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Coping with Divorce or Separation

av8rdave

(10,573 posts)

2. Glad you didn't experience that

Reply to maddezmom (Reply #1)

Sun Jan 22, 2012, 09:47 PM

Jan 2012

The sheer numbers in my case are mind boggling. How someone can amass that kind of debt when they have their own paycheck and contribute nothing to the household financially is beyond me!

Wish I had payed more attention!

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A cautionary tale [View all] av8rdave Jan 2012 OP

good advice for everyone maddezmom Jan 2012 #1

Glad you didn't experience that av8rdave Jan 2012 #2

sorry this happened to you maddezmom Jan 2012 #3

Thanks.... av8rdave Jan 2012 #4

It's not your fault. laundry_queen Jan 2012 #6

Yes, it's not difficult for a deceitful spouse to do that. laundry_queen Jan 2012 #5

Sadly, I was the one "in charge" of the family finances, av8rdave Jan 2012 #7

Maybe because I grew up with very little, and SheilaT Jan 2012 #8