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demmiblue

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Wed Jun 23, 2021, 06:11 PM Jun 2021

Britney Spears Just Told the World How Bad Her Conservatorship Really Is [View all]

“I have an IUD in my body right now that won’t let me have a baby and my conservators won’t let me go to the doctor to take it out,” Britney Spears said in a hearing on Wednesday.

Britney Spears has had enough.

The pop icon virtually went before a court Wednesday to speak publically for the first time about the conservatorship, overseen by her father, that has controlled almost every aspect of her life for 13 years .

“It is my wish and dream for all of this to end,” said Spears. “I want my life back.”

Her anger over her situation was palpable, and her tone starkly contrasted with the often saccharine persona she presents on her Instagram, which is awash with fluffy kittens, butterflies, roses, and dance routines. She seemed to be all too aware of this discrepancy.

“After I’ve told the whole world I’m okay, it’s a lie,” she said. “I’m not happy, I can’t sleep, I’m depressed, I cry every day.”

She said that she would like to be able to sue her family over the position they’ve left her in, and said that her lawyer, whom she did not choose for herself, never told her that she was able to petition to terminate the conservatorship.

“I truly believe this conservatorship is abusive,” said Spears. “My request is to end the conservatorship without being evaluated like before.”

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From the get-go, Spears was opposed to her once-estranged father asserting control over the conservatorship, according to the New York Times. Despite her position, a judge concluded that her father was best suited to take the reins.

A day before Wednesday’s hearing, the Times, citing confidential court documents, revealed that the pop icon had been trying to terminate the restrictive conservatorship agreement for years. Despite raking in millions of dollars through record-breaking albums and tours, she wasn’t allowed to have control of her own credit cards, had to seek her father’s approval for the most basic of decisions like repainting her own kitchen cabinets, and wasn’t even allowed to make new friends without him signing off first.

“He loved the control he had over me, one hundred thousand percent,” said Spears at the hearing, in reference to her father, who was reportedly not on the virtual call.

And, she noted, she didn’t understand why she was restrained by a conservatorship when she’s working. The Times also revealed that her father makes $16,000 per month as a salary for being her conservator, which is twice the monthly allowance she’s given. He also gets a cut from her world tours.


https://www.vice.com/en/article/jg8dey/britney-spears-conservatorship-abuse-court-hearing



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What happened to her is a travesty, and there are many, many more like her. WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2021 #1
Same as it ever was. demmiblue Jun 2021 #5
+1 Thanks for posting this nightmare abuse appalachiablue Jun 2021 #39
I agree Marrah_Goodman Jun 2021 #28
What an abusive situation. Baitball Blogger Jun 2021 #2
Is this slavery? nt DURHAM D Jun 2021 #3
She gets 8,000 a month. jimfields33 Jun 2021 #10
It's her effing money and what she is saying is her father Bev54 Jun 2021 #21
Sounds like it. nt RegularJam Jun 2021 #35
Hope she wins. Corgigal Jun 2021 #4
No woman should be forced to live like this. It's disgusting. n/t ms liberty Jun 2021 #6
No PERSON should be forced to live like this! Enter stage left Jun 2021 #7
I almost changed it to person but as a woman I'm getting a bit militant over this s*** lol ms liberty Jun 2021 #11
We're good... Enter stage left Jun 2021 #14
I hope she wins. Solly Mack Jun 2021 #8
That's totally abuse. Cafe Cat Jun 2021 #9
I have two minds about this. no_hypocrisy Jun 2021 #12
A trust fund with some of her assets may be a good idea. She would have control over... brush Jun 2021 #23
Good idea. I forgot about the Spendthrift Trust. no_hypocrisy Jun 2021 #24
Why can a huge portion of the population go broke... RegularJam Jun 2021 #37
Well, she's worth millions and if it's managed efficiently she won't go broke. brush Jun 2021 #40
She's 39. What she needs is a financial advisor, period. JHB Jun 2021 #25
If she lacks maturity why is she doing shows which bring in all this money ? JI7 Jun 2021 #29
Modern day slavery UpInArms Jun 2021 #13
Free Britney !! voteearlyvoteoften Jun 2021 #15
She didn't make mistakes, she had a mental break DenaliDemocrat Jun 2021 #26
Her father saved her life and fortune. Imagine if she was left alone with the Pepsidog Jun 2021 #38
None of us here has even a remote clue whats really going on. Jon King Jun 2021 #16
agree, we really don't. but the court could easily appoint stopdiggin Jun 2021 #27
Absolutely correct. There is no conspiracy to exploit her. Action were taken based upon medical Pepsidog Jun 2021 #34
Bullshit. She is paying people to imprison her. Her attorney wasn't even allowed to read the gldstwmn Jun 2021 #44
At her age, she should have the right to live her life as she wishes. She is NOT a teen any longer. Ferrets are Cool Jun 2021 #36
I agree Sgent Jun 2021 #46
Her father sounds more like a pimp than her father. lpbk2713 Jun 2021 #17
i thought the conservatorship was about controling the finances... Takket Jun 2021 #18
Apparently she's not even allowed to vote. Crunchy Frog Jun 2021 #31
They could do a limited conservatorship that gldstwmn Jun 2021 #43
Nice work if you can get it. That father is something, just raking in the dough off his daughter... brush Jun 2021 #19
That's crazy, she's being exploited to maximize her value bucolic_frolic Jun 2021 #20
All these restrictions since 2013 and yet she was touring as recently as 2018? ck4829 Jun 2021 #22
Since 2008. Crunchy Frog Jun 2021 #32
Oh my, even longer then. Brain burp on my part. ck4829 Jun 2021 #33
Before the appointment she was a mess. It's an extraordinary action to put any person Pepsidog Jun 2021 #30
That was 13 years ago. Are you the same person you were 13 years ago? gldstwmn Jun 2021 #45
ACLU article about this case... Takket Jun 2021 #41
I hope she is given the opportunity to live her own life. gldstwmn Jun 2021 #42
The fact that she has a FORCED IUD seals it for me NickB79 Jun 2021 #47
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