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lwcon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 12:52 AM Original message |
What's wrong with positive thinking? |
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madfloridian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 12:57 AM Response to Original message |
1. Nothing unless it is carried too far. Sometimes reality must set in. |
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lwcon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 01:02 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. I have a weird preference... |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 01:08 AM Response to Original message |
3. I just finished that book. What's wrong is a lot of things. |
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Go2Peace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 01:07 AM Response to Reply #3 |
47. I will have to read it. Did it discuss loss of empathy as one of the results? |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-02-09 11:06 PM Response to Reply #47 |
90. She goes into the "create your own reality" scenario |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 01:10 AM Response to Original message |
4. Join the discussion... |
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Alexander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 01:13 AM Response to Original message |
5. I agree 99%, except there really are some hopelessly negative people out there to avoid. |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 01:22 AM Response to Reply #5 |
6. Those people are worry warts. Still I would want my airline pilot to worry a little. |
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Alexander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 01:28 AM Response to Reply #6 |
7. I agree, but I also wouldn't want a depressed addict flying the plane who suggests we might crash. |
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lwcon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 01:34 AM Response to Reply #7 |
9. Positiveness, even in highly irrational forms, is culturally supported |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 01:34 AM Response to Reply #7 |
10. The book is for you then. |
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Alexander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 01:37 AM Response to Reply #10 |
13. Not really. I already agree with the premise, as I've said. |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 01:46 AM Response to Reply #13 |
16. And she calls for a healthy balance in the whole spectrum of human emotions. |
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lwcon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 01:46 AM Response to Reply #10 |
17. That pilot is sure he can navigate through that storm instead of heading to safety |
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conscious evolution (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 09:21 PM Response to Reply #6 |
67. I'll take a pessimist like Capt. Sullenberger anytime. nt |
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Luminous Animal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 01:39 AM Response to Reply #5 |
14. You didn't read the article. |
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Alexander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 01:45 AM Response to Reply #14 |
15. Actually I did, and I was relating it to my own experiences. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 01:28 AM Response to Original message |
8. People with depression often have a difficult time thinking positively. |
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Alexander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 01:34 AM Response to Reply #8 |
11. Exactly. |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 01:37 AM Response to Reply #8 |
12. The delusionally positive usually falls into depression harder than a realist though. |
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lwcon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 01:52 AM Response to Reply #12 |
18. Let's be fair |
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alliswellandsoitis (11 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 02:40 PM Response to Reply #12 |
37. Those people are in denial, which is totally different |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 09:13 PM Response to Reply #37 |
64. No, it's exactly the same. Denial is exactly what the book and article are about. |
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HughMoran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 03:10 PM Response to Reply #12 |
43. I rarely see the 'delusionally positive' get depressed though |
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wroberts189 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 03:06 AM Response to Reply #8 |
22. +1 |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 03:12 AM Response to Reply #8 |
23. Not really true. When depressed people do their own job evaluations, |
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Go2Peace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 01:02 AM Response to Reply #23 |
44. +1 - There are some people propagating innacurate stereotypes of those with Mental Health issues |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 09:07 PM Response to Reply #44 |
61. no way |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 01:05 AM Response to Reply #23 |
46. Your anecdotal reference does not make it "not really true". |
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Go2Peace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 01:03 AM Response to Reply #46 |
45. Wow, and your references are? That was terrible stereotyping and innacurate |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 03:08 AM Response to Reply #45 |
52. What was your point, again? |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 01:41 AM Response to Reply #46 |
50. Yes, I do have a source. Still looking for it. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-03-09 02:46 AM Response to Reply #50 |
93. Well, I think it sounds about right that if you ask someone with Depression |
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Hannah Bell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-03-09 07:47 AM Response to Reply #46 |
98. i gave you a reference, without comment. you responded with gratuitous rudeness. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-02-09 09:00 AM Response to Reply #23 |
72. Exactly! Good post. |
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Hannah Bell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-03-09 03:56 AM Response to Reply #8 |
94. Depressive realism |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-03-09 04:20 AM Response to Reply #94 |
95. I knew there was a good reason |
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Hannah Bell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-03-09 07:42 AM Response to Reply #95 |
97. rude biddy, aren't you? |
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avaistheone1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 02:00 AM Response to Original message |
19. Ignorance is bliss. |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 02:07 AM Response to Original message |
20. Carolyn Burnham: The quintessential positive thinker. |
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Extend a Hand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 02:15 AM Response to Original message |
21. global warming and peak oil |
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pipoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 05:42 AM Response to Original message |
24. Nothing is wrong with positive thinking. |
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lwcon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 07:34 AM Response to Reply #24 |
25. "Nothing is wrong with positive thinking" |
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Igel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 12:55 PM Response to Reply #24 |
32. Our dept. chair was deeply into only seeing the good. |
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lwcon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 01:52 PM Response to Reply #32 |
34. "Fixing the problems? That would require *admitting* the problems." |
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pipoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 06:36 AM Response to Reply #32 |
56. There is a difference between |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 09:18 PM Response to Reply #56 |
66. Again, this isn't about what you think positive thinking is. |
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pipoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-02-09 08:17 AM Response to Reply #66 |
70. This may be the motivation of some of the |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-02-09 04:37 PM Response to Reply #70 |
80. Ehrenreich had some choice words about Hill, and they weren't glowing. |
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pipoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-02-09 08:48 PM Response to Reply #80 |
82. I disagree |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-02-09 10:38 PM Response to Reply #82 |
87. I can see that. |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 09:09 PM Response to Reply #32 |
62. positive thinking doesn't mean no problems |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-02-09 09:03 AM Response to Reply #32 |
73. That is amusing and disturbing at the same time. |
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gkhouston (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-02-09 10:53 AM Response to Reply #73 |
78. To me, it was so familiar that I thought he was describing MY grad dept at first. |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 09:10 PM Response to Reply #24 |
63. This isn't about what PT is to you. It's about a Billion$ industry to get us to accept |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 07:39 AM Response to Original message |
26. Pessimists never get nasty surprises.. |
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lwcon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 07:44 AM Response to Reply #26 |
28. On my, and Sarah Vowell's, failure of pessimism |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 08:02 AM Response to Reply #28 |
29. Eh, I can safely say that not a fucking thing the bushies did surprised me.. |
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lwcon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 01:50 PM Response to Reply #29 |
33. Our bad, for sure |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 02:22 PM Response to Reply #33 |
35. No, you don't suck.. |
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lwcon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 02:47 PM Response to Reply #35 |
40. Any club where I'm the sunny optimist is... |
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Buns_of_Fire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 10:27 AM Response to Reply #26 |
31. I used to have a couple of books by Robert J. Ringer... |
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kimmerspixelated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-02-09 05:18 PM Response to Reply #31 |
81. Try the Release Technique |
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alliswellandsoitis (11 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 02:40 PM Response to Reply #26 |
38. I think cancer is a rather nasty surprise, don't you? |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 09:03 PM Response to Reply #38 |
60. Cancer is a blessing to the positive thinker. It's an opportunity to take stock in your happiness. |
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AllentownJake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 07:41 AM Response to Original message |
27. It has replaced religion as the opiate of the masses |
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tonysam (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-02-09 10:35 AM Response to Reply #27 |
76. +1,000 n/t |
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snagglepuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 09:21 AM Response to Original message |
30. . |
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alliswellandsoitis (11 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 02:39 PM Response to Original message |
36. Nothing is wrong with it...In fact, the truth is that we can alter |
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lwcon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 02:46 PM Response to Reply #36 |
39. "Nothing is wrong with it" again |
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Beaverhausen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 03:03 PM Response to Reply #39 |
42. Someone who tends to think postively doesn't necessarily not face the reality of life |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 09:13 PM Response to Reply #42 |
65. Right. It means you feel confident you can handle things |
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mwb970 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 05:57 AM Response to Reply #36 |
53. Sorry, that's not the proper opinion for this thread. |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 09:26 PM Response to Reply #36 |
68. That is so fucking wrong it's not even funny. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-02-09 09:24 PM Response to Reply #68 |
85. hey Touchdown |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-02-09 10:58 PM Response to Reply #85 |
88. There are those who purge "negative people" from their lives... |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-02-09 09:07 AM Response to Reply #36 |
74. Thinking you can "alter reality by how you view things" is FUCKING INSANITY! |
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tonysam (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-02-09 10:36 AM Response to Reply #36 |
77. There is plenty wrong with it |
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gkhouston (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-02-09 10:53 AM Response to Reply #36 |
79. Um, no. Mr. Gravity wins every time. But thanks for playing. n/t |
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Raineyb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-02-09 11:05 PM Response to Reply #36 |
89. Are you on drugs? n/t |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-31-09 02:50 PM Response to Original message |
41. Always tell people the market will do just fine, |
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jonnyblitz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 01:14 AM Response to Original message |
48. i just bought the book last night after seeing the author |
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HotJohnee (9 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 01:34 AM Response to Original message |
49. what? |
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Desertrose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 01:49 AM Response to Original message |
51. Like anything else...you can go too far. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 06:19 AM Response to Original message |
54. The problem is "positive thinking" is often a screen for insidious social themes. |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-03-09 12:30 AM Response to Reply #54 |
91. From Calvinism and the doctrine of "Predestination" and "The Elect". |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-03-09 12:39 AM Response to Reply #91 |
92. Furthermore, I have trouble with authoritarians. |
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1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 06:19 AM Response to Original message |
55. gloom and doom, cupcake. that is the du way. we don't cotton to positive anything here... |
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pipoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 06:45 AM Response to Reply #55 |
57. Is not! |
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conscious evolution (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 06:50 AM Response to Original message |
58. I always liked the BoyScouts pessimistic attitude |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 06:52 AM Response to Original message |
59. Hey... |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-01-09 09:38 PM Response to Original message |
69. When you wish upon a star... |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-02-09 08:55 AM Response to Original message |
71. Optimism is one thing. Pathologically "sunny" thinking is something else. |
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pipoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-02-09 09:17 PM Response to Reply #71 |
84. Like hell they don't |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-02-09 09:34 AM Response to Original message |
75. Some really good responses on this thread. Some of the responses, however, not so good IMO, |
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pipoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-02-09 09:11 PM Response to Reply #75 |
83. I think many responses in this thread |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-02-09 10:26 PM Response to Reply #83 |
86. And what did the author do if not an independant study? |
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harry.hamlin (1 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-03-09 05:20 AM Response to Original message |
96. What's wrong with positive thinking? |
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