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ccharles000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-13-09 03:46 AM
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Blend Exclusive - National Car Rental Employee To Trans Customer: "Screwed-Up Man Faggot"
http://www.pamshouseblend.com/diary/10382/national-car-rental-employee-to-trans-woman-customer-screwedup-man-faggot

Before I begin to relate the details so how trans woman Sarah Vestal has reported being called a "screwed-up man faggot" by a National Rental Car employee, I need to first explain a bit about transsexuals' transitioning, and how most transsexuals go through at least a short period of time as being visibly trans.
Basically, when transsexuals transition, there is a period of time where most dress and live as members of one's target sex, instead of the sex assigned to one at birth, but because one still has facial and body features that identify one as the sex assigned at birth, a transsexual is visibly transgender.

Sometimes, those facial and body features that identify one as one's sex at birth are corrected with the use of hormones over a few years time. And sometimes too, these features would require surgery or professional procedures -- such as facial hair removal and facial feminization surgery male-to-female (abbreviated to M2F or MTF) transsexuals, or breast removal for female-to-male (abbreviated to F2M or FTM) transsexuals -- if a trans person is to seamlessly "pass" in their target sex. And sometimes, no matter what one does, one never can seamlessly "pass" in their target sex -- and many within the trans community (like me) don't consider passing as the be all and end all of trans experience.

Essentially, due to this period of time whe one is visibly transitioning sexes...Well, trans people don't call this process a transition for nothing.

In the real world, if one is visibly trans, then one often finds oneself on the receiving end of discrimination and verbal harassment. And, sometimes in this atmosphere of discrimination and harassment, violent physical harassment is threatened, and sometimes violent physical harassment actually occurs.
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MADem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-13-09 04:05 AM
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1. What a friken NIGHTMARE!!! And what was up with that guy behind the counter?
Cocking his fist to HIT the customer?

Sheesh. Incredible.

What's the idiot afraid of?
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-13-09 04:53 AM
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2. ugh
we had a guy at work doing the transitioning period, and a nasty coworker gal of mine called HR daily to complain about said person's so-called behavior in the ladies room and it was all crap.....one day she picked up the phone after one of her lunatic rants and I grabbed the phone from her, slammed it down on the receiver and yelled at her to STOP PICKING ON THAT GAL - that's right - GAL - her life is hard enough without all of YOUR GARBAGE. Put her right in her place, I did......not long after I had called HR to let them know my coworker was full of SHIT
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JeanGrey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-13-09 05:05 AM
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3. I think I love you!
But you're lucky you didn't get fired. You would have been at my company.

You go!
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-13-09 05:33 AM
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4. no one else had a problem with him/her
lots of kidding aside (his name was Wayne - to be changed to Elayne - we kiddingly called him E-Wayne during transition) - only a few people were assholes - most folk were supportive or like, whatever :)
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ccharles000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-13-09 03:56 PM
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5. kick
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KamaAina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-13-09 03:59 PM
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6. Thanks. I hadn't had my cup of Pam's House Blend for a while.
One of the best blogs out there.
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ccharles000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-13-09 07:50 PM
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7. one more kick
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sarcasmo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-13-09 07:53 PM
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8. I recommend this because of my transgendered friend who went through a lot of grief at work.
Some People are just hurtful IDIOTS.
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