as well and you also need to recognize that defending the President is just as valid as criticizing the President. Otherwise, you have a bit of a conflict of standards going on there. And if Will Pitt or whoever isn't prepared to deal with that kind of feed back, then its probably unwise to be posting such things on a public forum DESIGNED for giving and receiving feedback about the things you are posting.
WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)Did you take those attacks personally? How about all the "-gates" -- did you take those attacks personally?
Jesus, "Democrats" on this site need to toughen the fuck up.
steve2470
(37,457 posts)We already are tough. DU is supposed to be somewhat of a safe haven. It's always been this way, since the beginning. You can criticize Democrats but there's a line you don't cross.
ConservativeDemocrat
(2,720 posts)These days, trolls like that are lauded.
- C.D. Proud Member of the Reality Based Community
WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)Are you accusing Will Pitt of trolling?
ConservativeDemocrat
(2,720 posts)Written specifically to get a rise out of people?
Come on. That's plain as day.
- C.D. Proud Member of the Reality Based Community
WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)I imagine the e-mails to Skinner are flying, in an effort to get him banned. Better Believe It will no longer be the BOG's crowning glory. Bra-vo, Will Pitt.
phleshdef
(11,936 posts)I believe his post should've been trashed though.
ConservativeDemocrat
(2,720 posts)But the whole "Republicans libeled Clinton, therefore DUers should be able to do the same to Obama" argument is stupid.
- C.D. Proud Member of the Reality Based Community
phleshdef
(11,936 posts)And its not even a matter of "can they do the same to Obama" but more of a matter of "when they do, we can and SHOULD set them straight". The attitude by some seems to imply that harsh criticism is okay but harsh defense isn't and that's just a double standard.
Number23
(24,544 posts)are saying.
WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)But many here have a major hard-on for Pitt, and it seems to me they're not going to let up.
cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)completely understandable. The very notion of losing my OTHER HALF brings tears to my eyes if I dwell on it long enough. I cannot imagine a life without Her. My love for my Wife is eternal. I'd like to think I'd stop a bullet for her? A politician? ANY politician? Not so much. If my Wife's life were on the line, I'd be lashing out at God, my neighbors, people in the supermarket, the next cop to drive past me on the boulevard... I'd be lashing out at the WORLD. Try, if you can, TRY to understand his words in that context.
So even though the question wasn't asked of me; Yeah, I seriously think he wasn't being deliberately inflammatory, and wasn't specifically trying to get a rise out of "people".
I'm like that... I have empathy rather than blind loyalty, and politicians are just that... politicians.
Autumn
(45,120 posts)If trolls like that were tombstoned that's one magnificent trick
phleshdef
(11,936 posts)Autumn
(45,120 posts)wounds from the selection of bush by the supreme court. And then the fucking bush years kicked into high gear and Clinton was irrelevant other than a fond memory for some of us , and then later we all learned what a fucking douche Clinton was. I'm sure you can still see a post crop up once in a while snarking and trashing old Bill . In fact I saw a reference to his cigar just the other day by another high profile DUer but a jury let it stand too.
laundry_queen
(8,646 posts)both bashing Bill Clinton and worshipping the 'big dawg'. It wasn't really all that different from how people react to PBO here, except that it was maybe a little less passionate because BC was not the current pres at the time.
ProSense
(116,464 posts)That kind of attack isn't supposed to be condoned by Democrats, and worse it was about as fact-free as some of the RW attacks.
phleshdef
(11,936 posts)The Republicans in control of Congress worked with Clinton. The country was in decent shape because of that.
I was a teenager when Clinton was in office and never knew about Vincent Foster or any of that shit until many years later. The only big thing with Clinton was the Lewinsky shit and yea, I was really offended by the whole impeachment thing related to that. It was political theatre meant to ruin Clinton's legacy.
Still Clinton was never disrespected the way Obama has been. Clinton was never obstructed the way Obama has been. Clinton had a good 8 years, even with impeachment bullshit being pulled.
And no, we don't need to toughen the fuck up. Sticking up for our elected leaders, having their backs when they are being wronged, that IS being tough. More Democrats need to be out there sticking up for the leader of our party instead of wallowing in this cynical, knee jerk shit fest nonsense.
steve2470
(37,457 posts)WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)Last edited Fri Mar 21, 2014, 02:28 AM - Edit history (1)
Many of his policies do not make me want to "have his back" (what genius came up with that expression?). Honestly, I don't really trust him. And I'm not "sticking up" for policy I don't believe in just because he has a D next to his name.
After 8 years of Bush we needed "revolution," not Obama's Captain Bipartisanship bullshit. I live in NC and have watched Republicans seize power and destroy DECADES of progress in a matter of MONTHS. I'm scratching my head as to why Obama and the Democrats didn't approach early 2009 the same way, only using their power for good, rather than destruction. What a colossally wasted opportunity! Speaking of NC, Obama needs to get his ass down here and help Senator Kay Hagan sell his SIGNATURE LEGISLATION. She's vulnerable.
Cha
(297,655 posts)Whisp
(24,096 posts)funny that people don't get what that means.
WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)but, yes, Clinton was criticized by Democrats.
Cha
(297,655 posts)WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)ProSense
(116,464 posts)WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)I never suggested Clinton was accused of murder by Democrats.
Many on this site seem to be forgetting one Richard Mellon Scaife and his deep-pocketed attacks on the Clintons. Everyone can spin all they want, Obama is not the only Democratic president who's had a rough go of it. DUers know Republicans are the enemy, too bad he didn't figure it out until recently, finally finding that magic pen (and telephone).
ProSense
(116,464 posts)"I never suggested Clinton was accused of murder by Democrats. "
...let's see:
The Clintons were accused of murder.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024700249#post188
By Dems?
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024700249#post204
I know it's hard for some to accept...
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024700249#post264
WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)clicking on ProSense links.
phleshdef
(11,936 posts)You know what you said. ProSense doesn't even need to point it out.
WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)All the blue links in the world won't change that.
ProSense
(116,464 posts)WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)As stimulating as this has been, I'm off to bed.
ProSense
(116,464 posts)Pitt can be a bit of dick, too.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024700249#post82
...saying that?
WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)Pitt can be a bit of dick, too.
Snowden doesn't phase me.
Obama definitely has some slickie boy used car salesman in him, just like so many other politicians. (Yes, Virginia, Obama *is* a politician.)
I agree with them sometimes; others I don't. See how easy that is?
LOL!
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024700249#post82
Aaah, better.
Sweet dreams!
ProSense
(116,464 posts)Whisp
(24,096 posts)did you hire him as an Assistant?
phleshdef
(11,936 posts)You said Clinton was accused of murder.
She asked "By Dems?"
You said something along the lines of "Yes, Democrats criticized Clinton". Now I know you probably didn't mean they went along with the murder accusations, I'll give you the benefit of doubt on that, but you were seemingly implying that Democrats criticized Clinton at that level at least.
But again, Clinton did get his share of bullshit to deal with, but theres no way you can say its anywhere close to the bullshit Obama has had to deal with in those same regards. After what Bill Clinton dealt with when his sexual issues were brought to light, how the hell do you think Obama would fair under those same conditions? I guaran-goddamn-tee he wouldn't be allowed to place the country in any position that would enable him to leave office with a 60+% approval rating.
WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)In the first thread I also mentioned the various "-gates" Republicans launched against the Clintons, but that is being overlooked by the gotcha! club. And Dems "criticized" does not equal Dems "accused of murder."
ProSense
(116,464 posts)Denial.
WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)"Criticized" does not equal "accused of murder." But you knew that.
Whisp
(24,096 posts)Exactly my thoughts. I would rather cut my arm off than give the haters the satisfaction that I may have a criticism of the President's work. It's a very sick environment here.
steve2470
(37,457 posts)No one expects this place to be a house of worship or an echo chamber, but....wow.
Cha
(297,655 posts)I think there's a happy medium between Yahoo comments/YouTube comments and BarackObamaTempleUnderground.com. I think we're getting too far towards Yahoo. The POS tirade was well over the line.
thanks, steve.
steve2470
(37,457 posts)phleshdef
(11,936 posts)Bobbie Jo
(14,341 posts)egduj
(805 posts)the preceding president.
phleshdef
(11,936 posts)egduj
(805 posts)I withdraw my broad brush statement.
phleshdef
(11,936 posts)Bush got to have his way with the country for almost his entire tenure and the Dems, after taking power in 2006, never shut the government down, never played games with the debt ceiling. They worked with Bush to pass all the normal "business of government" type bills. They never went after Bush for phony scandals, they didn't even go after him for the real ones. They never heckled him during a state of the union. No Democratic governor got up in Bush's face. Bush's base gave him the benefit of the doubt on the right. He got his way on just about everything his first four years and a good deal of everything his last four years. He was given free reign to destroy the economy, blow up the debt and pull us into 2 painfully long, obscenely expensive wars.
So yea, I call bullshit on your premise.
betsuni
(25,615 posts)This is exactly what I think. The extreme dog pile everywhere. I've never had to do so much research just to find out what's really going on in a simple news story because of all the misinformation. In Clinton's day everyone still socialized in D.C. and still had to work together and that hasn't been the case for many years. This is a unique situation.
KittyWampus
(55,894 posts)betsuni
(25,615 posts)steve2470
(37,457 posts)steve2470
(37,457 posts)My only comment is, a line is crossed when you call a President a "piece of shit used-car salesman". Yes, we called Shrub that and worse. However, DU is supposed to be somewhat of a safe haven for Democrats and their sympathizers. Should we have called Shrub those nasty vile things ? Some would say yes, some would say no. It was certainly allowed here and even encouraged, perhaps. Shrub certainly deserved the vitriol and then some. A nice cell in the Hague, IMHO.
I completely understand rage and frustration about healthcare, insurance companies and the shortcomings of the ACA. I just don't think targeting President Obama for the vitriol is ok. Yes, every poster here has free speech, no arguments.
If the day ever comes when I feel the need to call President Obama a "piece of shit used-car salesman", I'll quit DU forever and go post at PissedOffAtPoliticiansUnderground.
I know I changed no one's mind with this. I'll just agree to disagree with those who don't see it my way.
Have a pleasant evening, cali.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)completely. The guy is (understandably) very upset about his current situation, which neither he nor his wife has done anything to deserve. I think having compassion for the Pitts is the most important thing here, honestly.
steve2470
(37,457 posts)I think all decent DU'ers should and do agree on that point. The current system sucks. The old system sucked. Unfortunately, for many, the system will continue to suck for a while.
People can get rather....brusque in GD. I'm not perfect in that regard. I do have compassion for them.
The whole shitstorm about WillPitt needs to end. Dead horse, etc.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)...
kestrel91316
(51,666 posts)You don't fool anyone who's paying attention.
lumpy
(13,704 posts)cali
(114,904 posts)B) Whenever I can praise him, I do. Do a freakin' search. C) I personally would not call him that. I didn't like seeing it and I wish Will hadn't said it. Nevertheless, I understand that his anger came from a place of fear about his wife's condition. Was it misplaced? I think so. Do I think Will should say that? Yes.
Stop making stuff up about me. I've never called President Obama anything like that. I criticize policies and his pro corporate bent.
ReRe
(10,597 posts)... of being the "pearl clutcher," by the end of the thread, now did you? The Hero "Trolling for Obama" worship here is getting way out of hand. They sow seeds of discord among us. All I can say is I sincerely hope they have insurance good enough to cover psychological counseling and get the care they need. Something tells me that PO himself would not defend the behavior of these childish trolls, who look at themselves as his defender!
Capt. Obvious
(9,002 posts)Very apt
Niceguy1
(2,467 posts)He is a good guy, married to a great gal.
In the end he is still a politician and should be treated as such.
aikoaiko
(34,183 posts)We don't have to sound like asshat freeper jerks when criticizing the president.
DesMoinesDem
(1,569 posts)ProSense
(116,464 posts)The attack in question was disgusting and ill-informed.
DesMoinesDem
(1,569 posts)Cha
(297,655 posts)think that's "deifying" him. But, this is oke dokey..
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4686372
And, when all else fails bring up the BOG..
phleshdef
(11,936 posts)Not that your characterization is actually true to begin with... but the double standard of "criticism = good", "defense = bad" has to be addressed.
JoePhilly
(27,787 posts)The ACA is either good or bad, there is no in between.
Same with the President.
And the same on every other topic discussed around here.
If its not great ... its the worst thing to ever happen, until the next thing that's the worst. thing that's ever happened.
Their outrage meter stays pegged to 11 at all times.
steve2470
(37,457 posts)GD is 99.999% negative towards the President. BOG is 99.999% positive. I don't have an issue with that. If I choose to constructively criticize the President, I take it to GD or Politics 2014.
grasswire
(50,130 posts)I wonder how many Democrats hated Bill Clinton back in the day.
I don't see how a POTUS can be universally loved by his party.
That said, I don't think Will hates Obama. I think Will is just extremely disillusioned and feels betrayed, as do many Democrats today.
I watched Obama on the Ellen show today. He's so cool, so attractive. Easy to like. I like the man. But I DO NOT like everything he has done or failed to do.
And what I DO dislike is Obama's squad of fluffers. I hated the Bushbots and I dislike the Obamabots, who are quite comparable to the Bushbots in blind allegiance. They really are doing Obama no favors. They earn him no favor. Quite the contrary, actually.
Puzzledtraveller
(5,937 posts)djean111
(14,255 posts)Can't be said enough. The accusation that anyone who does not revere him is a troll has me thinking that some are deliberately trying to drive liberals and progressives out of the party - and who benefits from that? The disdainful sneering at liberals, all the while saying we are responsible for any losses, is a pretty fucking stupid tactic. Some days the disdain and sneering has me wondering if this is a group i want to be associated with. And I think that is the purpose of it.
Tierra_y_Libertad
(50,414 posts)Rosa Luxemburg
One leader, one people, signifies one master and millions of slaves. Albert Camus
pragmatic_dem
(410 posts)compliance. We all get enough of that shit from 9 to 5, or 9 to 9 including weekends for many of us (while being paid as if we were only working 9 to 5).
Last thing people need is to be treated like subservient employees by a political party that claims to represent us.
pnwmom
(108,994 posts)was that he was repeating false statements about the ACA.
We are in the last week of sign-ups and we don't need distraught people drawing hundreds of recs who are saying things that are simply untrue.
He said that there was no point for him to consider the other 9 insurers in his state because his "friend" (some friend) told him it was a "waste of time" because insurers outside of the exchange would reject his wife because of her preexisting condition. And that is false. The rules of the ACA apply to all insurers, both inside and outside the exchanges. They can't reject you because you are sick, or charge you more, or dump you if you get sick, or set lifetime or annual limits..
And they must offer drugs in every single category of drugs -- even expensive M.S. drugs -- though they don't have to offer each competing brand or generic in that category. And there is a way to quickly appeal internally, and then externally, and there is a way to have a doctor request an exemption if you need a special medication.
At the point he posted his first, furious post, he hadn't done any of that yet, and he appeared to be giving up based on false information. I don't blame him in the slightest for being on fire because of his wife. But I didn't think the misinformation he was highlighting should go unanswered.
This is part of what he said in that first explosive thread:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4686037
"There are ten different health insurance companies in NH. According to the independent (family friend, ally) insurance adjuster I spoke to at length this afternoon, pursuing coverage with any of them would be a waste of time. Why? Because - according to dude - the whole "You cannot deny coverage to people with pre-existing conditions" thing only applies to insurance companies within the ACA network. You heard all that shit about "Grandfathering." Well, this is that, and all of them will turn us down because they still can.
"I am in the process of running down the facts of the matter, but family friend and ally was confident enough to basically tell us not to bother. "
Whisp
(24,096 posts)Why, is anyone's guess.
One thing I did learn from that tho is investigative journalism is not his niche. At one post I believe it was said that it's been 2 or 3 months working on this problem...
Just doesn't add up.
pnwmom
(108,994 posts)His email boilerplate had this disclaimer at the end about the insurers being able to reject the application, and I knew that wasn't true. I finally asked him in December why it said that and he acknowledged that the law was changing on January 1. And yet the boilerplate still hadn't changed after January 1.
I ended up doing the research myself and dumping the agent. I felt like the choices he was giving me were based on what was easiest for him, not necessarily best for my son and his GF.
grasswire
(50,130 posts)....for his book on the run-up to the Iraq war?
D D D D.
grasswire
(50,130 posts).....that the professional body of work of Will Pitt is being disparaged right here on DU, picked up on google. Twice, in one thread. You seem determined to damage that reputation.
pnwmom
(108,994 posts)Will Pitt was here cursing out and disparaging the "professional body of work" of President Obama. And Will was doing that because he was furious based on misinformation some agent-"friend" gave him about the ACA.
I don't blame him for being beside himself about his wife and her health. But his fan club should recognize that he was getting lots of recs here for saying things about the ACA that are wrong -- with only about a week before the end of the sign-up period. They shouldn't blame those of us who are trying to set the record straight.
Whisp
(24,096 posts)he is supposed to be some kind of noble and not have to follow the same rules us pathetic serfs do? Does he have a set of pom poms to give to his adoration of the Pitt Tiger Beat fan club like Obama apparently does?
Do you have an idea how many books are published and gt on that list? Lots. Are we to give each of those people extra rights us commoners don't?
this is good belly laugh and eyeball roll exercise, please continue.
treestar
(82,383 posts)grasswire
(50,130 posts)Bluenorthwest
(45,319 posts)treestar (40,648 posts)
457. There is nothing bigoted about the fact
There there is only one right you do not have. And people who give no credit to Obama for what he did already while making as if it is the only issue that matters are just wrong. There's always going to be some new demand. I am a woman and we don't have all our rights all the time, or some are threatened, but this is the US where we can talk about it, protest and I don't go around saying I have no rights. Not when looking at women in Pakistan or Saudi Arabia for instance.
If I am a bigot for caring about other issues, then fine. I don't think gay marriage is the only civil rights issue there is. Or the only issue that matters. And there is free speech. And the rest of the bill of rights. You should be ashamed for not caring about anyone or anything else."
http://www.democraticunderground.com/113727459
Of course LGBT people have no protections in employment nor in housing from the Federal government and obtaining those rights is a constant battle which Democrats should be aware of and supportive of. We are missing many, many rights.
You never said sorry. You hid behind Obama and Biden and say LGBT should be ashamed and accuse us of not caring about others.
The idea of you claiming others are speaking harshly is disgusting. You have no standing to make such claims.
Capt. Obvious
(9,002 posts)Will it be "some people make everything too personal"
Rex
(65,616 posts)Then again the poster in question cannot be taken seriously by me, I've seen way too much stuff like that.
pnwmom
(108,994 posts)And he was saying things he that weren't true.
Whisp
(24,096 posts)funny how that works but when a person puts out false information on one thing, or is just too lazy to check out the facts before blowing gaskets, other things he writes takes on a bit of that same stain.
Lars39
(26,116 posts)Whisp
(24,096 posts)before he blows off - and that is the #1 rule for journalism with integrity. So it's a natural question to wonder if he did this at other times too - just didn't look into things deep enough before spouting.
I haven't read the book, nor ever will. I imagine it was popular here as that time everyone here was on the right side and worked together against that mass murdering chimp.
Lars39
(26,116 posts)Whisp
(24,096 posts)It's on the record. It's more about someone who should be careful about fact checking if it's integral to the livelihood.
Karl Rove Indicted!
Say what?
Yes, sure as shit I got the scoop - he's perping this Friday
No way, where'd you hear that?
I got sources, reliable sources!
it's Friday, where's the walk?
No No I meant the Other Friday with the longer business hours!
I think you are full of shit,
No way, you f! why don't you just go and ing die. How dare you challenge me, you !!!
Capt. Obvious
(9,002 posts)pnwmom
(108,994 posts)in this situation, for understandable reasons, and he panicked and vented, rather than pursuing the facts first.
treestar
(82,383 posts)and can afford whatever drugs are needed without worry.
KittyWampus
(55,894 posts)meds for his wife all the more strange. Don't you think?
Cha
(297,655 posts)James Schlarmann.. the reality based community. Not the raging types to garner clicks
Whisp
(24,096 posts)Sounds like a Stephen King book.
I just thought journalists had this ethical thing about finding facts,
the who what where when why questions, but that may be old school.
It's not the 5W's these days, it's the 5 F words, maybe?
Cha
(297,655 posts)when that happened and those who didn't have their facts straight were properly shunned.
Fortunately there's still some around.. can you imagine if every single journalist didn't give a shite about facts? Like fox and their truther brigade or Putin's RT?
We're actually Lucky we can discern!
MFM008
(19,818 posts)just adding nothing here....
treestar
(82,383 posts)BS it was "pearl clutching."
But we know defending Obama would bother you. How dare anyone do that?
lostincalifornia
(3,639 posts)Them everyday, and they don't go bonkers. They try to see what they need to do to remedy the issue
steve2470
(37,457 posts)Response to cali (Original post)
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LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)before it gets hidden.
Cali isn't your public servant, she doesn't accept voter anger as part of her job. Obama is, and managing voter anger is part of the job.
Drunken Irishman
(34,857 posts)Obama is also a human being who, mind you, is a Democrat. We wouldn't tolerate right-wing trolls spouting off that type of crap to the President. Why should we tolerate it when it's supposedly our own?
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)It's like saying bad shit behind someone's back and it won't get back to them.
Different than telling someone to their face "f*** you".
Drunken Irishman
(34,857 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)All adults have to put up with the heat from what they say.
Not just the President.
fleabiscuit
(4,542 posts)Since when did cali gain the STATE power POTUS has? Ridiculous.
donheld
(21,311 posts)This time is no different. While I don't totally think the President is a used car salesman piece of shit, I can understand where Will is coming from. I very much think he had a right to post that rant.
lostincalifornia
(3,639 posts)truebluegreen
(9,033 posts)donheld
(21,311 posts)Obama is not a deity.
lostincalifornia
(3,639 posts)pnwmom
(108,994 posts)His agent-"friend" lied to him when he told him not to "waste his time" checking into the 9 other insurers in NH, saying that all those insurers would reject his wife for her preexisting condition. And then Will flipped out . . . instead of getting the true facts . . . and then he repeated the lie here and got hundreds of recs.
The truth is that under the ACA, no insurer, either on or off the exchange, can reject a customer on the basis of her health, or charge her more, or drop her if she gets sick, or limit annual or yearly benefits.
I think his "friend" was feeling lazy and didn't want to check out the alternatives himself so he told Will there was no point. Some friend. But I really expected Will would have been smarter than that. How could such a smart, well informed man -- someone for whom health care issues were critical -- not understand by now the really basic facts about the ACA? I'm still mystified.
Whisp
(24,096 posts)hey, anything is possible knowing what we know now.
1. Facts Schmacts
2. If it maligns Obama, it's cool
3. Clicks n' Clickz
randome
(34,845 posts)[hr][font color="blue"][center]You should never stop having childhood dreams.[/center][/font][hr]
donheld
(21,311 posts)He had every right to react as he did. I believe Will spent many many minutes if not hours dealing with this. It's a very emotional, anxious thing he had to go through. If he had some facts wrong help him through that process. Don't tell him he cannot speak about the President the way he did.
pnwmom
(108,994 posts)I hated to think that he could have influenced even one person who needed insurance from bothering to pursue it, on the basis that Will Pitt said it would be a waste of time. A person with a serious preexisting condition could delay signing up now and have to wait all the way till next January for coverage, and that would be a shame.
But I never criticized him for his anger and his language. I knew where that was coming from, even though I believe it was misdirected.
theboss
(10,491 posts)It was an ugly, pointless rant that was not based on any reality.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)using a heavy hand, beating on people for thinking differently than you, and generally being a negative simply because a human being dared to criticize government policy, I'd imagine it is a shock when suddenly people stand up and say "No More".
You can only ridicule, deride and disdain people that are true to their Democratic beliefs too long.
Douglas Carpenter
(20,226 posts)msongs
(67,441 posts)politicman
(710 posts)For all you Obama worshippers, (and believe me I like Obama, his good outweighs his bad), stop being so damn protective of this president when he disappoints.
We criticize Obama simply because we like him and he has disappointed on a few things.
We hold Obama to a higher standard than other presidents, simply because we think he is a better person than other presidents.
So when Obama uses a drone program that kills innocents, when Obama authoritizes illegal wiretapping, when Obama gives up the fight for single payer, when Obama caves to the GOP on many issues, when Obama leaves plenty of Bush appointees in high level government positions, when Obama kowtows to the 1%ers, etc, etc, we lash out at him simply because we view Obama (coming from a community organizer background) as our last chance for a president to effect the meaningful change that America so dearly needs.
Obama could have had the whole world fawning all over America again, instead he does many things that previous presidents have done simply to avoid the backlash from Republicans who even if he did what the want will still criticise him, so why he kowtows to them I have no idea.
Enthusiast
(50,983 posts)Wake the fuck up, people!
DebJ
(7,699 posts)and actually did something to make a difference in elections between 2003 and 2010.
It was the constant flow of threads with information on issues, people's positions, who was running where,
etc. Great quotes and votes references on McCain, et al, that helped me to change voters minds.
I got so involved that eventually I was asked to introduce Ted Kennedy on CNN when he came to York Pa,
something I NEVER thought I'd do, stand up in front of so many people and on TV yet.
That's all because of DU.
Can we PLEASE get back to that now? I think everyone has had ample opportunity to post their opinions
on this issue. I can understand both sides... or, maybe three sides: a)bad for future elections to be name-calling and nastily disrespectful instead of issue-focused 2) sometimes people just need to vent their frustrations at politicians and 3) have some empathy for someone who is in fear for his spouse's life...if you haven't been there yet, just hope you never will be!
NOW LET'S GET TO WORK LADIES AND GENTLEMAN!
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)It's like the moment the doctor comes out and gives you horrible news about your loved one.
You turn to Mom, or his Mom, or your sister and start screaming at them. Blaming them for everything that ever went wrong in your life.
Because you know they will grab your shoulders, give you a crushing hug and let you cry for a few minutes.
Then you all square your shoulders and deal with what's coming.
THAT'S how friends and family deal with soul crushing news.
Now, let's DEAL.
jsr
(7,712 posts)so, you need to be out there everyday raising these issues, telling us when were doing the right or wrong thing. My role is to be President of the United States, and your role is to be a strong voice for people who arent always heard."
randome
(34,845 posts)That's not supplying information, it's not helpful, it's not doing anything but throwing a temper tantrum. With children, it works to ignore them and they usually settle down. It doesn't work so well for adults.
[hr][font color="blue"][center]Don't ever underestimate the long-term effects of a good night's sleep.[/center][/font][hr]
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)Perhaps the Obama Cheerleading Squad would have been wisely advised to ignore him.
Kinda like that day the Vice President of the United States told a sitting senator to "go fuck yourself."
Right?
randome
(34,845 posts)You don't need to be part of a cheerleading squad to have disdain for writing that sounds like it came from someone with tourette's syndrome.
[hr][font color="blue"][center]I'm always right. When I'm wrong I admit it.
So then I'm right about being wrong.[/center][/font][hr]
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)you never have to deal with that moment....
When you open a letter from some bureaucrat saying your loved one won't get the recommended medical care.
When you're standing in a private room at the hospital ER and the doctor comes in and says "We did all we could, but we couldn't revive him."
When you're surrounded by loved ones when the horrible news arrives.
When you lash out at anyone and everyone because your whole world just crashed in on you.
When you just need to rant....
Because, I can tell you first hand how soul crushing and horrible those moments are. I sincerely hope you never have to deal with any of them, much less all.
JoePhilly
(27,787 posts)Doesn't happen to her, and my sister, anymore.
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)So, do you think you can find some empathy for those who are still dealing with it?
Or is your idol just too important for you to find some humanity to expend on your fellow travelers along this road?
JoePhilly
(27,787 posts)In fact, within WillPitt's original rant, I provided references to materials he could find on the National MS Society's web site.
I have a friend with MS who has looked to that organization for help in the past when an insurance company would try to deny a treatment or drug.
See, that used to happen before the ACA too, and unfortunately, although its now mush less frequent, it can still happen. The ACA didn't solve every problem, nor do I know of anyone who has ever said it does.
In any case, I have a great deal of empathy for some one who is suffering (like Will's wife). I have less empathy for one who is throwing a tantrum and pointing their anger in the wrong direction (like Will himself).
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)would have been more appropriate than an alert.
What happens in those moments is "finger pointing" at people who are supposed to understand your pain and help you through it.
I repeat, lashing out at Mom, or his Mom, or Sis in those moments is typical. Because you know that those people will grab you by the shoulders, give you a chest crushing hug and let you cry.
Instead, on DU, we get an American Idol moment when Obama supporters believe hitting the alert button is their vote for their idol for this week.
JoePhilly
(27,787 posts)I sent help. That is what I did.
And, I said nothing to Will about his tantrum.
The problem with your family love fest story is that Will tends to throw tantrums.
He's not looking for hugs and sympathy, he's looking for folks to join his tantrum. And he got plenty of that in his thread.
I sent help, more help than most of those who cheered his anti-Obama ranting.
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)you couldn't get a jury to agree with you, so Will Pitt became the enemy. Even though he's on your side.
Throwing mutual supporters overboard isn't going to win the next race. When you make every effort to drown supporters who dare to disagree with you, you eventually run out of voters.
Good luck with that.
JoePhilly
(27,787 posts)I did not alert on Will's OP.
Didn't try to get a jury to side with me on anything.
You seem very confused.
Which I'm starting to think is a common thing for you.
1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)Now I can go on with my life!
randr
(12,414 posts)Looking at this post today makes me wonder how much we have started to sound like the Republicans.
If we keep up with this it will be easy for us to lose the Senate.
All politicians require scrutiny, I personally feel Obama has done things that we would be demanding impeachment for if he were Republican, yet know without him we would be far worse off.
I am very glad to hear Will's wife has found a source for the meds she requires. I will forgive and forget Will's rant because I understand where he was coming from.
I hope all who are concerned, what ever for, take their frustration to their elected reps and let them know what happened to Will's family.
Write Obama about it and demand this situation be fixed in the ACA.
We deserve Health Care, not Health Insurance.
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)DU has become the mirror of Freerepublic!!!!!!! Yikes!
Survival of the fit; Darwinism at it's finest. Right here on DU.
Lack of empathy because Will Pitt dared to tell Obama "go fuck yourself" just like the Vice President did to Patrick Leahy.
Cheering for the ACA version of Dick Cheney!
Never thought I'd see it on DU.
Whisp
(24,096 posts)LordGlenconner
(1,348 posts)And the war in Syria that never happened, chained CPI etc.
Lots of pearl clutching from the OP and others with those issues as well.
sufrommich
(22,871 posts)of posters who regularly post at DU,but I never ,ever promote this site to other democrats. It's not really a very welcoming site for your average democrat,nor is it very useful for actual,realistic discussion regarding the democratic party.
DanTex
(20,709 posts)Yelling "fuck you" at Obama over what (unsurprisingly) turned out to be yet another phony ACA horror story is a teabagger move. It is a little surprising to see the same Fox News narrative (Obamacare destroyed my life!) parroted here at DU. Yes, people get mad at politicians. People (Democrats, at least) also take issue with someone lashing out randomly and irrationally at Obama.
RetroLounge
(37,250 posts)This place is mostly a joke.
How I miss the old days before these true-believer posters got out of high school.
RL