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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 01:27 PM Original message |
Boy Refuses To Attend School Over Bullying |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 01:29 PM Response to Original message |
1. The kid's got lucky parents. |
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IsItJustMe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 09:31 PM Response to Reply #1 |
14. I was told, when I was that age, by my parents, that it was my problem. I went back to school, |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 08:18 PM Response to Reply #1 |
39. why should a child have to solve these problems? |
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lateo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 09:43 PM Response to Reply #39 |
50. Indeed. |
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Mojorabbit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 01:30 PM Response to Original message |
2. One of my nephews |
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Catherine Vincent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 01:34 PM Response to Original message |
3. This is so sad. Why don't the schools do more to protect children from bullying? |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 02:51 PM Response to Reply #3 |
8. Oh for pete's sake...a little of the broad brush don't you think? |
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October (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 06:30 PM Response to Reply #8 |
35. Bullying |
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A HERETIC I AM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 08:51 PM Response to Reply #35 |
49. When i read that about the Teacher, it reminded me of the scene from "Uncle Buck" with |
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October (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 05:53 PM Response to Reply #49 |
91. Wow! Never saw that before. |
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mwb970 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 06:37 AM Response to Reply #35 |
82. It seems that the best teachers usually quit. |
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October (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 06:09 PM Response to Reply #82 |
92. Interesting |
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AndyTiedye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 04:55 PM Response to Reply #8 |
85. Anti-Bullying Programs Also Encounter Stiff Opposition from the FUNDIES |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 05:10 PM Response to Reply #3 |
12. Because the kids who do the bullying are the popular kids... |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 02:54 PM Response to Reply #12 |
32. Not always. Poor kids from lousy, abusive homes are at least as bad at bullying. |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 03:32 PM Response to Reply #12 |
33. Go Figure That |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 11:58 AM Response to Reply #3 |
20. Well under No Child Left Behind, test scores come first |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 12:39 PM Response to Reply #3 |
22. If you stand up to the bullies (which is about the only thing that works) |
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MindPilot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 01:32 PM Response to Reply #22 |
26. Yep that's exactly how it works. n/t |
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ThatsMyBarack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 06:42 PM Response to Reply #22 |
36. *Story of my life--even today.* |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 08:29 PM Response to Reply #3 |
42. We do what we can. |
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goddess40 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 01:37 PM Response to Original message |
4. I had a similar experience |
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goddess40 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 01:39 PM Response to Original message |
5. It wasn't a fight - a fight is between equals |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 01:43 PM Response to Reply #5 |
6. This is the same media that reported the filmed rape of a 3 year old girl as a 'sex tape' |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 01:44 PM Response to Original message |
7. Bullied at a Special Ed school. Uffda! |
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Kajsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 03:12 PM Response to Original message |
9. I've been the victim of it, as has |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 04:53 PM Response to Original message |
10. I made ONE phone call to the administrator. |
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Nay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 05:21 PM Response to Reply #10 |
13. I gave the same exact advice to my son, and it worked. I also called |
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AndyTiedye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 04:58 PM Response to Reply #13 |
86. They Can't Even Make Up Their Minds |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 09:47 PM Response to Reply #10 |
15. That's EXACTLY the speech I gave to a friend whose small son was hit in the eye. |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 11:10 PM Response to Reply #10 |
16. Amen. |
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benEzra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 11:49 AM Response to Reply #10 |
18. Excellent response. |
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BreweryYardRat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 11:27 PM Response to Reply #18 |
66. "Administrators will tell you anything...but will not necessarily DO anything." |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 11:07 AM Response to Reply #66 |
84. I admit freely that there is a fair amount of Redneck genetic material in my family tree.. |
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Vanje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 01:14 PM Response to Reply #10 |
23. Damn right! |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 08:37 PM Response to Reply #10 |
43. I hope it's not always |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 10:11 PM Response to Reply #10 |
53. I'm really glad this worked for you. Unfortunately, there are |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 10:32 PM Original message |
The emotional stuff is the pits.. I've been there 3 times (3 boys) |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 10:37 PM Response to Original message |
59. It is easy to look at the prespective now |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 11:20 PM Response to Original message |
64. About the "most popular" kids--I have got to share this story! |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 11:25 PM Response to Reply #64 |
65. It WILL be enough.. as long as she knows you are available to hear her gripes |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 05:07 PM Response to Original message |
11. I learned something new the other day.... |
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MindPilot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 01:25 PM Response to Reply #11 |
24. Right and it was also very Christian -- far worse than is well known |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 02:37 PM Response to Reply #24 |
30. To my eternal shame |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 03:58 AM Response to Reply #30 |
78. You're not the only one. |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 06:31 AM Response to Reply #11 |
81. the fact they turned a blind eye is so horrifying and sad |
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DemGa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-17-07 11:19 PM Response to Original message |
17. I can't remember anyone doing anything about bullying |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 11:53 AM Response to Original message |
19. OMG |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 12:00 PM Response to Original message |
21. I went to college 600 miles away from home |
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MindPilot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 01:31 PM Response to Reply #21 |
25. I dropped out and joined the Navy |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 02:33 PM Response to Reply #25 |
28. I had brains and pretty much nothing else |
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earth mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 01:36 PM Response to Original message |
27. Those parents should start homeschooling their kid. |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 02:36 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. homeschooling is quite impractical in many situations |
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earth mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 06:02 PM Response to Reply #29 |
34. I know a mom who parents a child with CP plus 3 other kids. |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 07:39 PM Response to Reply #34 |
37. the fact is I don't care how may parents you have staying home |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 08:22 PM Response to Reply #37 |
41. not only that, but where does this leave familes where both parents work? |
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earth mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 02:58 AM Response to Reply #41 |
73. I know a single parent that homeschooled 2 kids-one on the autism spectrum. It can be done. nt |
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earth mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 02:56 AM Response to Reply #37 |
72. There are MANY ways to teach those subjects. You can buy language audio programs to listen to |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 10:16 PM Response to Reply #34 |
55. My son is autistic, and I have multiple degrees, but not in what he needs. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 11:50 PM Response to Reply #55 |
68. If bullying becomes bad enough, learning is irrelevant. |
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earth mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 03:05 AM Response to Reply #68 |
75. Read post #69. nt |
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earth mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 02:47 AM Response to Reply #55 |
69. You would be surprised at how many parents are homeschooling their Autistic children |
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earth mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 03:03 AM Response to Reply #34 |
74. That should read a mom who homeschools a child with CP plus 3 other kids. |
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rockymountaindem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 10:21 PM Response to Reply #29 |
56. Not to mention homeschooling seems to get you hit with the broad brush |
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philosophie_en_rose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 06:48 AM Response to Reply #27 |
83. But they shouldn't have to homeschool. |
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book_worm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 02:51 PM Response to Original message |
31. I know kids can be cruel but to pick on a handicapped student is |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 02:56 AM Response to Reply #31 |
71. The school was special-ed, so it's likely that the bullies themselves had similar problems |
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Trillo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 07:56 PM Response to Original message |
38. It has been alleged by some that bullying is |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 08:20 PM Response to Reply #38 |
40. I really don't think that is the case |
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Trillo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 08:42 PM Response to Reply #40 |
45. I suppose it's a small distinction. |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 08:46 PM Response to Reply #45 |
47. I think there really is an issue of just how much supervision |
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AndyTiedye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 04:09 AM Response to Reply #38 |
79. The Xtian Wrong Actively Opposes All Anti-Bullying Programs |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 06:16 AM Response to Reply #79 |
80. I know we lost a vote on the law here |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 08:38 PM Response to Original message |
44. By Coincidence I was reading Rainbow Boys today |
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cynthia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 08:44 PM Response to Original message |
46. An insight that hasn't been addressed in this conversation |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 08:48 PM Response to Reply #46 |
48. much easier said than done |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 10:06 PM Response to Original message |
51. Some people blame the parents, some blame the schools. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 10:32 PM Response to Reply #51 |
58. Especially since the passage of IDEA |
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backscatter712 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 10:07 PM Response to Original message |
52. I fucking hate bullies. |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 10:14 PM Response to Original message |
54. The Bullying at my school was so bad, I refused to go and was suicidal and had to go to a... |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 10:24 PM Response to Reply #54 |
57. damn |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 10:40 PM Response to Reply #57 |
60. Yeah it was... |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 10:45 PM Response to Reply #60 |
62. I used to have major crushes on boys in those uniforms growing up |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 10:52 PM Response to Reply #62 |
63. I will say I have a weakness for the Catholic Schoolgirls... |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 07:21 PM Response to Reply #63 |
93. Somehow I think the Pope would have found your crushes more acceptable than mine. |
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smalll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 10:40 PM Response to Original message |
61. This truly is so sad, but I just have to say, |
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BreweryYardRat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-18-07 11:33 PM Response to Reply #61 |
67. Frankly, I can't believe you said that. |
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smalll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 05:33 PM Response to Reply #67 |
88. The latter choice. And parents shouldn't be giving out those excuses! |
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Bluebear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 02:52 AM Response to Reply #61 |
70. Hey, Einstein. "Tristan & Isolde" was written in 1859. You're blaming the KID for his name? |
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smalll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 05:30 PM Response to Reply #70 |
87. I'd bet dollars to donuts that his parents aren't Wagnerians, and have never heard of Isolde. |
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Bluebear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 05:44 PM Response to Reply #87 |
90. My parents were from Europe and my first name isn't "Spike" or "John" to suit you. |
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blogslut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 03:46 AM Response to Original message |
76. My kid was so lucky |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 03:51 AM Response to Original message |
77. I was bullied all throughout school for being queer. |
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Lilith Velkor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 10:44 PM Response to Reply #77 |
95. OMG |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-20-07 02:37 AM Response to Reply #95 |
96. It was insane |
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devilgrrl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 05:40 PM Response to Original message |
89. At least she has nice parents. Mine threw me under the bus every time. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-19-07 10:10 PM Response to Original message |
94. I was constantly bullied by the popular jocks. The school wouldn't do anything about it because... |
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RebelSansCause (304 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-20-07 03:06 AM Response to Original message |
97. was nobody else bullied for their political beliefs? |
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