"If you're stupid enough to believe in God, then you're stupid enough to get fooled by a teenage boy."
The subject of teens, sex, and the Church is one I'm pretty passionate about. To sum up, I think the methodology that the Church uses is antiquated and ineffective. Seriously, approaching it as a "just say NO" is counterproductive.
Teens today are searching for more depth and have access to more information than previous generations. They're looking for the "why", and if the Church doesn't shift the way it talks about this subject, it's going to find itself more and more irrelevant.
While I know that would delight atheists to no end, it is my opinion that it would only drive the Church to become even more hard-line, perhaps to the point where that would be the prevailing opinion and any hope of rational discussion of these issues would be lost.
What makes change difficult is the opinion that any discussion of safe sex is equal to giving teens the green light to boink away. I had just written about this and you can see this opinion in all its glory here in
Teenagers, sex and the ChurchFact: Teens are nowhere near ready, physically, emotionally, psychologically, or spiritually, for sex.
But it's also fact that if they're not given the complete picture, including information on contraception and the consequences of sex, they are more likely to form incorrect and, in some cases, unhealthy attitudes towards sex leading them to make poor choices.
So, no, it's not gullibility, its a lack of education. This doesn't fall only on the Church, but on parents as well. Sex should not be a one time talk, but a continual education.