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Ancestry/Genealogy

RestoreAmerica2020

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23. Just say NO, no excuses, no explanations needed. . Go with your gut instinct.

Reply to CountAllVotes (Original post)

Mon Sep 11, 2017, 01:25 PM

Sep 2017

also if you feel its necessary change your phone number and have it unlisted or if you do not want to change your number get called I'D it's not that much more a month then that way you dont have to pick up any calls you dont want.

Take care.

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Not sure how to reply [View all] CountAllVotes Sep 2017 OP

Just tell her! cilla4progress Sep 2017 #1

I agree drmeow Sep 2017 #3

I mentioned it to her CountAllVotes Sep 2017 #6

I just wonder why she's insisting on coming Warpy Sep 2017 #28

I agree: just tell her. Besides, the tone fierywoman Sep 2017 #2

Especially since it's her ex's family... More_Cowbell Sep 2017 #4

She has a child by her ex CountAllVotes Sep 2017 #9

Ah, thanks for more information More_Cowbell Sep 2017 #33

Your are right CountAllVotes Sep 2017 #35

Your first impression is usually the right one. sandensea Sep 2017 #5

Tell her your parole officer sharp_stick Sep 2017 #7

LOL! (nt) Sylvere Oct 2017 #38

At some point you just have to be cilla4progress Sep 2017 #8

You know ... CountAllVotes Sep 2017 #14

Yes CountAllVotes Sep 2017 #19

She's researching her ex's family? cyclonefence Sep 2017 #10

Actually that is true CountAllVotes Sep 2017 #15

Well, then, to hell with her! cyclonefence Sep 2017 #29

Just to be fair, she is researching her child's father's family as well... Thor_MN Sep 2017 #32

Not going to print and mail hard copies. CountAllVotes Sep 2017 #36

She's an 'X', of a 'distant' cousin... WePurrsevere Sep 2017 #11

I wouldn't trust anyone I didn't know to come to my home.. LakeArenal Sep 2017 #12

It was nice for awhile until ... CountAllVotes Sep 2017 #18

That's so nice of you More_Cowbell Sep 2017 #34

On letting unknown people come to your home dragonlady Sep 2017 #20

This woman sound pushy. Croney Sep 2017 #13

Tell her no! CozyMystery Sep 2017 #16

Right! Don't beat around the bush! CountAllVotes Sep 2017 #17

Well, I have an ex shanti Nov 2017 #39

I've had many requests from my Ancestry research GentryDixon Sep 2017 #21

Interesting CountAllVotes Sep 2017 #22

You missed my point. GentryDixon Sep 2017 #24

Thanks for the clarification CountAllVotes Sep 2017 #25

I cancelled mine a few years ago. GentryDixon Sep 2017 #31

Just say NO, no excuses, no explanations needed. . Go with your gut instinct. RestoreAmerica2020 Sep 2017 #23

Write to her vlyons Sep 2017 #26

say no, block if there is further contact from her. irisblue Sep 2017 #27

My vote is No!!! blue cat Sep 2017 #30

Update CountAllVotes Sep 2017 #37