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heli (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 05:12 PM Original message |
My Race-Based Valentine - Why Online Dating Is the Last Refuge of Overt Racial Preferences (TIME) |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 05:30 PM Response to Original message |
1. A review of the definition of racism is in order |
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paulsby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 06:00 PM Response to Reply #1 |
8. i agree |
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Number23 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:32 PM Response to Reply #8 |
32. The article states that "black women are perceived as bossy" so appearance is obviously |
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paulsby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:59 PM Response to Reply #32 |
50. you need to read more critically... |
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Number23 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:14 PM Response to Reply #50 |
57. Ummm... did someone piss in your Wheaties this morning?? |
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paulsby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:53 PM Response to Reply #57 |
75. i have no outrage whatsoever |
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Number23 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 09:55 PM Response to Reply #75 |
99. Okay. Then Happy Valentine's Day to you. |
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paulsby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 10:13 PM Response to Reply #99 |
101. i feel all warm and fuzzy |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 05:09 AM Response to Reply #50 |
148. I never knew there was a stereotype about Asian women |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 11:15 AM Response to Reply #148 |
160. That's what I had thought, too. I think they have their stereotypes a little off. |
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ddeclue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 12:08 AM Response to Reply #32 |
119. I'm white but I happen to prefer brunettes and Latinas not blondes. |
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KonaKane (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 05:40 PM Response to Original message |
2. Why this discrimination against Black women? |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 06:03 PM Response to Reply #2 |
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Raineyb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 06:50 PM Response to Reply #2 |
24. Because our culture consistently portrays black women as undesirable. |
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MadHound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:21 PM Response to Reply #24 |
28. And we're all controlled by the media, down to our every single action? |
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Raineyb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 02:49 AM Response to Reply #28 |
137. I didn't say that at all but to pretend that media portrayal plays no role at all is extremely |
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Mixopterus (568 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:38 PM Response to Reply #24 |
34. Ok, guy giving his opinion |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:02 PM Response to Reply #34 |
51. I don't see how "the face doesn't do it" for you when generally |
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Mixopterus (568 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:06 PM Response to Reply #51 |
53. I'm pretty sure |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:18 PM Response to Reply #53 |
58. You said the faces of AA women were intensely attractive, so |
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Mixopterus (568 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:24 PM Response to Reply #58 |
59. Ohh, no no no |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:36 PM Response to Reply #59 |
61. African or African American? n/t |
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Mixopterus (568 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:45 PM Response to Reply #61 |
66. Good question |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:49 PM Response to Reply #66 |
70. Something to contemplate. n/t |
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Mixopterus (568 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:51 PM Response to Reply #70 |
72. Yeah |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:53 PM Response to Reply #72 |
76. Who DO you like?? LOL!! n/t |
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Mixopterus (568 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 10:36 PM Response to Reply #76 |
104. I already said: |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 11:06 PM Response to Reply #104 |
107. Oh... ok! Forgot I read that. lol!! I'm tired. n/t |
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Mixopterus (568 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 11:23 PM Response to Reply #107 |
108. Yeah |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 05:41 PM Response to Original message |
3. I don't understand how it's racist to have racial preferences for dating partners. |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 05:44 PM Response to Reply #3 |
5. its not, people just look for shit like this, everyone has biases when it comes to dating |
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emilyg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:43 PM Response to Reply #3 |
38. It's not. |
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surrealAmerican (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 05:42 PM Response to Original message |
4. It's unpleasant, but not exactly racism. |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 05:46 PM Response to Original message |
6. It's not the last refuge when people practice dating "racism" every day in bars, the street, etc.. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 05:56 PM Response to Original message |
7. Even within "groups" there are "preferences" |
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WestSeattle2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 06:02 PM Response to Reply #7 |
9. Yes, the brain is an amazing thing! Always a source of |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 06:12 PM Response to Reply #7 |
14. Absolutely true. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 06:15 PM Response to Reply #7 |
17. so true, so true. 3,4,5,6 sons bond with mother, daughters with father with their worth |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 06:18 PM Response to Reply #17 |
18. i want to add. hands. hands are so important to me. i can remember little little |
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HipChick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:54 PM Response to Reply #18 |
48. Teeth for me.. |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 10:53 AM Response to Reply #48 |
159. I lol'ed! nt |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:13 PM Response to Reply #17 |
56. Science or no science that's not necessarily true. My son |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:24 PM Response to Reply #56 |
60. tend to, not absolute. and i am talking more if the daughter has a good relationship |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:38 PM Response to Reply #60 |
62. Exactly. Waaay too many variables involved. n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:39 PM Response to Reply #62 |
64. in child rearing or dealing with people there is never absolute. doesnt hurt to be aware. nt |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:47 PM Response to Reply #64 |
68. Even with controlled sampling there is no absolute. There may |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:56 PM Response to Reply #68 |
77. repeating. i acknowledge no absolutes. i told you know absolutes. so wtf? nt |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 09:00 PM Response to Reply #77 |
79. Sorry! Just conversating not debating. My bad. n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 09:01 PM Response to Reply #79 |
80. ahhhh. ok. thanks fire, i appreciation the clarification |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:48 PM Response to Reply #56 |
69. The preference for heavier girls |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:51 PM Response to Reply #69 |
73. Honey! TRUST ME!! These girls look NOTHING like me! lol!! |
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Ex Lurker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 06:30 PM Response to Reply #7 |
21. even creepier |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 06:41 PM Response to Reply #21 |
22. It has to account for the familial resemblances we see in so many familie |
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HipChick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 06:05 PM Response to Original message |
11. If you prefer to not date a obese person, would that be termed |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 06:08 PM Response to Original message |
12. i just really like my men with dark hair. i have never dated a blonde. or red head. |
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HipChick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 06:13 PM Response to Reply #12 |
15. I can't date anyone that is shorter than me...I'm 6ft without heels |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 06:19 PM Response to Reply #15 |
19. see?. and i am attracted to guys my height or a little taller but married a man much taller |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 06:14 PM Response to Reply #12 |
16. Why all this male pattern baldness bigotry!? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 06:20 PM Response to Reply #16 |
20. huh? |
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ddeclue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 01:17 AM Response to Reply #16 |
130. For example... |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:39 PM Response to Reply #12 |
35. but would you be open to going out with one and getting to know them |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:50 PM Response to Reply #35 |
44. i have never done online, or any org dating. they ask for preference |
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shanti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 03:14 AM Response to Reply #12 |
138. same here |
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Raschel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 12:37 PM Response to Reply #12 |
165. Swarthy guys for me too! Although I'll take Chase on 'House' or the 'Mentalist'. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 06:47 PM Response to Original message |
23. But...if you aren't attracted to someone, why bother? |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 06:51 PM Response to Reply #23 |
25. I think maturity has a lot to do with it too. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:47 PM Response to Reply #25 |
42. If maturity means settling for someone you aren't physically attracted to, |
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asdjrocky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 06:54 PM Response to Original message |
26. I'm just putting it out there, but sisters are welcome to apply here! |
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Liberal_Stalwart71 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 06:15 AM Response to Reply #26 |
150. *Raising hand* !!!! n/t |
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Mixopterus (568 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:03 PM Response to Original message |
27. And this is racist/bigoted how? |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:23 PM Response to Original message |
29. So damn sad. |
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Mixopterus (568 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:29 PM Response to Reply #29 |
31. Those are important qualities |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:40 PM Response to Reply #31 |
36. I pointed out that people have |
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Mixopterus (568 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:52 PM Response to Reply #36 |
46. Well |
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Confusious (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 06:29 AM Response to Reply #36 |
153. That makes absolutely no sense |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 01:07 PM Response to Reply #153 |
167. You are comparing body type to race. Bad analogy. |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:35 PM Response to Reply #29 |
33. This article dealt with online dating and the reactions to |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:46 PM Response to Reply #33 |
40. Eharmony and match.com do. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:43 PM Response to Reply #29 |
39. having never done online dating, or any kind of org dating where i would list preference, i cannot |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:49 PM Response to Reply #39 |
43. That's fine. Everyone has their opinion on this subject. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:51 PM Response to Reply #43 |
45. sure. i guess my point is, some of the answers you may |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:04 PM Response to Reply #45 |
52. I find them superficial, but some people are cool with that. |
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Mixopterus (568 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:08 PM Response to Reply #52 |
54. So what is attractive to you |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 09:00 PM Response to Reply #54 |
78. Well |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 09:17 PM Response to Reply #78 |
84. Three cheers for open minded! Great quality. n/t |
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MadHound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:24 PM Response to Original message |
30. I noticed that they didn't go into the racial preferences of black men, |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:43 PM Response to Reply #30 |
37. When I experimented with online |
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Alias Dictus Tyrant (401 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 09:20 PM Response to Reply #37 |
87. The general answer seems to be straightforward |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 11:55 PM Response to Reply #87 |
112. I don't agree with the hyper-sexual stereotype either. |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:46 PM Response to Reply #30 |
41. Black and hispanic men are very attracted to me. |
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burning rain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:53 PM Response to Original message |
47. Hmm? |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 07:59 PM Response to Original message |
49. what is the experience of black women on here ? |
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Number23 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:43 PM Response to Reply #49 |
65. I agree. But apparently there are a few people who wish to pretend that being fed |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:47 PM Response to Reply #65 |
67. my 6'1 dark haired, green-eyed Aussie hunk .... ahhhhhhhh |
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Number23 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 09:06 PM Response to Reply #67 |
81. You're right, seabeyond. And as J17 mentioned, there is no question that the media |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 09:09 PM Response to Reply #81 |
82. True that, my sista! lol!! (in a whisper) n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 09:11 PM Response to Reply #81 |
83. pretend that the way groups of people are represented in the media "doesn't matter." |
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Raineyb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 03:39 AM Response to Reply #83 |
142. "surely no one is that obtuse, unaware.... shit, just plain fuckin stupid, lol" |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 09:22 PM Response to Reply #49 |
88. True and I know from personal experience. n/t |
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Liberal_Stalwart71 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 06:20 AM Response to Reply #49 |
151. I am a black woman and if I had a penny for every white/Latino male that hit on me |
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Pharlo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:10 PM Response to Original message |
55. Something that this article did not mention - |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:39 PM Response to Original message |
63. "Overt racial preferences". |
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Kurt_and_Hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:49 PM Response to Original message |
71. Should someone be wasting folks' time to appear "open-minded"? |
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ddeclue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 12:38 AM Response to Reply #71 |
125. Job hunting vs. dating.. |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 08:51 PM Response to Original message |
74. I think its possible to have an ethnic preference in dating |
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KamaAina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 09:18 PM Response to Original message |
85. I freely admit that I have an overt racial preference |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 09:20 PM Response to Reply #85 |
86. BWAHAHA, I was going to post the same remark! |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 09:25 PM Response to Original message |
89. I am attracted to very light, untanned skin, but racism doesn't really have anything to do with it. |
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c brand (72 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 09:35 PM Response to Original message |
90. eHarmony is bogus |
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c brand (72 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 09:39 PM Response to Original message |
91. FWIW racial pref stats from the hardcopy version of Time:: |
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Blue_Tires (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 09:42 PM Response to Reply #91 |
93. welcome to the site... |
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c brand (72 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 09:44 PM Response to Reply #91 |
94. Per Time stats, white males are the most desirable of all race-gender combos??????? |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 11:59 PM Response to Reply #94 |
113. uggggh |
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heli (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 10:41 PM Response to Reply #91 |
105. Thanks for adding the addendum! |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 09:39 PM Response to Original message |
92. I think this is creepy and disturbing and here's why... |
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Liberal_Stalwart71 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 06:26 AM Response to Reply #92 |
152. Thank you for your honesty. I must admit that black women are used to being told |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 03:40 PM Response to Reply #152 |
168. I'm so sorry. |
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Number23 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 05:16 PM Response to Reply #168 |
169. Brilliant post. Top to bottom. Your first one in this thread was great too. |
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Liberal_Stalwart71 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 07:57 PM Response to Reply #169 |
175. Based on the findings of the study cited in the study, I guess I'm on the side of the author |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-15-10 03:44 PM Response to Reply #169 |
178. Wow, thank you so much! |
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c brand (72 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 09:45 PM Response to Original message |
95. Per above Time stats, white males are the most desirable of all race-gender combos??????? |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 09:54 PM Response to Reply #95 |
98. You posted this twice. Any reason for that? n/t |
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Sen. Walter Sobchak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 09:45 PM Response to Original message |
96. so people trolling for ass on the internet are a good sample for a sociological study? |
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HipChick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 09:52 PM Response to Original message |
97. This is very Americentric..no one really bats an eyelid to inter-racial dating in the UK |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 09:58 PM Response to Reply #97 |
100. How true. I guess that's why I love Europe, the netherlands, |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 12:03 AM Response to Reply #97 |
114. Interesting point. Thanks. |
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ddeclue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 12:33 AM Response to Reply #97 |
123. And they don't in NYC or Miami or L.A. generally either. |
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LatteLibertine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 10:24 PM Response to Original message |
102. Having preferences is fine |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 10:27 PM Response to Original message |
103. I suppose I should feel bad for having preferences at all. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 11:47 PM Response to Reply #103 |
111. .... |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 12:18 AM Response to Reply #111 |
122. It's nice to have an open mind, but trying to make people feel guilty |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 12:38 AM Response to Reply #122 |
124. Exactly. It will work no better than a gay person marrying a heterosexual. |
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ddeclue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 01:00 AM Response to Reply #103 |
127. Does the name "Charles Darwin" or the "Theory of Evolution" ring a bell anyone? |
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c brand (72 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 01:22 AM Response to Reply #127 |
131. Bingo - examples: Asian males, BBWs |
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ddeclue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 01:27 AM Response to Reply #131 |
133. I'm NOT singling out a race here.. I'm just saying people make choices |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 10:41 AM Response to Reply #127 |
158. Yep--could be childhood experiences, could be some sort of subconscious |
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Number23 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 05:22 PM Response to Reply #158 |
170. "It's really not an area suited to affirmative action". |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 11:01 PM Response to Original message |
106. These idiots could miss out on someone who is really good for them |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 12:06 AM Response to Reply #106 |
117. Ding Ding Ding! |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 01:00 AM Response to Reply #117 |
128. If you're in jail. |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 03:35 AM Response to Reply #128 |
141. I'm talking about something more profound than sex. |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 04:03 AM Response to Reply #141 |
144. Ain't much in the world more profound than sex. |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 04:28 AM Response to Reply #144 |
145. So YOU say. |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 08:27 PM Response to Reply #144 |
176. Do you think you are being auditioned? |
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ddeclue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 12:52 AM Response to Reply #106 |
126. Sorry but when it comes to "love" we're all "idiots"..it just doesn't work that way. |
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c brand (72 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 01:14 AM Response to Reply #126 |
129. Prob is ... so-called nice guys ain't really nice:: |
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ddeclue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 01:32 AM Response to Reply #129 |
134. "bad boys" are no more genuine and are generally putting on an act for a quick score.. |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 08:33 PM Response to Reply #134 |
177. Oh please, nice girls get nowhere either |
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Confusious (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 06:41 AM Response to Reply #106 |
154. Or we could waste 99.99% of our |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 11:34 PM Response to Original message |
109. Apolo Ohno is Asian , how many women of any race would reject him ? |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-13-10 11:38 PM Response to Original message |
110. does anyone know if there are similar studies on gays and lesbians ? |
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ddeclue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 12:04 AM Response to Original message |
115. People make these exact same choices in bars and clubs - they just aren't being written down. |
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jobwithout (118 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 12:05 AM Response to Original message |
116. I am a 67 years old Black Man |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 12:15 AM Response to Reply #116 |
120. And here I am, telling you that you don't have to date anyone you don't want to! |
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Throd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 12:06 AM Response to Original message |
118. Women are either hot, or they're not. Race isn't a factor for me. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 12:15 AM Response to Reply #118 |
121. same with men, same for me |
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Number23 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 01:49 AM Response to Reply #118 |
136. Exactly. And in a truly "post-racial" world, it wouldn't be an issue for anyone. |
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ddeclue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 01:23 AM Response to Original message |
132. Looks matter, hair matters, height matters or Kucinich would have been the nominee. |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 03:19 AM Response to Reply #132 |
139. yeah, but you are posting about beauty, this is about race |
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ddeclue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 03:21 AM Response to Reply #139 |
140. I doubt it.. my point is that people's racial preferences are just one more subjective standard used |
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Raineyb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 03:43 AM Response to Reply #140 |
143. You doubt it? The article is about how a large percentage of online daters deliberately |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 04:52 AM Response to Reply #143 |
147. I don't think these assholes would go that far. |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 09:43 AM Response to Reply #147 |
157. I don't believe that at all. There are many cultural, ethnic, religious groups that don't -- |
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Raineyb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 12:04 PM Response to Reply #147 |
161. Oh I have no doubt that there are some who would make exceptions for |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 04:34 AM Response to Reply #132 |
146. Just for the record I find Janeane Garafolo extremely attractive. |
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ddeclue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 06:12 PM Response to Reply #146 |
172. moderately attractive..certainly not supermodel material... |
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DutchLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 12:31 PM Response to Reply #132 |
162. But Kucinich did end up with a beautiful wife! |
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ddeclue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 06:13 PM Response to Reply #162 |
173. but they don't live in the White House.. |
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DeadEyeDyck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 01:36 AM Response to Original message |
135. I have trouble with all of this |
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Liberal_Stalwart71 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 06:02 AM Response to Original message |
149. I'm a black woman who's trying to find love online and I'm having fun with it... |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 12:43 PM Response to Reply #149 |
166. I'm doing the online thing as well--I've met someone and it's going |
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Chemisse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 07:00 AM Response to Original message |
155. It's funny |
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c brand (72 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 08:10 AM Response to Original message |
156. It's really about culture and probably religion also, not just race |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 12:34 PM Response to Original message |
163. OP, OP, Aunt Bea's made chicken, biscuits, 'n gravy... C'mon and eat, ya hear? nt |
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DutchLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 12:37 PM Response to Original message |
164. Funny, I'm a white male and I'm the exact opposite... |
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texasleo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 06:06 PM Response to Original message |
171. black women will be snubbed by men of ALL races-- ding ding |
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AsahinaKimi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-14-10 06:21 PM Response to Original message |
174. "the media's portrayal of Asian women as being hypersexual" |
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