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Coping with Divorce or Separation

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alittlelark

(18,890 posts)
Mon Jun 11, 2012, 12:16 AM Jun 2012

I'm going to get a divorce. [View all]

32 years together, married 19. My Stanford MBA Husband is a narcissist. He does not feel shame about that. He does not feel the need to see a psychologist. When I exposed him for what he is he curled up with (similar) friends for about 16 months of vacations and hikes and came out saying that all was well with the world... his world.

I feel sick, used and disgusted by him. He is on the phone upstairs laughing w/ one of his friends. he thinks we should just get a mediator....

I told him 2 years ago that I would have to leave after the kids graduated HS. He announced last week that we should do it 2 years earlier.... He is not attached to our son, spent 2-3 psychotic months telling me I must have cheated on him and that he wasn't his. We're talking screaming and shoving me against the wall... He is not attached but tries faking it sometimes.

I always knew he had problems - his dad has been married at least 6 times (we know of) and has 2+ illegitimate children.

I need to vent some of this shit.

Perhaps a mod could delete this if need be(?).

I'm open to IMs



PS WHAT HAPPENED TO THE PUKING SMILIE?

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