Why is it if a woman has sex, people say it's "self esteem issues"????

[arbusto_baboso]

1. Because men, particularly the religious types....

Feel threatened by the female libido, which can make our little urges seem amusing and minor by comparison, if the women in question are free to express themselves sexually.

Unfortunately, human culture has done such a great job of indoctrinating and mind-fucking women, that many women also believe that they don't really have much desire for sex, or that there's something wrong with themselves if they do.