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AndiMer (164 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:17 AM Original message |
Why do men do it? |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:19 AM Response to Original message |
1. Why is everyone under the impression that monogamous social pairing is human nature? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:21 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. as much points to that as doesn't. nt |
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RegieRocker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:23 AM Response to Reply #1 |
7. Condoms haven't been around forever but sex and disease has. That |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:00 AM Response to Reply #7 |
37. So get married so you don't get an STD. |
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RegieRocker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:41 AM Response to Reply #37 |
91. 700 club is b.s. This is just common sense which seems to be severely |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:48 AM Response to Reply #37 |
101. Well if you both were STD free going in |
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RegieRocker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:04 PM Response to Reply #101 |
166. My point was cause and effect came first. Then it became part of |
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trotsky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:50 PM Response to Reply #7 |
155. Well, the reason why STDs have been around forever... |
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Scuba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:29 AM Response to Reply #1 |
18. Accepting that as a misconception would explain the "why". n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:32 AM Response to Reply #18 |
21. how can one accept that as a concept when reality tells us, vast majority of people have an innate |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:01 AM Response to Reply #21 |
38. How come sexual fantasies are constantly changing? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:19 AM Response to Reply #38 |
42. ya... ok, so??? still. innately, the vast majority of people look for a mate. nt |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:27 AM Response to Reply #42 |
55. Yup. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:04 AM Response to Reply #55 |
64. nah. too many factors shows it is not just that. after child rearing days, it is still an innate |
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ellenfl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:02 PM Response to Reply #64 |
138. they have a desire for monogamy because society has told them |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:08 PM Response to Reply #138 |
139. and i disagree. i think they do it for a number of reasons that outweigh, by far, the |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:42 PM Response to Reply #42 |
151. For different reasons than they look for a quick fuck buddy. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:11 AM Response to Reply #21 |
67. Looking for one person to be with the rest of your life and being sexually monogamous |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:19 AM Response to Reply #67 |
71. again .... so? nt |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:24 AM Response to Reply #71 |
73. The fact that most if not all people |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:28 AM Response to Reply #73 |
78. i dsiagree with your post in many directions but have found |
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txlibdem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 11:13 AM Response to Reply #73 |
131. Why do chimpanzee females copulate with multiple partners when they're in estrus? |
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Scuba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 10:12 AM Response to Reply #67 |
114. This closely reflects my opinion. A life mate is highly desirable, but does not.... |
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ellenfl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:00 PM Response to Reply #21 |
136. i disagree with the premise that a majority want only one mate . . . |
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DireStrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:00 PM Response to Reply #21 |
137. Reality tells you this? The same reality where so many men (and plenty of women) cheat? -nt- |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:10 PM Response to Reply #137 |
140. most recent study i saw, over 17% women cheat (they lie and hide better) and 21% of men |
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DireStrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:05 PM Response to Reply #140 |
167. Mmm. I guess it is indeed a minority. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:13 AM Response to Reply #1 |
68. Well let's just check out our closest living relatives, the chimpanzees |
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sybylla (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:41 AM Response to Reply #1 |
92. So you're saying being a dick is inherently human. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:48 AM Response to Reply #92 |
103. "So you're saying being a dick is inherently human." Well if you look at our history . . . |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:53 AM Response to Reply #103 |
106. you do not factor in societal conditioning and expectation. nt |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:57 AM Response to Reply #106 |
109. Both of which were created from thin air and have nothing to do with our natures? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 10:02 AM Response to Reply #109 |
110. of course it would have nothing to do with your argument. makes it a failed argument. lmao. nt |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 10:04 AM Response to Reply #110 |
112. Huh? |
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ellenfl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 11:58 AM Response to Reply #1 |
134. morality is a manmade construct. in most of nature, animals |
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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 02:09 PM Response to Reply #1 |
189. Monogomy is a choice. |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 03:02 PM Response to Reply #1 |
192. Monogamous marriage myth still stands -- but think we're working our way out of it -- ? |
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no_hypocrisy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:21 AM Response to Original message |
3. I think they're hot-wired where they "have to" do it. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:25 AM Response to Reply #3 |
11. since women do it almost as much as men, does that mean women are hot wired, or |
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no_hypocrisy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:45 AM Response to Reply #11 |
28. Hot wired. It's equal opportunity. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:46 AM Response to Reply #28 |
29. ah. good to hear no gender bias. i like that. why is it a strong minority then, not the majority? |
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no_hypocrisy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:55 AM Response to Reply #29 |
34. Different reasons for why people choose not to engage in this activity |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:21 AM Response to Reply #34 |
44. hm.... i guess then we can say murder is natural but we only dont do it for a number of fear reason |
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no_hypocrisy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:26 AM Response to Reply #44 |
51. Qualification: the instinct is not universal. Not everyone has the itch. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:07 AM Response to Reply #51 |
65. i really think it is learned.... and to do with character. |
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socialist_n_TN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:46 AM Response to Reply #65 |
96. WOW! That's pretty drastic IMO......... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:52 AM Response to Reply #96 |
105. interesting. really. i totally believe you can compartmentalize. absolutely. |
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socialist_n_TN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 10:21 AM Response to Reply #105 |
118. When I was younger, I would have said I wanted to know |
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oldlib (549 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:14 PM Response to Reply #118 |
143. I think that you can |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:16 PM Response to Reply #143 |
145. eeeew. lol. see, that. dishonesty. cant stomach it. living a lie, repulses me. |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:27 AM Response to Reply #3 |
14. Bullshit |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:35 AM Response to Reply #3 |
24. Your screen name is remarkably ironic.. n/t |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:47 PM Response to Reply #24 |
153. It's a tree dude. |
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EstimatedProphet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:39 PM Response to Reply #153 |
179. I think he was talking to someone else |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 06:27 PM Response to Reply #179 |
201. Oh, you're right. I've never seen so many expansive sub threads but its hard to line them up. nt |
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EstimatedProphet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:23 AM Response to Reply #3 |
47. Yeah! I did it! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:01 AM Response to Reply #47 |
62. i love listening to men stand up for themselves on these types of issues. nt |
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EstimatedProphet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:22 AM Response to Reply #62 |
72. We should stand up for ourselves on this |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:29 AM Response to Reply #72 |
79. agreed. and RL is what convinces me of the fallacy. nt |
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txlibdem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 11:31 AM Response to Reply #72 |
132. Especially since women cheat just as much as men do |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 11:35 AM Response to Reply #132 |
133. "go forth and multiply," |
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txlibdem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 05:18 PM Response to Reply #133 |
197. There wasn't as much flight risk as you seem to imply |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:50 PM Response to Reply #47 |
156. Did anyone say anything definitive one way or the other? |
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EstimatedProphet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:40 PM Response to Reply #156 |
180. Seems like it to me |
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ZombieHorde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:14 AM Response to Reply #3 |
70. I have never cheated. If any of my male friends have cheated, they keep it a secret from me. |
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Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:31 PM Response to Reply #70 |
147. I don't know a single guy who has cheated, either. |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:52 PM Response to Reply #70 |
158. Um yeah, people usually do it because they get horny and either their |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:22 AM Response to Original message |
4. They do not |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:22 AM Response to Original message |
5. Women do it, too. |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:22 AM Response to Original message |
6. Why do women do it? |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:47 AM Response to Reply #6 |
100. +1 |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:02 PM Response to Reply #6 |
165. 1 in 4 men do it, 1 in 10 women do it |
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former9thward (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:08 PM Response to Reply #165 |
170. Your math does not add up. |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:22 PM Response to Reply #165 |
173. The OP said 'men', not '1 in 4 men'. |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:35 PM Response to Reply #165 |
178. I followed that link. As another poster says above, your numbers are wrong. Please explain. -nt |
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hobbit709 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:23 AM Response to Original message |
8. It's an equal opportunity thing. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:26 AM Response to Reply #8 |
12. i have heard. women are much better at lying about it... never saying a word |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:23 AM Response to Original message |
9. statistically, women are catching up. they are not too far off the men that do it. also, |
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tanyev (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:24 AM Response to Original message |
10. Often, because they can. |
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howard112211 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:28 AM Response to Reply #10 |
15. Exactly. |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:26 AM Response to Original message |
13. Why do women do it? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:29 AM Response to Reply #13 |
17. well, |
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madokie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:29 AM Response to Original message |
16. The same reason that some women do it |
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howard112211 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:30 AM Response to Original message |
19. Well, it does take two. |
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Solomon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:30 AM Response to Original message |
20. The reason I think a lot of people do it, especially people with |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:05 AM Response to Reply #20 |
39. Sex with anyone |
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Solomon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:35 AM Response to Reply #39 |
59. Yeah but that AFTERWARDS. LOL |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:53 AM Response to Reply #59 |
60. "Mad Men" |
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Bluenorthwest (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:34 AM Response to Reply #60 |
83. Actually, Mad Men is set in the 1960's not the 50's and it is all |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:37 PM Response to Reply #83 |
150. Actually |
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NV Whino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:35 AM Response to Reply #60 |
85. Minor correction |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:16 PM Response to Reply #85 |
144. It starts in 1960 |
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Marr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 10:46 AM Response to Reply #20 |
125. I disagree. I think people with fame/power/status cheat because they have more opportunities. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 10:52 AM Response to Reply #125 |
127. as a woman i can say |
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Marr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 11:58 AM Response to Reply #127 |
135. Of course you have opportunities-- you're a woman. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:11 PM Response to Reply #135 |
141. i have to disagree for the smple logical reason that enough males had the opportunity |
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Myrina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:33 AM Response to Original message |
22. Why do we insist that there is no difference between 'sex' and 'love' |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:36 AM Response to Reply #22 |
25. well hell, walking down the street i said, i feel the need to pee, so i dropped pants and |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:58 AM Response to Reply #25 |
36. !?! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:22 AM Response to Reply #36 |
46. do it. just do it. do it..... (starsky and hutch remake). wink. nt |
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renate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 10:16 AM Response to Reply #25 |
116. well, that made me laugh |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 10:21 AM Response to Reply #116 |
117. i have always felt a need not to hurt others. has made life pretty damn easy. nt |
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Myrina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 10:42 AM Response to Reply #25 |
123. Fine with me. It's the 'social construct' of it being wrong that makes it wrong. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 10:44 AM Response to Reply #123 |
124. ya. that ole, damn social construct that makes murder and theft wrong. i hear ya |
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Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:33 PM Response to Reply #124 |
148. You old-fashioned prude. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:44 PM Response to Reply #148 |
182. mmm |
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Common Sense Party (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 02:54 PM Response to Reply #182 |
191. I'm a prude dude. I don't think it should carry the derogatory weight |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 04:18 PM Response to Reply #191 |
195. yep yep yep. one of the things |
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MikeW (554 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 05:23 PM Response to Reply #22 |
198. did you really write "I have been deeply in "love", but have always cheated sexually" |
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Eddie Haskell (817 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:34 AM Response to Original message |
23. Carry a condom and a contract |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:39 AM Response to Original message |
26. I blame the women. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:40 AM Response to Reply #26 |
27. i kept reading, looking at your name, reading, looking at your name |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:47 AM Response to Reply #27 |
30. You can count on me, SB. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:48 AM Response to Reply #30 |
31. i have all the confidence in the world.... RT. lol. nt |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:49 AM Response to Reply #26 |
32. !! |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:52 AM Response to Original message |
33. some do it |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 07:57 AM Response to Original message |
35. Some do, some don't. |
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TheCowsCameHome (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:10 AM Response to Original message |
40. It's in their jeans. |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:26 AM Response to Reply #40 |
53. Or not! ;-) |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:09 AM Response to Reply #53 |
66. i was thinkin. i was thinkin if in the jeans... where is the beef? nt |
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spanone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:11 AM Response to Original message |
41. it takes two to tango |
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shanti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:55 PM Response to Reply #41 |
160. exactly. |
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dynasaw (664 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:19 AM Response to Original message |
43. Not ALL Men |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:29 AM Response to Reply #43 |
57. well said |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:27 AM Response to Reply #43 |
75. You're new here so you don't know |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:31 AM Response to Reply #75 |
80. hm. perfectly acceptable? look at the vast majority disagreeing. i have yet to see one called out |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:34 AM Response to Reply #80 |
82. Actually |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:39 AM Response to Reply #82 |
88. you give me a huge thread. i am not going to hunt what you are suggesting. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:41 AM Response to Reply #88 |
90. Right right |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:45 AM Response to Reply #90 |
95. you nderstand you stated sweeping statements accepted, (which this thread proves otherwise) |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:50 AM Response to Reply #95 |
104. Actually I said it was a possibility |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:39 AM Response to Reply #80 |
89. I have been reading through thinking |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:41 AM Response to Reply #89 |
93. it is the flavor, one chooses to go. we have the power.... brothah/sistah. nt |
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FLPanhandle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:22 AM Response to Original message |
45. Men is too broad |
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Chris_Texas (707 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:28 AM Response to Reply #45 |
77. I disagree. |
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FLPanhandle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 10:08 AM Response to Reply #77 |
113. Maybe my situation and group of friends is unique |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 10:13 AM Response to Reply #113 |
115. this is what i have to continually do. check RL life with what i read on the net |
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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:25 AM Response to Original message |
48. I KNOW why women do it, it's the man's fault for not doing x/y/z |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:25 AM Response to Original message |
49. Because they......... You know the rest. |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:26 AM Response to Original message |
50. Stop and think about what you just posted. Unless these men are having sex with other men... |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:07 PM Response to Reply #50 |
168. Many, many men lie about their status (obviously not in Arnold's case) |
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yella_dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-19-11 09:18 AM Response to Reply #168 |
205. Boy. That one in ten is one busy girl. |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:26 AM Response to Original message |
52. Arrogance |
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guruoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:48 AM Response to Reply #52 |
102. Boredom. nt |
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EstimatedProphet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:26 AM Response to Original message |
54. Maybe they do it because you condemn all men. |
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The2ndWheel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:28 AM Response to Original message |
56. They want to, and can |
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S_E_Fudd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:32 AM Response to Original message |
58. Yeah...not exclusive to Men... |
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Javaman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 08:58 AM Response to Original message |
61. Why do women do it? |
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david_vincent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:04 AM Response to Original message |
63. Studies show that women |
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Whisp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:14 AM Response to Original message |
69. because men still hold the majority of positions of power |
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montanto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:25 AM Response to Original message |
74. Men means all men. I have't done it. I'm a man. |
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Bluenorthwest (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:27 AM Response to Original message |
76. Each of those men had female partners, some more than one. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:32 AM Response to Reply #76 |
81. well, as a part of that heterosexual community i think i can say, MOST all of us here on du |
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ChoppinBroccoli (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:35 AM Response to Original message |
84. The Same Reason Why SOME Men Beat Their Wives |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:47 AM Response to Reply #84 |
97. i hate... being told i nag, like to shop, need to cuddle, have to be married, |
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karynnj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:39 AM Response to Original message |
86. Clinton's answer might fit most of them, "because he could" |
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Keith Bee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:39 AM Response to Original message |
87. Ever read Genesis? |
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guruoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:44 AM Response to Original message |
94. Better to ask: why doesn't everybody do it? nt |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:47 AM Response to Original message |
98. Because they can. Because they know their bodies won't |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:47 AM Response to Original message |
99. Why do "SO MANY" men do it... I have never cheated. EVER. not even a little bit. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:55 AM Response to Original message |
107. Your better question is "how?" since the chaste and virtuous women would never participate. nt |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 09:57 AM Response to Reply #107 |
108. ha ha ha ha. that made me laugh. nt |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 10:02 AM Response to Reply #107 |
111. Good point |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:30 PM Response to Reply #107 |
175. See #174. -nt |
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ensho (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 10:30 AM Response to Original message |
119. I think the male ego has something to do with it |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 10:41 AM Response to Reply #119 |
122. another of my pet peeves, coddle the male ego and fuck, the woman isnt even allowed ego. nt |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 10:36 AM Response to Original message |
120. Because they are able to locate willing partners who are happy to cooperate with them in it. |
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Marr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 10:39 AM Response to Original message |
121. My mom did it. My ex-girlfriend did it. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:00 PM Response to Reply #121 |
163. One in four men cheat, one in ten women cheat. It IS unequal. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:47 PM Response to Reply #163 |
183. i have read over 17% of women (and they lie and hide better) and 21% men |
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jcboon (73 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 10:48 AM Response to Original message |
126. Lack of character--men and women |
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Township75 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 10:55 AM Response to Original message |
128. How about why don't women do it? The answer is that young men... |
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Zorra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 10:57 AM Response to Original message |
129. Could it be... |
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Keith Bee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 02:48 PM Response to Reply #129 |
190. Yes! The Devil made my peepee stand up! Not my fault! |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 10:57 AM Response to Original message |
130. And an increasing number of women are doing it and have |
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jp11 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:12 PM Response to Original message |
142. Why do women do it? |
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Keith Bee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:29 PM Response to Original message |
146. I can't see beyond the protests |
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TroglodyteScholar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:36 PM Response to Original message |
149. I'm guessing they have the same reasons that women have when they do it. |
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Bake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:44 PM Response to Original message |
152. Just men? Wow. Then who are they doing it with? |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:28 PM Response to Reply #152 |
174. Surely, they must all be gay. |
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Bake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 02:05 PM Response to Reply #174 |
188. Indeed. And well put. |
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Spike89 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:50 PM Response to Original message |
154. Aside from the obvious (not all men do) ... |
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Shandris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:52 PM Response to Original message |
157. My father is on his sixth marriage. He cheated once, then proceeded... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:52 PM Response to Reply #157 |
185. firstly... i giggled... SIX. lol. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:54 PM Response to Original message |
159. It's their nature. Not all men-or women-have the "monogamy gene": |
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mochajava666 (771 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:58 PM Response to Original message |
161. Why do dogs lick their balls? Because they can. |
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MicaelS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 12:59 PM Response to Original message |
162. A sense of entitlement.. |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:02 PM Response to Original message |
164. All human beings are wired to do bad shit. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:09 PM Response to Reply #164 |
171. So the fact that one in four men cheat while only one in ten women cheat makes women |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:14 PM Response to Reply #171 |
172. Why, yes, in fact, that's exactly the case. |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:30 PM Response to Reply #171 |
176. Rich people commit less armed robbery than poor people-- |
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yella_dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-19-11 09:24 AM Response to Reply #171 |
206. One in ten? |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:07 PM Response to Original message |
169. Deleted message |
DevonRex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:33 PM Response to Original message |
177. Most men don't. Nt |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:41 PM Response to Original message |
181. There are as many reasons as there are cheaters. |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:50 PM Response to Original message |
184. "They fear death." Movie quote, but there's truth in it... |
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slutticus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 01:53 PM Response to Original message |
186. 'cause we're horny |
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LadyHawkAZ (800 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 02:03 PM Response to Original message |
187. Steak is delicious |
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Keith Bee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 03:46 PM Response to Original message |
193. "It's not a tumor!" |
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yella_dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 03:50 PM Response to Original message |
194. All men are worthless scumbag bastards. |
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Keith Bee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 06:17 PM Response to Reply #194 |
199. You say that like it's a BAD thing |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 06:22 PM Response to Reply #199 |
200. a person can tell |
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DuaneBidoux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 04:38 PM Response to Original message |
196. Stats you that the gender percentage is roughly equal although usually for different reasons. |
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krabigirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 06:53 PM Response to Original message |
202. why do PEOPLE do it? FTFY. |
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I owe (70 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 10:49 PM Response to Original message |
203. Homo sapiens is an animal species |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-18-11 10:56 PM Response to Original message |
204. maybe it's the "guys will be guys" attitude while Women who do it are treated worse |
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