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sarisataka

(18,654 posts)
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 01:01 AM Jan 2015

Why your gun makes me nervous

There’s a mantra quickly repeating in my head: “Please have a badge. Please have a badge. Please have a badge.” It’s a steady heartbeat as I begin a conversation with a shop clerk and reposition myself so I can peer over her shoulder.

I’ve already seen the bulge in his jacket, and it’s clear from the size and shape that he has a holstered gun. Now my eyes are quickly scanning, hoping to find a law enforcement badge clipped to his belt.

I’m in a local bookstore and there’s a sticker near the door asking patrons not to carry weapons on the premises. My two children scurried off the moment we entered, each in search of their own treasures.

The man with the weapon is as interested with the bookstore patrons as he is with the books on display. I’ve watched him watch others. The way he tracks them is unnerving.
http://thegazette.com/subject/opinion/blogs/lynda-waddington/why-your-gun-makes-me-nervous-20150110?fb_action_ids=916845454992771&fb_action_types=og.comments

The answer seems to be- because it exists, even if only in the writer's mind. At no point does she actually view any portion of this gun/holster- she just knows.

If that man's actions make her unnerved I would likely make her manic. When out I always look at my fellow shoppers. I make eye contact and sometimes *gasp* greet them with a hello. I am neither a fugitive, a drug dealer, a rapist nor the owner of a sporting goods store.
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Why your gun makes me nervous (Original Post) sarisataka Jan 2015 OP
It was probably a colostomy bag and the guy was self-conscious. pipoman Jan 2015 #1
If an African American (or Mexican, Chinese, or other) tells you they think something is racist Electric Monk Jan 2015 #2
we can Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #7
If it was in any way comparable sarisataka Jan 2015 #11
Do you tell people that want to defend themselves that it is all in their heads? Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2015 #15
Ok, so how many times have guns saved your life? Where, without one, you'd be dead? Electric Monk Jan 2015 #18
The same number of times a seatbelt has saved my life. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2015 #19
Does your hypothetical woman carrying for self defence need a 30 round mag, bayonet lug, Electric Monk Jan 2015 #23
I'm not in favor of "taking everyone's guns away"... NaturalHigh Jan 2015 #28
My only problem with you keeping guns in your house is it increases the odds of you getting shot. nt Electric Monk Jan 2015 #29
Okay, whatever. NaturalHigh Jan 2015 #30
How many times have you been shot. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2015 #33
Once, when I was mugged. If I'd had a gun too it'd probably have made the situation even worse. Electric Monk Jan 2015 #34
And how would disarming non-criminals have improved your situation? Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2015 #37
I don't know where they got their guns. Could've been a gun show parking lot "private sale". nt Electric Monk Jan 2015 #39
Maybe even the same place they took your money to buy illegal drugs. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2015 #41
I'm sorry that happened. Veganstein Jan 2015 #118
There's a video on YouTube of a Detroit woman defending her home with an AR-15. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2015 #35
I cannot believe you cited the bayonet lung? branford Jan 2015 #40
"I'm not in favor of "taking everyone's guns away"" beevul Jan 2015 #42
I think total prohibitionists are just as unrealistic as some of the extreme rkba fanatics. nt Electric Monk Jan 2015 #45
How many of them, have you or the previous host blocked for it? beevul Jan 2015 #50
Of the 41 blocks in GCRA, 39 were blocked before I was a host, so I can't say for sure why each was. Electric Monk Jan 2015 #52
Nobody is telling you to do anything in particular. beevul Jan 2015 #53
well here is the one that got me blocked Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #59
And here is the one he was agreeing with. oneshooter Jan 2015 #61
and what was stated was totally true Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #62
Here is the blocking message. oneshooter Jan 2015 #63
I think it's safe to say you were both blocked for being already known hardcore gunthusiasts Electric Monk Jan 2015 #64
No, we were blocked Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #65
So you are saying that the host lied about the reason? n/t oneshooter Jan 2015 #66
Oopsie. I doubt *that* question will be answered... friendly_iconoclast Jan 2015 #67
You're picking nits. That host blocked you for your attitude about guns and gun control. As would I Electric Monk Jan 2015 #68
What attitude about guns or gun control Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #69
Then you admit that he lied about it in his post. n/t oneshooter Jan 2015 #79
I admit I have no way of knowing what they were actually thinking when they wrote that post. Electric Monk Jan 2015 #84
You can un-ban him krispos42 Jan 2015 #134
like that would ever happen Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #138
Are you saying the SOP of GCRA is a lie? N/T beevul Jan 2015 #70
You are obsessed. Get help. That group is NOT YOUR BUSINESS. Goodbye. Electric Monk Jan 2015 #71
Nope. I'm not obsessed. I'm just someone who has been paying attention... beevul Jan 2015 #74
quite amazing Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #75
It really is. beevul Jan 2015 #81
If what you say is true, then why isn't this poster blocked for this one post. oneshooter Jan 2015 #80
It is, however, quite telling how much you worry about it. nt Electric Monk Jan 2015 #72
Credibility and legitimacy. beevul Jan 2015 #73
we just point out Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #82
Do you and oneshooter agree with Electric Monk Jan 2015 #86
Care to drop the subject now? Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #87
But you disagree with that part of the SOP, so why do you even want to be part of the Group Electric Monk Jan 2015 #88
have a civil discussion Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #90
known hardcore gunthusiasts Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #76
you make excellent points samsingh Jan 2015 #48
This seems incredibly strange to me. Veganstein Jan 2015 #115
Good standard!!! sarisataka Jan 2015 #20
When is the last time a seatbelt or life jacket killed someone, intentionally or by mistake? nt Electric Monk Jan 2015 #24
I could look up the last time sarisataka Jan 2015 #25
Now you're shifting the goalposts. Your standard in post #20 was reducing deaths and injuries. nt Electric Monk Jan 2015 #27
No sarisataka Jan 2015 #31
Feel free to link to statistics comparing them all. I'm not going to waste time looking for you. nt Electric Monk Jan 2015 #32
Here is a start sarisataka Jan 2015 #43
I thought we were talking about seat belts and life jackets? You're shifting goalposts yet again. nt Electric Monk Jan 2015 #46
You're funny sarisataka Jan 2015 #47
i read the same comment and that's not what electric is saying samsingh Jan 2015 #49
EM has the opportunity to refute me sarisataka Jan 2015 #54
I already did, then you started changing the subject and shifting goal posts, so I'm done here. Electric Monk Jan 2015 #55
Nope- nice dodge sarisataka Jan 2015 #56
Simple answer: of course not. I didn't say that above because I thought you were being rhetorical.nt Electric Monk Jan 2015 #57
Thank you for the straight answer sarisataka Jan 2015 #58
what you think is not answering the question is in fact answering the question samsingh Jan 2015 #78
My brother in law LynnTTT Jan 2015 #77
ROFL, what a hero! A role model to gunthusiasts everywhere! Thanks for sharing :) nt Electric Monk Jan 2015 #83
You are brave to post here and argue, let me watch you and admire you randys1 Jan 2015 #26
you should thank our host Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #60
"Why do you make me angry?" NYC_SKP Jan 2015 #3
guns are changing all of us KT2000 Jan 2015 #4
Yet gun violence rates are at historic lows hack89 Jan 2015 #5
I'm bookmarking this the next "gunners are motivated by fear" post. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2015 #17
Nothing like a "guns are scary" story. ileus Jan 2015 #6
My shotgun and pistol never leave my house... NaturalHigh Jan 2015 #8
"I’ve watched him watch others. The way he tracks them is unnerving." Lurks Often Jan 2015 #9
"I’ve watched him watch others. The way he tracks them is unnerving." Brickbat Jan 2015 #10
The irony is not lost sarisataka Jan 2015 #12
I can't figure out why she does that. Brickbat Jan 2015 #13
It makes no sense sarisataka Jan 2015 #14
"irony" Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2015 #16
It's a very strange story all around. Beyond the author's distorted view of risk, it makes petronius Jan 2015 #21
I didn't read that one last night sarisataka Jan 2015 #22
Bet this was a work of fiction... ileus Jan 2015 #36
It's delusional cop-lover propaganda Man from Pickens Jan 2015 #38
Oh, I dunno, the cops seem pretty harmless to me. Nuclear Unicorn Jan 2015 #44
My husband's guns make me nervous HockeyMom Jan 2015 #51
That can't be true. It's all in your head. Just ask the glib sociopath gunthusiasts in this thread. Electric Monk Jan 2015 #85
Perhaps you can identify the glib sociopaths in this thread? N/T Marengo Jan 2015 #89
To whom might you be referring? Straw Man Jan 2015 #91
If someone thinks that the characterization might apply to them, then they just might be right. nt Electric Monk Jan 2015 #93
I doesn't apply to me at all. Straw Man Jan 2015 #97
Well, it does not apply to me either Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #98
Evading the question? GGJohn Jan 2015 #111
nailed it nt Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #113
Him and Fred, GGJohn Jan 2015 #114
yep Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #116
One of my "idiotic cartoon" posts is currently #2 on The Greatest Page, with 139 recs and counting Electric Monk Jan 2015 #122
one of how many? Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #123
So who exactly blueridge3210 Jan 2015 #124
Hello, Bueller? Bueller? blueridge3210 Jan 2015 #125
So EM, simple question Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #126
Looks like he's afraid to reply to the question. blueridge3210 Jan 2015 #128
It is ironic Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #129
Your deep concern over the answer just answered your own question, to a degree. Electric Monk Jan 2015 #130
You accused one or more posters here of being a sociopath. blueridge3210 Jan 2015 #133
Ok, and that means what? GGJohn Jan 2015 #127
Cartoons can be an effective medium to convey ideas, and are often good teaching tools Electric Monk Jan 2015 #131
The ones you do post are all anti gun, and IMO, are idiotic. GGJohn Jan 2015 #132
My guess is that the group he hosts is sooooooo boring, GGJohn Jan 2015 #117
I suspect you've not the slightest clue about sociopathy. Lizzie Poppet Jan 2015 #143
That wouldn't be the only thing blueridge3210 Jan 2015 #144
I guess it's the Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #94
"glib sociopath gunthusiasts in this thread" Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #92
it's all he has. blueridge3210 Jan 2015 #95
yep, really sad actually Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #96
guess he ran away Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #99
I have to wonder blueridge3210 Jan 2015 #100
I agree Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #102
Hoyt was blocked for less. N/T beevul Jan 2015 #103
7-0 to let that insult stand Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #104
7-0 eh? Yeah, you should be ashamed. Perhaps you would feel more at home on ar15.com. Electric Monk Jan 2015 #105
never been a member Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #106
Ehh, warmed-over McCarthy style innuendos (along with pompous self-righteousness)... friendly_iconoclast Jan 2015 #108
Thanks, no I am not angry Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #109
"I answer when I want to, if I have something to contribute." friendly_iconoclast Jan 2015 #107
Why yes it would Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #110
That's a the problem with you, GGJohn Jan 2015 #112
You are then breaking the group SOP Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #119
How does that song go? beevul Jan 2015 #137
If you really want my comments here they are LiberalLovinLug Jan 2015 #120
Thank you Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #121
Oh...okay LiberalLovinLug Jan 2015 #139
Hidden? Duckhunter935 Jan 2015 #140
sorry unhidden LiberalLovinLug Jan 2015 #141
I will leave any area where I see some open carry asshole toting a gun Warpy Jan 2015 #101
So you avoid being around LEO's ans security people. n/t oneshooter Jan 2015 #135
Think it through... sarisataka Jan 2015 #136
Sure can tell the author is white. Lizzie Poppet Jan 2015 #142
 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
2. If an African American (or Mexican, Chinese, or other) tells you they think something is racist
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 02:26 AM
Jan 2015

do you tell them that it's all in their head?

What about if a woman tells you she thinks something was sexist or misogynistic, do you tell her it's all in her head?

No?

Then why do you think it's cool to mock people who are concerned about having guns casually around unnecessarily that it's all in their heads?

sarisataka

(18,654 posts)
11. If it was in any way comparable
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 12:00 PM
Jan 2015

you might have a point. But to say a melodramatic overreaction to a man with something in his pocket is on par with racism is insulting.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
15. Do you tell people that want to defend themselves that it is all in their heads?
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 04:53 PM
Jan 2015

You do. Repeatedly. Day after day. And you mock them.

 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
18. Ok, so how many times have guns saved your life? Where, without one, you'd be dead?
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 04:57 PM
Jan 2015

Statistically speaking, I'm guessing none.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
19. The same number of times a seatbelt has saved my life.
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 05:01 PM
Jan 2015

And yet how many women, statistically speaking, carry guns for defense from sexual assault or other crimes?

Perhaps you could man'splain them about how they aren't capable of adequately defending themselves or their concerns are overblown.

 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
23. Does your hypothetical woman carrying for self defence need a 30 round mag, bayonet lug,
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 05:37 PM
Jan 2015

or bump-stock? Has she been trained in how and when to use it and when not to? Did she pass the background checks and obtain it legally? Does she carry it safely, in such a way that her 2 year old won't shoot her with it in the supermarket?

Despite what seems to be a commonly held belief otherwise, I'm not in favor of "taking everyone's guns away", but I am in favor of limits and rules regarding them and where they can be carried.

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
28. I'm not in favor of "taking everyone's guns away"...
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 06:13 PM
Jan 2015

Just curious then...what exactly is the problem with our family keeping firearms in the house for self defense? From reading your posts, it seems to me that you are a lot less concerned with decent people being killed by criminals than you are with those same decent people defending themselves with firearms.

 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
29. My only problem with you keeping guns in your house is it increases the odds of you getting shot. nt
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 06:17 PM
Jan 2015

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
30. Okay, whatever.
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 06:18 PM
Jan 2015

Tell you what...If I or anyone else in my family gets shot by one of our own firearms, I owe you a coke.

 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
34. Once, when I was mugged. If I'd had a gun too it'd probably have made the situation even worse.
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 06:32 PM
Jan 2015

There were five of them vs one of me, and one of the assailants was trigger happy when I didn't surrender my wallet fast enough. Yeah, it sucked, but it could've been worse. This was around 20 years ago. Thanks for asking :/

Veganstein

(32 posts)
118. I'm sorry that happened.
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 11:27 AM
Jan 2015

My grampa was also attacked in a similar way, and used a gun to defend his life. Since that time, my family has strongly believed in the importance of personal armed self defense. I guess it just illustrates how our experiences shape our ideas and our goals.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
35. There's a video on YouTube of a Detroit woman defending her home with an AR-15.
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 06:33 PM
Jan 2015

Maybe you should ask her if she feels she had too many rounds.

 

branford

(4,462 posts)
40. I cannot believe you cited the bayonet lung?
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 06:40 PM
Jan 2015

Would you kindly explain how a bayonet lug makes any firearm any more or less dangerous to the user or general general public? Has inner city violence or mass shooting been aggravated by a bayonet lug problem? Heck, how many people in the USA have even killed with bayonets, no less lugs, in the last 30 or more years?

More seriously, what limits exactly do you propose concerning what firearms the public can own and where they can be carried? If the restrictions are so broad and pervasive as to ban virtually all modern firearms (e.g., semiautomatic weapons, those that take a magazine, above certain calibers, military pedigree, etc.), you are effectively "taking everyone's guns away" whether you appreciate the accusation or not?


 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
42. "I'm not in favor of "taking everyone's guns away""
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 06:48 PM
Jan 2015

I guess this is as good a time as any, to point out, that while your words say one thing, your actions lead to quite a different conclusion.

Need anyone remind you, that you're the host of a group that in your own words is "designed for keeping gunthusiasts out", yet, is happy to let gun ban advocates in and rub shoulders with them?

How many have you blocked over there that are known gun ban advocates, because they are gun ban advocates?








 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
52. Of the 41 blocks in GCRA, 39 were blocked before I was a host, so I can't say for sure why each was.
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 08:34 PM
Jan 2015

Please stop telling me how to host a Group that is not yours, is not for you, and none of your business anyways. Thanks.

 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
53. Nobody is telling you to do anything in particular.
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 08:41 PM
Jan 2015
"Please stop telling me how to host a Group that is not yours, is not for you..."


Nobody is telling you to do anything in particular.

So stop saying they are.

"and none of your business anyways"


When you lot talk shit about us and THIS forum, you make it our business.


Again, nobody is telling you how to run your little clique.

Questioning whether your words match your actions, on the other hand, I AM doing.

And the answer is, they don't, which is why you're getting snippy.

On edit, I gave it a little thought, and decided I should speak to you using some language you understand:





How are we supposed to tell the difference between you, and one of the pro-confiscation folks. when your words indicate one thing but your behavior indicates another?




 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
59. well here is the one that got me blocked
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 09:19 PM
Jan 2015

Want to explain the reason? do you think it was a good block?

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1262&pid=1458

Yep

a lot of people here see gun owners that way

oneshooter

(8,614 posts)
61. And here is the one he was agreeing with.
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 10:22 PM
Jan 2015
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1262&pid=1379


"I carry a $1million cover policy on my home and land, $1 million on my business, have all my firearms that are not in use in steel fireproof safes installed in a concrete block room inside my home. I have both a alarm system and a fire suppression system.

However I live 30 miles from town on 40 acres and, depending who is on duty at the time, usually must give directions to LE if they are needed.

Despite all of this to many here I am a dirty, scum sucking future murderer with dreams of shooting small children and cats.

I find this disappointing to say the least, and somewhat discouraging."

I was banned for "broad brush insult"
 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
62. and what was stated was totally true
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 10:31 PM
Jan 2015

those insults are commonplace for many in that group and you know that. I also agree with this part....

Never was it stated "all"

"I find this disappointing to say the least, and somewhat discouraging."

I know the pro-controller side gets all bent out of shape when faced with the truth on how they have been calling us firearms owners those insulting names and I am not even going to start with the childish endless penis references.

So, yes, I agreed with a true statement and the controllers were afraid to here the truth and blocked us.

oneshooter

(8,614 posts)
63. Here is the blocking message.
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 10:59 PM
Jan 2015
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1262&pid=1460


"Despite all of this to many here I am a dirty, scum sucking future murderer with dreams of shooting small children and cats.

I find this disappointing to say the least, and somewhat discouraging.


Thanks but no thanks - I blocked this poster and the one below in concurrence with the broad brush insult.

ellisonz
GCRA Host
 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
64. I think it's safe to say you were both blocked for being already known hardcore gunthusiasts
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 11:00 PM
Jan 2015

but I think you already knew that.

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
65. No, we were blocked
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 11:19 PM
Jan 2015

because you do not want to here some true things about controllers and how they insult democratic gun owners that do not agree with their positions.

It is nice that this group is run differently and you are granted and we welcome the discussion of the other side. Seems like you like it here more than the group you host. At least I am "allowed" to post my opinion or answer a question in response to you over here unlike your group.

 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
68. You're picking nits. That host blocked you for your attitude about guns and gun control. As would I
Sat Jan 17, 2015, 12:09 AM
Jan 2015

if you weren't already blocked.

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
69. What attitude about guns or gun control
Sat Jan 17, 2015, 12:39 AM
Jan 2015

was I expressing in my 3 posts in that group? I did not put any out and that host blocked me because I agreed with a poster about the fact that some controllers in that group say insulting things about firearms owners in GD.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1262&pid=1186

they are already taxed


http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1262&pid=1457
you have no idea
of what my nickname is about. Have a good day. Hint, it is not about ducks.


http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1262&pid=1458
Yep
a lot of people here see gun owners that way


As far as I know these are the only posts I have ever made in your "safe haven" group. So what attitude about guns did I state that is so over the top to be blocked? I think it is really your group is scared of any poster you controllers do not like regardless of content posted in your little group. I am so glad this group is better than that and allows people with differing views to post. You are the one that called for preemptive bans on DU members, how nice of you.
 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
84. I admit I have no way of knowing what they were actually thinking when they wrote that post.
Sat Jan 17, 2015, 04:02 PM
Jan 2015

And neither do you.

krispos42

(49,445 posts)
134. You can un-ban him
Mon Jan 19, 2015, 12:27 AM
Jan 2015

In fact, maybe you need to un-ban everybody over there and start fresh.


And no, I'm not telling you how to run your own group, I'm telling you what your powers as Group Host enable you to do.


I actually enjoy watching your boring, march-step safe haven slowly wither on the vine.

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
138. like that would ever happen
Mon Jan 19, 2015, 07:18 AM
Jan 2015

from the new host that called for preemptive blocking before people even posted over there.


I agree there is massive activity over in the other group.


so slow over there that this is EM's favorite group by far it looks.

 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
74. Nope. I'm not obsessed. I'm just someone who has been paying attention...
Sat Jan 17, 2015, 05:46 AM
Jan 2015

Nope. I'm not obsessed. I'm just someone who has been paying attention since day 1, to the justification of blocking members of this group, which has changed from ""blocked for an sop violation" to "blocked for being pro-gun".

Whats interesting to me, is how originally, it was an accusation of not meeting the SOP, which as we've seen evidence of in this thread, was a false in many many cases.

Yet now, you just come out and say "blocked for holding pro-gun views" (or however you might phrase it) which doesn't match the SOP at all.

And by the way, if its anti-gun, I'll make it my business as I see fit. And that decision, is none of your business.

You are in no position to dictate, in this group.







 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
75. quite amazing
Sat Jan 17, 2015, 09:08 AM
Jan 2015

when called out about how he is not even following the SOP and he is now the host he gets all defensive. The hypocrisy of him being able to post over here to rebut our comments stands out brightly as he will not allow the courtesy of the same thing in his group even if it has nothing about a position on gun control. I could even say he is obsessed in posting over in this group as he does much more than his own group. He is also the one calling for preemptive blocking and how could that possibly be a violation of the group SOP?

Kind of telling

Favorite group: Gun Control & RKBA, 77 posts in the last 90 days (13% of total posts)



"You are in no position to dictate, in this group."

Very true and I think it is pissing him off he can not shut us up
 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
81. It really is.
Sat Jan 17, 2015, 03:41 PM
Jan 2015

I mean...they've taken the first step, and admitted that "SOP violation" was a sham all along.

57. Yep, it's not a secret. If a gunthusiast posts even once in the GCRA Group they'll be blocked.

That's actually the *point* of the group, the "raison d'être", if you will.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/1172158824#post57


The second step, would be to admit and apologize for treating DUers dishonestly.

The third step would be to reinstate every blocked member, and actually enforce the rules as written.

They as a group, demanded no less when hoyt was justifiably blocked, in case they have forgotten.

Not that I expect "fair play" exists in their playbook. They don't even have a transparent and open process for unblocking members like we do.

Which leaves us left with nothing to do, but keep pointing out, that they can not be trusted to be decent fair or to live within even within the rules they themselves create.

And if they can't be trusted to even run a group fairly because of how they view people who are pro-gun, what makes anyone think that they'd be any more even handed when it comes to the laws and "reasonable" regulations they try to stick us with?



 

beevul

(12,194 posts)
73. Credibility and legitimacy.
Sat Jan 17, 2015, 05:24 AM
Jan 2015

Your lack of forthright answers speak to it.

I wouldn't want to admit it either, were I involved in something so dishonest.

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
82. we just point out
Sat Jan 17, 2015, 03:45 PM
Jan 2015

the hypocrisy of how you run your group and selectively enforce the rules you make up and are not part of the SOP.

 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
86. Do you and oneshooter agree with
Sat Jan 17, 2015, 04:23 PM
Jan 2015
members agree that more guns are not the solution to gun violence, and are expected to be supportive of the policies of progressive gun control reform organizations

from the GCRA SOP

You don't. I know you don't based on other posts of yours I've seen. Care to drop the subject now? You're not fooling anyone.
 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
88. But you disagree with that part of the SOP, so why do you even want to be part of the Group
Sat Jan 17, 2015, 04:28 PM
Jan 2015

other than to disrupt?

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
90. have a civil discussion
Sat Jan 17, 2015, 04:36 PM
Jan 2015

on the parts we can agree on. I guess I can not pass your groups purity test. That is why you are allowed to post over here, I do not think you disrupt but add to an honest discussion of the topic. That gets hard when all you can do is congratulate each other, I see that group has slowed right back down and you are posting mainly over here.

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
76. known hardcore gunthusiasts
Sat Jan 17, 2015, 09:56 AM
Jan 2015

what is your definition of that? I own firearms, OK. Please link to some of my so over the top hardcore gun posts. Since you know I am I am sure you will find many. I doubt you will find any. I truly think it is because I am not for bans and confiscation like many on your side want and I do not pass your purity test.

Veganstein

(32 posts)
115. This seems incredibly strange to me.
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 11:08 AM
Jan 2015
I'm not in favor of "taking everyone's guns away", but I am in favor of limits and rules regarding them and where they can be carried.


That seems kind of flip-flopped. If your goal is to reduce gun deaths, it would seem like taking away guns should be your primary method. If guns exist and are available, then reducing legal carry wouldn't make any measurable impact on gun deaths at all. Legal carry isn't what you should be worried about, but rather illegal carry, and illegal gun ownership altogether. The only way to influence that figure significantly is to eliminate guns.

Failing that, stopping legal carry doesn't do anything.

sarisataka

(18,654 posts)
20. Good standard!!!
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 05:24 PM
Jan 2015

If you've never been killed you don't need to protect yourself.

The Coast Guard should adopt that standard. If you've never drowned you don't need a life jacket.



Oh and statistically speaking you would be wrong

sarisataka

(18,654 posts)
25. I could look up the last time
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 05:56 PM
Jan 2015

but I know they have caused more intentional and accidental deaths than they have stopped violent crimes.

sarisataka

(18,654 posts)
31. No
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 06:19 PM
Jan 2015

I was pointing out the ridiculousness of your premise in #18- that if you have not been killed for lack of an item, you therefore have no use for said item.

You brought in deaths by intent or otherwise. Both items you mentioned have caused death because they were improperly used.

 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
32. Feel free to link to statistics comparing them all. I'm not going to waste time looking for you. nt
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 06:24 PM
Jan 2015

sarisataka

(18,654 posts)
43. Here is a start
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 06:50 PM
Jan 2015
One study found that 72% of nearly 3,500 observed car and booster seats were misused in a way that could be expected to increase a child’s risk of injury during a crash
http://www.cdc.gov/motorvehiclesafety/child_passenger_safety/cps-factsheet.html

you may continue when you have the time
 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
46. I thought we were talking about seat belts and life jackets? You're shifting goalposts yet again. nt
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 06:53 PM
Jan 2015

sarisataka

(18,654 posts)
47. You're funny
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 06:58 PM
Jan 2015

Let's get back to my original point-

Ok, so how many times have guns saved your life? Where, without one, you'd be dead?
Statistically speaking, I'm guessing none.
is the only person who has been killed for not having a gun when needed the only one who should be permitted one? Remember please that my statistic is greater than zero.

sarisataka

(18,654 posts)
56. Nope- nice dodge
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 08:59 PM
Jan 2015

like your answer in post #24

When is the last time a seatbelt or life jacket killed someone, intentionally or by mistake?

You did not answer my question
here I'll ask again quite clearly:
NU asked in #15
Do you tell people that want to defend themselves that it is all in their heads?

Your Post 18-
Ok, so how many times have guns saved your life? Where, without one, you'd be dead?
Statistically speaking, I'm guessing none.

My question-Is the only person who has been killed for not having a gun when needed the only one who should be permitted one?
 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
57. Simple answer: of course not. I didn't say that above because I thought you were being rhetorical.nt
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 09:01 PM
Jan 2015

sarisataka

(18,654 posts)
58. Thank you for the straight answer
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 09:07 PM
Jan 2015

That seemed to be the implication. I have seen it proposed that women who have been rape victims be allowed to carry firearms with the suggestion that if you are not such a person you should not be allowed to carry.

I disagree that anyone needs to be a sacrificial victim before being allowed to defend themselves; nor do I believe a gun is a be-all end-all defense tool. They are not for everyone.

LynnTTT

(362 posts)
77. My brother in law
Sat Jan 17, 2015, 10:16 AM
Jan 2015

He always had a gun and swore it saved his life many times. He also talked alot about carrying a "stiletto" when traveling on business in Mexico and other countries and how he fended off attackers. When pressed for details, he had a story about how he was walking down a dark street and a group of young men came close to him, he showed the knife and .. they continued on their way. That's was his story of self defense.

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
60. you should thank our host
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 09:23 PM
Jan 2015

fro allowing the open discussion. That is quite unlike the "safe haven" that EM requires for his group that the pro-controller side seems to be afraid of open discussion and blocks any dissent.

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
3. "Why do you make me angry?"
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 03:14 AM
Jan 2015

Fear and anger are the same in that we have LOT of control of when and if we feel these things.

People don't make people angry, people do that to themselves.

I think it's the same with feeling "nervous".

KT2000

(20,577 posts)
4. guns are changing all of us
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 03:58 AM
Jan 2015

When a friend filed a health complaint against a dentist, the investigator asked her if the dentist kept guns in the office before she went there to investigate.

If I see someone with a visible gun walking in the store, I don't know if he is there to shoot his old girlfriend, shoot randomly or is just flashing people with it. I will leave the store.

Driving now has to include the knowledge that another driver may have a gun and may shoot if they take a driving error as an insult.

Neighborhood conflicts now have to take into consideration whether or not guns could be involved.

This country has gone mad with guns and we see the violence of it every day. People are going to adjust to it in a multitude of ways. People can surely want their freedom to have and wear guns, but they cannot control the reactions that will define our society.

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
8. My shotgun and pistol never leave my house...
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 08:29 AM
Jan 2015

unless it's for target practice at a place my family owns way out in the country. It's strictly for defending our home in case someone breaks in. Anybody who refrains from breaking into our house has absolutely nothing to worry about in reference to my firearms.

 

Lurks Often

(5,455 posts)
9. "I’ve watched him watch others. The way he tracks them is unnerving."
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 09:00 AM
Jan 2015

On noes, the horror of it all!!!!

So someone is either a people watcher or chooses to pay attention to his surroundings and they are a threat?

Sounds like the author of the article should stay inside her home if she is that easily scared or perhaps she should seek help from a qualified mental health professional.

Brickbat

(19,339 posts)
10. "I’ve watched him watch others. The way he tracks them is unnerving."
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 10:08 AM
Jan 2015

And what she is doing is...what?

sarisataka

(18,654 posts)
12. The irony is not lost
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 12:03 PM
Jan 2015

Nor is the irony lost that her response to this imagined gun is to pretend to have a gun. According to the fables doesn't that make her the prime target?

Brickbat

(19,339 posts)
13. I can't figure out why she does that.
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 12:15 PM
Jan 2015

If he's the bad guy, it makes her a target. If he's a good guy, what is she worried about?

sarisataka

(18,654 posts)
14. It makes no sense
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 01:07 PM
Jan 2015

Though I'm not sure I would have understood her "tell" .

I never did get the super secret list of gunner signals and signs.

petronius

(26,602 posts)
21. It's a very strange story all around. Beyond the author's distorted view of risk, it makes
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 05:30 PM
Jan 2015

me suspect that this fellow who may or may not have had a gun wasn't so much tracking all the customers, but was keeping an eye on the one woman that kept giving him stink-eye and pretending to be armed.

The companion pro-gun column, written by a very smug 'sheepdog,' linked in that piece is equally extreme, in the other direction. Seems like that newspaper is working to define the outer bounds of the discussion...

 

Man from Pickens

(1,713 posts)
38. It's delusional cop-lover propaganda
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 06:36 PM
Jan 2015

Him having a badge would make it more dangerous for her and her children, not less, if his intent was hostile. He would then be nearly immune from any consequences for his behavior, no matter how vile. Thinking that having a badge means being properly trained with a weapon is a dangerously wrong myth.

She clearly has a paranoia problem, as she admits straight out that she has no information on the person she is afraid of, other than the figments of her own imagination. She would do well not to watch so many movies, because she is definitely having difficulty distinguishing between make-believe and real life.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
44. Oh, I dunno, the cops seem pretty harmless to me.
Fri Jan 16, 2015, 06:50 PM
Jan 2015

In the last couple of weeks we've seen so many videos of them shooting themselves in the leg or blowing off their own fingers there can't possibly be enough of them left to threaten the rest of us.

"Halt! Or I'll shoot myself in the foot again!"

 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
85. That can't be true. It's all in your head. Just ask the glib sociopath gunthusiasts in this thread.
Sat Jan 17, 2015, 04:11 PM
Jan 2015

Straw Man

(6,624 posts)
91. To whom might you be referring?
Sat Jan 17, 2015, 05:12 PM
Jan 2015
That can't be true. It's all in your head. Just ask the glib sociopath gunthusiasts in this thread.

Could you identify said sociopaths by name, or do you prefer to hide your sleazy innuendo behind a wall of plausible deniability?

Straw Man

(6,624 posts)
97. I doesn't apply to me at all.
Sat Jan 17, 2015, 09:08 PM
Jan 2015
If someone thinks that the characterization might apply to them, then they just might be right.

That's not a reponse: It's an evasion. So I'll ask again: To whom were you referring?

C'mon, surprise us: Take responsibility for your statements for a change.
 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
116. yep
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 11:09 AM
Jan 2015

both seem to post and when called out, they tend to not answer the question or change the subject, never apologize but run away instead.

not to mention the idiotic cartoon responses.

 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
122. One of my "idiotic cartoon" posts is currently #2 on The Greatest Page, with 139 recs and counting
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 06:13 PM
Jan 2015
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10026100711

Your reaction to them says more about you than about me
 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
126. So EM, simple question
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 08:29 PM
Jan 2015

Just exactly who are the "glib sociopath gunthusiasts in this thread"?

Should be simple to answer as you put out the accusation.

 

blueridge3210

(1,401 posts)
128. Looks like he's afraid to reply to the question.
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 08:53 PM
Jan 2015

Funny, I thought it was the gun owners that were supposed to be afraid of everything. Hmmm......

 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
130. Your deep concern over the answer just answered your own question, to a degree.
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 09:25 PM
Jan 2015

I know how much you'd love to get a post of mine hidden, but I'm not going to fall into that trap

 

blueridge3210

(1,401 posts)
133. You accused one or more posters here of being a sociopath.
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 09:40 PM
Jan 2015

I'm just curious who it is that you feel meets that description? Or are you afraid to answer the question?

 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
131. Cartoons can be an effective medium to convey ideas, and are often good teaching tools
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 09:30 PM
Jan 2015
(snip)

Cartoons have a number of distinct advantages as a stimulus to group discussion about issues. They often contain a lot of information yet can be assimilated quite quickly. It is possible for people with a range of knowledge of the issues (or none at all) to respond to the same stimulus and for the discussion to reflect their level of experience. The humor of cartoons also contributes - laughter is important but humor can also disarm us of our assumptions and help us to look afresh as something. Many of the cartoons you might use as a stimulus, will be quite explicit in the main issues they bring to a groups agenda, they are at the very same time very open ended. They provide an opportunity for members of a group to explore those aspects they see as most important.

more
http://www.developmenteducation.ie/teachers-and-educators/using-resources/cartoons.html


or you can just dismiss them as "idiotic"

GGJohn

(9,951 posts)
117. My guess is that the group he hosts is sooooooo boring,
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 11:10 AM
Jan 2015

he has to come over here and stir shit up, then skedaddle back over to the protected group where he can gloat all he wants without pushback.

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
143. I suspect you've not the slightest clue about sociopathy.
Tue Jan 20, 2015, 07:30 PM
Jan 2015

But do carry on: amateur psychoanalysis is always good for lulz.

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
94. I guess it's the
Sat Jan 17, 2015, 08:43 PM
Jan 2015

"sleazy innuendo" as he throws that accusation out there without any substantiation. I think that is another low from the controller side. Goes right in with the name calling and the other insults that are posted in his group.

Just proves the post that I agreed to in his group that got me blocked was indeed correct. Too bad he is just too scared to admit that fact.

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
92. "glib sociopath gunthusiasts in this thread"
Sat Jan 17, 2015, 07:55 PM
Jan 2015

please point them out or publicly apologize to all in this thread. That kind of over the top bullshit is just not called for. You make the accusation, come on, let's here who you are talking about.

I see you are back to the childish posting of a cartoon instead of actually having a civil debate. Well at least you should be thankful the host here allows you to post, shows your true colors. That is quite unlike you handle "castle bansalot"

 

blueridge3210

(1,401 posts)
95. it's all he has.
Sat Jan 17, 2015, 08:43 PM
Jan 2015

And, when one does not have facts then resort to childish, broad-brush insults. Business as usual for some.

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
96. yep, really sad actually
Sat Jan 17, 2015, 08:56 PM
Jan 2015

you would think a host would be above that but in this case, I guess it is not so.

 

blueridge3210

(1,401 posts)
100. I have to wonder
Sat Jan 17, 2015, 10:37 PM
Jan 2015

it there is something that drives the host of the GCRA group to act like this. First it was Sec Mo w/ his Google Dump and refusal to discuss anything (and the pride he took in his refusal to discuss anything with firearm owners); now the new group host can only engage is passive-aggressive broad-brush smear attacks and again refuse to actually discuss any issues. It's as if having their safe-haven/echo-chamber isn't enough; they have to try to control or shut down the debate in this group as well. Weird.

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
102. I agree
Sat Jan 17, 2015, 10:54 PM
Jan 2015

and I had to show him it was only the controller side that is breaking the GD SOP and even then he would not accept it as fact.

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
104. 7-0 to let that insult stand
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 12:48 AM
Jan 2015

I am ashamed sometimes, I would love to see the comments if they left any

JURY RESULTS

Someone else already alerted on this post before you alerted on it, and only the first alert was sent to a Jury. A randomly-selected Jury of DU members completed their review of the post on Sat Jan 17, 2015, 02:32 PM, and voted 0-7 to keep IT. Please note that even though your alert was not sent to a Jury, it has been forwarded to the Administrators who review all alerts.

 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
105. 7-0 eh? Yeah, you should be ashamed. Perhaps you would feel more at home on ar15.com.
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 01:18 AM
Jan 2015

Part of the reason I don't always answer is I don't feel a need to dignify you (or beevul, etc) with a response. I answer when I want to, if I have something to contribute.

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
106. never been a member
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 01:25 AM
Jan 2015

do not go to that site and have been a proud DU member for over 6 years, that even looks longer than you have been a member.

So you should really apologize again for insulting a long time DU member. I doubt it will ever happen though.

 

friendly_iconoclast

(15,333 posts)
108. Ehh, warmed-over McCarthy style innuendos (along with pompous self-righteousness)...
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 02:15 AM
Jan 2015

...have always been a feature of certain anti-gun sorts here. I think it's caused by the realization
that their dream isn't going to happen any time soon (if ever).

So they take it out on us. Don't let them make you angry, feel sorry for them
-as any reader of Eric Hoffer's "The True Believer" can tell you, that sort *needs* a Cause
to feel fufilled.

Still and all, it's a shame that they seem bound and determined to drive the
Democratic Party over the cliff with them...

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
109. Thanks, no I am not angry
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 08:25 AM
Jan 2015

more along the line of disappointed. I guess I just do not pass his purity test to be a member of DU. Too bad I am and I know it pisses him off.

 

friendly_iconoclast

(15,333 posts)
107. "I answer when I want to, if I have something to contribute."
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 02:01 AM
Jan 2015

Do, please, feel free to start contributing at any time now.
It would be a most welcome change...

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
110. Why yes it would
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 08:30 AM
Jan 2015

but even if he does not, he is showing how petty some are with the call outs of the posters in this thread without and evidence and when called out they change the subject or run away. I think it just shows how bad the controller side can be. This is really true when the hos from the other gun group comes over to this group to intentionally insult members. I would think a host would be better than that but I must be wrong.

GGJohn

(9,951 posts)
112. That's a the problem with you,
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 11:02 AM
Jan 2015

you rarely have anything of substance to contribute here, it's usually broad brush smears, thinly disguised innuendos, or outright insults.

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
119. You are then breaking the group SOP
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 12:28 PM
Jan 2015

I wish you would hold yourself to the same standard that you apply in your group. You rarely contribute to the topic but post insults to the members here, a clear violation of the group SOP.

LiberalLovinLug

(14,173 posts)
120. If you really want my comments here they are
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 04:01 PM
Jan 2015

Be careful what you wish for:

Juror #4 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: While my sympathies lie with the cartoon poster, and enjoy seeing the gun nuts hop up and down, I think its over-reacting taking offense at the word "idiotic". Respond back if you are called an idiot, and show you are not.

 

Duckhunter935

(16,974 posts)
121. Thank you
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 04:25 PM
Jan 2015

for being forthcoming. Those are the comments from the alert on my post and I thank you for actually looikng at the content of the post. The comments I would like to see are the ones for this post

"Just ask the glib sociopath gunthusiasts in this thread"
this one is a direct insult to the posters in this thread made by the host of the other gun related group. I think that is over the top myself.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/1172159159#post85

LiberalLovinLug

(14,173 posts)
139. Oh...okay
Mon Jan 19, 2015, 05:52 PM
Jan 2015

A coincidence. 2 hidden posts, involving the same 2 posters, in the same thread, where they both went 7-0. go figure.



LiberalLovinLug

(14,173 posts)
141. sorry unhidden
Mon Jan 19, 2015, 07:20 PM
Jan 2015

My point was that there were two alerted on, involving the same posters, with the same 7-0 result.

Warpy

(111,257 posts)
101. I will leave any area where I see some open carry asshole toting a gun
Sat Jan 17, 2015, 10:53 PM
Jan 2015

because there is no way to tell which ones are just garden variety assholes and which ones are nutbags bent on mass murder.

They don't come labeled, you know.

I do see holster bulges from time to time and they don't bother me much unless I see the person go for the gun. Then I leave.

sarisataka

(18,654 posts)
136. Think it through...
Mon Jan 19, 2015, 01:45 AM
Jan 2015

how many people about to commit a crime will openly carry a gun in a holster vs carrying it concealed until they commit the crime?

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