|
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend Bookmark this thread |
This topic is archived. |
Home » Discuss » Archives » General Discussion (1/22-2007 thru 12/14/2010) |
Boojatta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 10:59 AM Original message |
Do you feel a moral obligation to adopt or be a biological parent of at least one child? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
NMDemDist2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:00 AM Response to Original message |
1. no n/t |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
catmandu57 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:01 AM Response to Original message |
2. No, no I don't |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
ProdigalJunkMail (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:02 AM Response to Original message |
3. no moral obligation...but we definitely wanted children... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Dhalgren (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:02 AM Response to Original message |
4. No. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
smokey nj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:02 AM Response to Original message |
5. No. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Cobalt Violet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:02 AM Response to Original message |
6. No way. n/t |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Robeson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:03 AM Response to Original message |
7. No. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
kestrel91316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:04 AM Response to Original message |
8. No. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
YOY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:05 AM Response to Original message |
9. No moral obligation, but I'm glad our daughter is in our life |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
DURHAM D (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:05 AM Response to Original message |
10. No - but I do feel a moral obligation to pay enough taxes |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
fidgeting wildly (335 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:10 AM Response to Reply #10 |
18. Same. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:18 AM Response to Reply #10 |
21. Me too. nt |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Boojatta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 07:09 PM Response to Reply #10 |
74. Do you feel a moral obligation to rent or own property for which |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
myrna minx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:06 AM Response to Original message |
11. No. n/t |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
trackfan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:07 AM Response to Original message |
12. No |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
11 Bravo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:07 AM Response to Original message |
13. No, but I can't imagine life without the two we have. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
bowens43 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:07 AM Response to Original message |
14. No, although I have fathered and raised three.... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Tierra_y_Libertad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:08 AM Response to Original message |
15. "Having a family is like having a bowling alley installed in your head." |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
peacebird (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:09 AM Response to Original message |
16. no |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Arkansas Granny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:10 AM Response to Original message |
17. No. I wanted children, but I didn't feel it was a moral obligation. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
wavesofeuphoria (204 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:11 AM Response to Original message |
19. to adopt .. yes |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
liberal N proud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:16 AM Response to Original message |
20. Obligation did not drive us to have children |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
eShirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:18 AM Response to Original message |
22. no, just the opposite with what's about to happen to the planet . n/t |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:20 AM Response to Reply #22 |
23. Agree. I used to feel really bad about not having kids. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:49 AM Response to Reply #22 |
32. I can understand that attitude with biological children, but |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Lobster Martini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:23 AM Response to Original message |
24. What they said...no. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:25 AM Response to Original message |
25. Moral obligation? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
fasttense (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:30 AM Response to Original message |
26. Never felt it was a moral obligation to have a child, more like a luxury. n/t |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Dora (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:42 AM Response to Original message |
27. Yes and no. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:43 AM Response to Original message |
28. Huh?! Ummm...NO!...n/t |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:54 AM Response to Reply #28 |
34. Clarifying |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Boojatta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 01:43 PM Response to Reply #34 |
39. Yet, an adult doesn't even have the right to speak to a child unless |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 02:07 PM Response to Reply #39 |
45. ? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Boojatta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 02:09 PM Response to Reply #45 |
46. I don't get address or identification information from people I encounter |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 02:15 PM Response to Reply #46 |
50. True... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Matsubara (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:44 AM Original message |
No. I have two kids because I wanted kids. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:44 AM Response to Original message |
29. Now that I have one, yeh, I kinda feel an obligation to parent her. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Boojatta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 01:45 PM Response to Reply #29 |
40. How about sperm banks? Do those who deposit into sperm banks |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 02:33 PM Response to Reply #40 |
51. Only if they make the deposit through the drive-thru window |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
porphyrian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:45 AM Response to Original message |
30. Not necessarily, but I seem to feel more responsibility for children than some of their parents.-n/t |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
CelticWinter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:46 AM Response to Original message |
31. moral obligation no--- |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
saltpoint (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 11:52 AM Response to Original message |
33. Folks can have children if they wish but shouldn't feel they have to. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 12:03 PM Response to Original message |
35. Nope. There are many ways to 'raise' children without being a parent. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
frebrd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 12:57 PM Response to Original message |
36. Say what? Moral? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Boojatta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 01:49 PM Response to Reply #36 |
41. No, I'm wondering about opinions here. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Judi Lynn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 01:10 PM Response to Original message |
37. Why, no! What about you? n/t |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Boojatta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 02:02 PM Response to Reply #37 |
44. I don't feel a moral obligation to do either, but I imagine that |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mentalsolstice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 01:19 PM Response to Original message |
38. I felt a moral obligation NOT to parent! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 01:50 PM Response to Original message |
42. No. n/t |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 01:52 PM Response to Original message |
43. I felt a moral |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
jannyk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 02:11 PM Response to Original message |
47. No n/t |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
enigmatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 02:13 PM Response to Original message |
48. no |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Bluerthanblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 02:14 PM Response to Original message |
49. obligation??? no one should parent for that reason- |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 02:37 PM Response to Original message |
52. Nope. Not a bit. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Boojatta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 01:49 PM Response to Reply #52 |
64. That's a tough question. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Marnieworld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 02:42 PM Response to Original message |
53. Nope |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 02:48 PM Response to Original message |
54. I doubt that I'd even be allowed to adopt a child. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
CelticWinter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 05:16 PM Response to Reply #54 |
58. There are alot of children out there that----- |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 05:47 PM Response to Reply #58 |
62. Maybe when I'm older and make more than 14K a year |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
ulysses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 01:50 PM Response to Reply #54 |
65. you can adopt as a single parent. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
GreenEyedLefty (708 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 02:49 PM Response to Original message |
55. No. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Amaya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 02:51 PM Response to Original message |
56. no, but I have |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Eurobabe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 02:52 PM Response to Original message |
57. No. Not everyone should be a parent, my mother is a prime example |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Annces (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 05:25 PM Response to Original message |
59. No |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
NightWatcher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 05:26 PM Response to Original message |
60. I feel obligated NOT to reproduce |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
MN ChimpH8R (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 05:42 PM Response to Original message |
61. Hell no |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
AZBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-26-07 05:47 PM Response to Original message |
63. I have absolutely NO obligation to procreate. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
ulysses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 01:51 PM Response to Original message |
66. not a moral obligation, no. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Connie_Corleone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 01:53 PM Response to Original message |
67. No! I can barely take care of myself. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 01:55 PM Response to Original message |
68. No, other people can do that. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 01:56 PM Response to Original message |
69. No and Hell No |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
rebecca_herman (494 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 02:19 PM Response to Original message |
70. No |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
GOTV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 02:20 PM Response to Original message |
71. no |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 02:25 PM Response to Original message |
72. Only if humans were an endangered species! |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
lonestarnot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 02:26 PM Response to Original message |
73. Yes. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 07:11 PM Response to Original message |
75. No moral obligation, but I do have a child |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 07:14 PM Response to Original message |
76. No, parenthood is a choice. I choose to be a parent. Not everyone does. So what? nt |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Boojatta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-28-07 10:17 AM Response to Reply #76 |
81. You could ask "so what?" in reply to many thousands of Original Posts |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-28-07 10:49 AM Response to Reply #81 |
83. I said it because it doesn't make sense to me why anyone would put that pressure on another person. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Boojatta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-28-07 11:53 AM Response to Reply #83 |
84. I don't know anything about cultures in Africa, India, or the Middle East, |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 07:24 PM Response to Original message |
77. Nope |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Geek_Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 07:50 PM Response to Original message |
78. No but being a parent is a wonderful experience |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
MedleyMisty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 08:07 PM Response to Original message |
79. No |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-27-07 09:35 PM Response to Original message |
80. No. My desire to proreate had more to do with the biology of instinct, |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
InvisibleTouch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-28-07 10:42 AM Response to Original message |
82. Not in the least. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Wcross (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-28-07 12:20 PM Response to Original message |
85. I feel a moral obligation NOT to bring a child into this world. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Boojatta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-29-07 10:43 PM Response to Original message |
86. What percentage of illegal immigrants to the USA believe that they have |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Thothmes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-30-07 07:28 AM Response to Original message |
87. No |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
DU AdBot (1000+ posts) | Fri Apr 26th 2024, 11:05 PM Response to Original message |
Advertisements [?] |
Top |
Home » Discuss » Archives » General Discussion (1/22-2007 thru 12/14/2010) |
Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators
Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.
Home | Discussion Forums | Journals | Store | Donate
About DU | Contact Us | Privacy Policy
Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.
© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC