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The important thing is to recognize your own shortcomings and limits and to work on them so that you don't end up working for them. Don't underestimate yourself. You have experiences, I'm sure, that are invaluable to your students. If all you do is be there and be openly gay then you help to affect a change in the minds of your students. Maybe some of those whose parents have taught them that gay is wrong will see you and realize that gay people are good people too.
Then think of the positive impact a successful and happy openly gay person can have on a gay student who doesn't have someone in the very least to look to for example if not for advice. The teen suicide rate within the gay community is astronomical in comparison to the general population. Even just being there can help dent that statistic. Just doing your job, even taking no active role, shows that gay people (etc.) can be successful, and that they can live happy lives. I can't tell you to take an active role in your school, but I do know that growing up it would have been a great deal of help for me to help me understand the person that I was becoming.
I do know and I have to say that the most important thing is to be honest. Be honest with yourself and with your students. You don't have to have all the answers. If you don't know or understand something then be honest about that. There is support to be had in camaraderie. If you cannot help, at least let them know that you're all in it together and they aren't alone. You'd do well to know that too: You are not alone.
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