I was at Bolivar City Hall for Congressman Roy Blunt's talk on Social Security. He answered questions afterwards, including one from the director of the Polk County Community Center concerning changes in funding. I was there as a parent representative for Head Start, and I asked Mr. Blunt about funding cuts that have been suggested for Head Start and briefly touched on the fact that Head Start has been such a blessing to myself and our six adopted children, as well as our foster children.
I told him there are many children who would suffer if Head Start was stripped of as much funding as the Foster/Adoptive programs and that if our children (who are all special needs of one kind or another) lost their Medicaid through budget cuts, we wouldn't be able to afford to keep them, as their medical expenses are so high. He said people who can't afford to pay children's medical bills shouldn't adopt them. (emphasis added)
When we adopted our kids through DFS, we weren't given all the information we really needed to be adequately prepared for what was ahead. We knew that the children's parents weren't fit or able to raise them because of social, emotional and/or legal problems and that there was substance abuse. That was just the tip of the iceberg, and Mr. Blunt had no right to be so judgmental and mean in his reply. We aren't poor people, but I don't know many families that could pay upwards of $10,000 a month for medications.
The State of Missouri, like every state in the United States, is desperately short of foster/adoptive parents. There are hundreds of thousands of children nationwide waiting for adoption, and most are special needs in some way. Where would they be if prospective parents were judged more on their ability to pay for their needs than how much love and care they want to give? I know a whole lot more middle-income adoptive parents than upper-income parents who have gone through DFS and chosen to make a difference in the life of a less-than-perfect child.
Shame on you, Mr. Blunt. You were mean and insensitive, and I hope none of your grandchildren are ever diagnosed with any kind of problems. Not every child is blessed to be born into a well-to-do, socially or politically prominent families. Thank God some of us can love broken angels, not just perfect ones!
I have been a Republican since I was 12 years old. Your attitude may change that.
Patricia K. Kibby
Bolivar, MO
http://www.firedupmissouri.com/node/1472