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SoDesuKa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 03:17 AM Original message |
How to Evict Your Adult Child |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 03:27 AM Response to Original message |
1. "There comes a time when you need to tell your adult child to leave your home." |
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WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 03:28 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. That old reverse psychology works everytime.... |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 03:38 AM Response to Reply #2 |
5. I really did mean it. And my married child is welcome back anytime |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 03:46 AM Response to Reply #5 |
8. um |
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Tunkamerica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 05:06 AM Response to Reply #8 |
16. I supported myself through college with help from a small amount of money |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 05:24 AM Response to Reply #16 |
19. uh, no |
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trumad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 06:57 AM Response to Reply #19 |
38. Joined the Army on my 18th Birthday |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 12:48 PM Response to Reply #8 |
71. By "support" I meant that we were allowed to live at home |
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sudopod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 08:30 PM Response to Reply #8 |
78. 18? HA! When I was 13, right, |
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Sen. Walter Sobchak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 04:58 AM Response to Reply #5 |
14. My parents insisted on me staying until I had a mortgage downpayment |
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Jkid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 07:10 AM Response to Reply #1 |
40. "I don't know why we make such a fetish of 18 year olds leaving the nest." |
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comtec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 11:34 AM Response to Reply #40 |
62. there was a time you actually COULD make a life for yourself at 18 |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 12:52 PM Response to Reply #62 |
72. Good luck on finding something, comtec. |
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comtec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 08:13 PM Response to Reply #72 |
76. High level IT to what? |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 10:55 AM Response to Reply #1 |
51. It's a symptom of the the debased hyper-individualism of our society. |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 10:58 AM Response to Reply #1 |
53. I agree. My husband and I have told our sons that they are welcome to stay |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 11:07 AM Response to Reply #1 |
56. My parents reminded all of us that it was their house but our home |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 05:08 PM Response to Reply #56 |
75. that is how i see it and talk to my boys. i loved leaving the house and being independent |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 08:24 PM Response to Reply #1 |
77. I think I'd rather die than live with my parents again. |
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sudopod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 08:32 PM Response to Reply #77 |
79. Well, I'm glad you've got everything figured out Willy. |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 03:34 AM Response to Original message |
3. We have 3 generations, all adults, under one roof. It benefits us all. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 03:38 AM Response to Reply #3 |
6. Me, neither. I think children, especially , are better off with |
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customerserviceguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 06:21 AM Response to Reply #6 |
37. Some people just can't get along harmoniously |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 03:55 AM Response to Reply #3 |
9. I've always thought it's marketing. |
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SoDesuKa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 04:17 AM Response to Reply #9 |
11. A Different Economy |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 04:32 AM Response to Reply #11 |
12. The norm that we grew up with is unsustainable. |
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Tunkamerica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 05:07 AM Response to Reply #12 |
17. I worked at Subway and the owner had a deal with Credit Card Companies to give a free |
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Raine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 04:06 AM Response to Reply #3 |
10. I don't get it either, my parents let me stay as long |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 05:26 AM Response to Reply #3 |
22. That sounds great...how long have done this? |
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zeemike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 07:05 AM Response to Reply #3 |
39. That is the way it used to be in the USA as well |
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ChazII (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 11:21 AM Response to Reply #3 |
59. Agree 100%. |
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Vanje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 03:37 AM Original message |
but when you've had a stroke, broken your hip,...... |
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Suich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 03:44 AM Response to Original message |
7. Don't know what's going on with you, Vanje, |
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Vanje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 03:37 AM Response to Original message |
4. dupe |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 04:40 AM Response to Original message |
13. from your post downthread looks like you disagree with the OP |
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SoDesuKa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 05:03 AM Response to Reply #13 |
15. What's the Opposite of 'Empty Next Syndrome'? |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 05:16 AM Response to Reply #15 |
18. Your friend needs to figure out what she needs |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 05:29 AM Response to Reply #15 |
23. They need to behave as adults... |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 05:32 AM Response to Reply #15 |
24. well there is a difference between multigenerational living and leeching off someone else. |
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safeinOhio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 05:33 AM Response to Reply #15 |
25. Cut off the phone and cable. |
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Demeter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 05:43 AM Response to Reply #25 |
28. Good point! |
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safeinOhio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 05:48 AM Response to Reply #28 |
32. After spending thousands on lawyers and court stuff |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 06:05 AM Response to Reply #32 |
36. well, if you could live in a fully stocked hotel for free would you leave? |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 11:01 AM Response to Reply #36 |
54. LOL, my mom says she likes when I stay at her place because she can baby me! |
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shanti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 11:33 AM Response to Reply #36 |
61. oh, i heard that! |
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Violet_Crumble (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 05:43 AM Response to Reply #15 |
30. Yr friend either should have said no to moving back home, or charged rent... |
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Demeter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 05:24 AM Response to Original message |
20. Hire Kate Hudson! |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 05:34 AM Response to Reply #20 |
26. that wasn't kate hudson. that was sarah jessica parker |
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Demeter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 05:42 AM Response to Reply #26 |
27. I don't LIKE Sarah Jessica Parker |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 05:45 AM Response to Reply #27 |
31. kate hudson was in the other movie though. how to lose a guy in 10 days. |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 05:25 AM Response to Original message |
21. Times are different... |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 05:43 AM Response to Reply #21 |
29. there is a difference. if a kid isn't contributing to the house but just living at home |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 05:50 AM Response to Reply #29 |
33. Stipulations are important... |
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FLPanhandle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 05:51 AM Response to Original message |
34. When my youngest graduates from college, I'm retiring and living on a sailboat |
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NNN0LHI (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 06:03 AM Response to Original message |
35. I have seen how some parents did it in my neighborhood |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 07:12 AM Response to Original message |
41. Christmas card? Get ready to be sent to the bad home that was on the news. |
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KurtNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 07:20 AM Response to Original message |
42. there is a line the Stephen King movie "Christine" |
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CBGLuthier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 08:10 AM Response to Reply #42 |
44. King also wrote Sometimes They Come Back |
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Lucky Luciano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 08:04 AM Response to Original message |
43. I don't think there exists many women (in Manhattan anyway) that would |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 08:35 AM Response to Original message |
45. One couple I know just moved out and let the kids have the house... |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 10:45 AM Response to Reply #45 |
48. That's how it worked in our family. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 11:04 AM Response to Reply #45 |
55. LOL! |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 12:23 PM Response to Reply #45 |
68. LOL, one of our neighbors growing up did that... |
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Peacetrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 08:46 AM Response to Original message |
46. My son left for college when he was 18 and never moved back home. |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 09:00 AM Response to Original message |
47. Back home people always live with their parents. |
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vanbean (957 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 10:51 AM Response to Original message |
49. I would never do that. Never. |
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Lex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 10:57 AM Response to Reply #49 |
52. Not even if they were running up your bills and not working |
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vanbean (957 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 11:53 AM Response to Reply #52 |
64. My kids would never do that. |
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Occulus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 12:01 PM Response to Reply #64 |
65. They would if they couldn't find work |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 10:52 AM Response to Original message |
50. Most folks of my generation that are still at home do so because the economy sucks. |
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KamaAina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 11:16 AM Response to Original message |
57. Cut off his access to Frei Republik |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 11:20 AM Response to Original message |
58. An adult child who participates in household life is always welcome here. |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 11:24 AM Response to Original message |
60. I know of one situation where the parents moved to another state without telling daughter new addres |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 05:06 PM Response to Reply #60 |
74. parents have to bear some responsibility for kids that end up this way. not sure this specific |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 11:37 AM Response to Original message |
63. Well if he or she is not a drug addict or is destructive, why would you? |
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On the Road (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 12:05 PM Response to Original message |
66. I Moved Out at 17 |
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Renew Deal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 12:09 PM Response to Original message |
67. Nothing says family like calling the cops on your kids. |
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radman.ACiD (4 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 12:25 PM Response to Original message |
69. Excellent. |
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SoDesuKa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 11:19 PM Response to Reply #69 |
81. Welcome to DU |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 12:28 PM Response to Original message |
70. Step 1) build a time machine |
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Philippine expat (412 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 01:15 PM Response to Original message |
73. My children were allowed to stay as long as they wanted |
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AmandaMae (330 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 08:32 PM Response to Original message |
80. I'm almost 20 and will be moving out this fall; |
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roomfullofmirrors (201 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 11:34 PM Response to Original message |
82. Hopefully they have some skills some prospects, and a bit of a plan prior to landing in the street. |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-05-11 11:54 PM Response to Original message |
83. This is actually a really good deal for the evicted child. |
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