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Mari333 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 07:05 AM Original message |
So a guy comes to my door yesterday and knocks |
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ProfessorGAC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 07:11 AM Response to Original message |
1. Don't Blame You, Mari |
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Mari333 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 07:13 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. thanks. I needed feedback. |
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Yurovsky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 08:40 AM Response to Reply #2 |
18. You CAN'T feel bad about this... |
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Bitwit1234 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 07:43 AM Response to Reply #1 |
12. Maybe the buy does need money and after the sidewalk thing |
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Raven (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 07:14 AM Response to Original message |
3. Well, his returning is troublesome. Do you live alone? Do you know |
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redwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 07:17 AM Response to Reply #3 |
5. Absolutely Raven! |
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freeplessinseattle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-21-10 02:13 AM Response to Reply #5 |
67. Yes-I'm a softy too, but some wrong people can sense that |
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Mari333 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 07:19 AM Response to Reply #3 |
6. yes I am alone |
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Raven (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 07:24 AM Response to Reply #6 |
8. Listen, you will be doing this man a favor. I work in a town and I |
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old mark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 09:03 AM Response to Reply #3 |
25. I agree. I would also second the idea of talking to the police about this. |
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redwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 07:16 AM Response to Original message |
4. It is a little scary that he is coming to your door. |
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Chemisse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 07:22 AM Response to Original message |
7. There is a good chance that he wanted the money for drugs |
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Mari333 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 07:32 AM Response to Reply #7 |
9. you guys help a lot..just called the local police and they said |
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mascarax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 08:49 AM Response to Reply #9 |
22. You did the right thing |
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hisownpetard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 12:19 PM Response to Reply #9 |
50. You're a good person and your instinct is to help, but you did the right thing. |
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Chemisse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 10:25 PM Response to Reply #9 |
65. Thanks for the hug |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 04:17 PM Response to Reply #7 |
61. that's absolutely what it is |
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woodsprite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 07:38 AM Response to Original message |
10. Yes, Please be careful! |
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HysteryDiagnosis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 07:38 AM Response to Original message |
11. A lot of people are perfectly harmless until they aren't. You did |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 07:45 AM Response to Original message |
13. I think you have to go with your gut. |
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Tutankhamun (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 07:47 AM Response to Original message |
14. It's really wrong to knock on people's doors and ask for money. |
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Vinca (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 08:33 AM Response to Original message |
15. It's hard turning someone down, but there are people who make a living at this. |
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maryf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 08:35 AM Response to Original message |
16. Please warn the guy you are calling the police... |
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ixion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 08:38 AM Response to Original message |
17. I think you did the right thing |
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Mari333 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 08:44 AM Response to Reply #17 |
19. thanks everyone. if he shows up again I will just tell him I have let the police know |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 09:36 AM Response to Reply #19 |
29. No, don't talk to him at all! |
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Cass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 10:15 AM Response to Reply #19 |
39. I agree with Dappleganger in the above post. You never know how he will |
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Corgigal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 08:46 AM Response to Original message |
20. Not only did you do the right thing |
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The Velveteen Ocelot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 08:47 AM Response to Original message |
21. Something very much like that happened to me once. |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 09:40 AM Response to Reply #21 |
31. It's scary what people do. My father was a victim of a theft ring... |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 09:54 AM Response to Reply #21 |
35. Wow...that's VERY creepy!!! |
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Dyedinthewoolliberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 08:56 AM Response to Original message |
23. Door to door panhandling? |
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proudohioan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 09:01 AM Response to Original message |
24. I feel for you, Mari333! |
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DemocratSinceBirth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 09:06 AM Response to Original message |
26. This Economy Has Made Peasants Out Of Otherwise Hard Working, Decent, Folks |
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Liquorice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 04:15 PM Response to Reply #26 |
60. Hard working, decent people don't repeatedly go to a stranger's home and beg for money. nt |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 09:34 AM Response to Original message |
27. Remember that you do NOT have to answer your door. |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 09:35 AM Response to Original message |
28. Daughter's birthday? |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 01:06 PM Response to Reply #28 |
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geckosfeet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 09:37 AM Response to Original message |
30. You were nicer than I would have been. There are millions of "not a bad guy/gal" |
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ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 09:41 AM Response to Original message |
32. You shouldn't open the door for strangers |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 09:41 AM Response to Original message |
33. Tell the guy since he wants you to support him... |
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Tim01 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 09:48 AM Response to Original message |
34. This is a very tough call. |
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Indepatriot (119 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 09:56 AM Response to Original message |
36. Call the Police |
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1monster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 09:58 AM Response to Original message |
37. Check into whatever help is available for people who are in need are available. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 09:58 AM Response to Original message |
38. a couple scams in my area. at least five people have run out of gas on this neighborhood street |
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freeplessinseattle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-21-10 10:31 AM Response to Reply #38 |
73. guy with a splint thing on his foot would hang out at TJ's |
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smoogatz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 10:30 AM Response to Original message |
40. I had this happen a few times when I was living in Charlottesville |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 10:54 AM Response to Reply #40 |
43. Doesn't say much for your culinary skills, does it? |
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smoogatz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 11:07 AM Response to Reply #43 |
46. True dat. n/t |
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lonestarnot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 10:32 AM Response to Original message |
41. Tough when the poor are always put in the position to give the most isn't it. |
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lonestarnot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 10:46 AM Response to Original message |
42. After having a cup of coffee, this is what I may have done. |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 10:57 AM Response to Original message |
44. Don't open the door for him again. Tell him to leave and call the police. |
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marshall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 10:59 AM Response to Original message |
45. You might get info on local church or community run charities |
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tango-tee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 11:20 AM Response to Original message |
47. Listen to that feeling in your gut. |
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shireen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 11:50 AM Response to Original message |
48. thanks for posting your OP, the thread has been interesting |
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AwakeAtLast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 12:00 PM Response to Original message |
49. Initially you paid him for something he did |
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Emit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 12:30 PM Response to Original message |
51. I think you are wise to keep your distance, Mari333 |
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bemildred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 12:31 PM Response to Original message |
52. "No good deed goes unpunished." |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 12:35 PM Response to Reply #52 |
53. IMO this is why it's often wiser to give to good agencies rather than an individual. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 12:57 PM Response to Original message |
54. you can't ever give money to people who come to your door |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 01:05 PM Response to Original message |
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Festivito (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 04:01 PM Response to Original message |
57. Refer him to a local church. |
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OmmmSweetOmmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 04:10 PM Response to Original message |
58. Your relating this story to us makes me feel as if you are very very uncomfortable with this person. |
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datasuspect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 04:12 PM Response to Original message |
59. don't feed strays |
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mistertrickster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 08:53 PM Response to Original message |
62. Don't give him anymore money, unless you want to give him money every day. nt |
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TK421 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 09:00 PM Response to Original message |
63. He returned with the kid in the car to play on your sympathies....he's a snake |
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Blue_Tires (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 10:00 PM Response to Original message |
64. who asks a stranger for his daughter's birthday present?? |
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tom_paine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-20-10 10:39 PM Response to Original message |
66. Something smells fishy here, Mari. Be wary. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-21-10 02:17 AM Response to Original message |
68. Just tell him you don't have any money to spare. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-21-10 02:19 AM Response to Original message |
69. call the police if you see him again |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-21-10 02:43 AM Response to Original message |
70. You know what you need to do |
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Romulox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-21-10 02:45 AM Response to Original message |
71. It's a con. Call the cops. nt |
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tango-tee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-21-10 04:02 AM Response to Original message |
72. I'm usually a soft touch. |
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Carolina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-21-10 11:32 AM Response to Original message |
74. Some rules for a woman living alone |
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