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LostOne4Ever

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36. There is no better weapon to fight against hate, than compassion

Sun Mar 16, 2014, 11:14 PM

Mar 2014

Hate begets hate and anger begets rage. The only way to break free from the broken circle of hate and violence is not to take part in it.

I oppose the man and all he ever stood for, but I hope that his passing is as painless as possible and that his family is comforted...and hopefully one day enlightened to their bigoted behaviour so that they can change and make amends.

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Regarding Phelps. [View all] MarianJack Mar 2014 OP

I don't wish suffering on him, and I don't think he will go to Hell The Velveteen Ocelot Mar 2014 #1

having to be Fred Phelps was miserable enough, imo eShirl Mar 2014 #2

Suffering? No. Protest of this despicable person's funeral? Hell yeah. Lint Head Mar 2014 #3

I think a better protest would be a silent one with a rainbow flag or banner. Zero expressions of Luminous Animal Mar 2014 #13

For one to deny hate is to deny humanity. Lint Head Mar 2014 #28

And to embrace hate is to become a monster. Lancero Mar 2014 #67

There are gray areas of hate which is the Lint Head Mar 2014 #75

There is a diffrence between feeling hatred and embracing hatred... Lancero Mar 2014 #78

Good. No one is doing any of these things so there are no "monsters" on DU. Lint Head Mar 2014 #86

Well, then remember what Bette Davis said about speaking ill of the dead. calimary Mar 2014 #14

I hope he goes peacefully. Mojo Electro Mar 2014 #4

He created the monster that is now hurting him. That's punishment enough for his dying days.... Hekate Mar 2014 #5

Well... Lost_Count Mar 2014 #6

I don't frankly care what it does to HIM! MarianJack Mar 2014 #84

I understand what you are getting at. PowerToThePeople Mar 2014 #7

May I ask a personal question? (And totally understand if you don't answer.) Do you believe in God? Luminous Animal Mar 2014 #15

Agnostic. PowerToThePeople Mar 2014 #21

I'm an atheist and if I were to protest, I'd toss love back at him. Luminous Animal Mar 2014 #24

That was good PowerToThePeople Mar 2014 #31

Hugs. I really appreciate your lovely heartfelt response. Luminous Animal Mar 2014 #35

To quote Clarence Darrow dflprincess Mar 2014 #8

I will read Fred's obituary with great pleasure. The Velveteen Ocelot Mar 2014 #12

For sure. dflprincess Mar 2014 #19

Mark Twain's quote is good. backscatter712 Mar 2014 #22

That's a very old premise, we're BETTER. No, we're not. We are all just human. n/t UTUSN Mar 2014 #9

Perhaps you are not but I am. It was a very important part of my liberal upbringing. Luminous Animal Mar 2014 #16

Thank you. No 840high Mar 2014 #29

Well, add me to your list of who you're better than. I can never be more than "all too human." n/t UTUSN Mar 2014 #69

Well said.. thank you. Cha Mar 2014 #10

Love ya, I feel the same way. xoxox nt babylonsister Mar 2014 #11

The man deserves at least a little of the misery he helped dish out. No sympathy whatsoever. blkmusclmachine Mar 2014 #17

I don't want him to suffer, I just want him to be with his god as soon as possible. Autumn Mar 2014 #18

That's pretty much how I feel about it. GoCubsGo Mar 2014 #20

God rest his soul maindawg Mar 2014 #23

according to Topeka Capital-Journal, he's in hospice eShirl Mar 2014 #25

In Buddhism, hell is not a place, it's a condition of life we experience. Someone as full of hatred DesertDiamond Mar 2014 #26

This man had to be bribed with radio airtime to keep him from protesting a 9-year-old's funeral jmowreader Mar 2014 #27

Sorry. I hope he is pain and suffers rpannier Mar 2014 #30

What you want him to go through won't effect HIM at all. MarianJack Mar 2014 #82

Fuck that guy. zappaman Mar 2014 #32

I hope he's suffering, both mentally and physically. Vashta Nerada Mar 2014 #33

You could have ... 3catwoman3 Mar 2014 #58

Why? Vashta Nerada Mar 2014 #60

I'm sorry I didn't make my point more clearly, as I ... 3catwoman3 Mar 2014 #62

For some, the ego wants/needs revenge. flvegan Mar 2014 #34

There is no better weapon to fight against hate, than compassion LostOne4Ever Mar 2014 #36

Thank you. Yes. nt babylonsister Mar 2014 #52

Our moment. LiberalAndProud Mar 2014 #37

I wish the rainbow-painted house across the street catrose Mar 2014 #38

Birth isn't easy... ReRe Mar 2014 #39

That... man... made a career out of hurting humans that were already grieving loss. AtheistCrusader Mar 2014 #40

"He'll never be held to account." But he is. babylonsister Mar 2014 #59

I have a regret. AtheistCrusader Mar 2014 #72

I do not wish suffering on anyone awoke_in_2003 Mar 2014 #41

He won't be missed. deafskeptic Mar 2014 #42

If that were only true. . pipoman Mar 2014 #47

It isn't just what he did to strangers pipoman Mar 2014 #43

It took some courage to post this thread Samantha Mar 2014 #44

Thank you, Samantha! MarianJack Mar 2014 #81

Sorry there is no Hell itsrobert Mar 2014 #45

Thank you. DeSwiss Mar 2014 #46

George got that right! mountain grammy Mar 2014 #54

Yes he did. DeSwiss Mar 2014 #68

Was Fred Phelps really worth the time and energy it took you closeupready Mar 2014 #48

If only all of the people who want everyone to send love to Phelps Jamastiene Mar 2014 #65

Oh please. Daemonaquila Mar 2014 #49

As a gay man and an atheist Fearless Mar 2014 #50

Perfect! babylonsister Mar 2014 #53

This message was self-deleted by its author DinahMoeHum Mar 2014 #51

We like to think we're better than they are... Jeff In Milwaukee Mar 2014 #55

"Addicted to Hate" - link tomm2thumbs Mar 2014 #56

I tried to read that but... 3catwoman3 Mar 2014 #61

Brilliant idea. Jamastiene Mar 2014 #66

I want to try to be the better man. Oakenshield Mar 2014 #57

In all honesty, to me, whether he lives or dies, is a moot point. Jamastiene Mar 2014 #63

A thousand times "YES!!!" Behind the Aegis Mar 2014 #64

there is no heaven or hell, so the the only suffering the asshole would get for his crimes snooper2 Mar 2014 #70

Maybe his family will start to move on, or sunder into part that does, and does not move on. AtheistCrusader Mar 2014 #73

You're, of course, right Shankapotomus Mar 2014 #71

I would be dishonest to say I don't want him to suffer Marrah_G Mar 2014 #74

Some of us don't believe in Hell. Apparently. you do, which gives you the easy out stopbush Mar 2014 #76

What does the hatred and bile that so many have for Phelps do to HIM? MarianJack Mar 2014 #80

For some people, venting their anger keeps them from having ulcers. stopbush Mar 2014 #83

Oh please! MarianJack Mar 2014 #85

No finger wagging? Here's your post: stopbush Mar 2014 #87

Baloney! MarianJack Mar 2014 #88

The greatest curse I could wish upon him Kelvin Mace Mar 2014 #77

I believe that anyone who carries as much ignorance and hate in their consciousness Zorra Mar 2014 #79