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Tommy_Carcetti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 11:21 AM Original message |
I need some honest family advice regarding splitting holidays. |
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peacefreak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 11:30 AM Response to Original message |
1. Wow. You're in a tough spot. |
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Tommy_Carcetti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 11:47 AM Response to Reply #1 |
4. We do, actually. |
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yawnmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 05:45 PM Response to Reply #4 |
22. thats a tough one. Some of my fond memories are on Christmas morning... |
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Rosie1223 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 11:34 AM Response to Original message |
2. I would recommend you start your own traditions |
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Tommy_Carcetti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 11:44 AM Response to Reply #2 |
3. I just wish the distance was closer than 5 hours. |
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Rosie1223 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 11:51 AM Response to Reply #3 |
6. Thankfully, my parents were never big on having to celebrate the holiday on the exact day. |
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havocmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 11:47 AM Response to Original message |
5. There are ways to learn constructive, honest, assertive but non-aggressive communication |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 01:04 PM Response to Original message |
7. Do Christmas Day at your house -- voila! Your parents can sleep over or get a room |
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Tommy_Carcetti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 01:41 PM Response to Reply #7 |
8. That would work except.... |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 01:50 PM Response to Reply #8 |
9. so talk to mom about her just making a few dishes .. y'all should discuss this! |
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Tommy_Carcetti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 01:52 PM Response to Reply #9 |
10. Frankly, that just wouldn't be the same. |
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havocmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 01:57 PM Response to Reply #10 |
11. Frankly, if you are not willing to look past 'the same' you do not want a solution |
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Tommy_Carcetti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 02:03 PM Response to Reply #11 |
12. All I'm saying is that is more complicated than what you might think. |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 02:12 PM Response to Reply #12 |
15. I agree with havocmom. It's really NOT that complicated. |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 02:14 PM Response to Reply #12 |
16. It's actually simple. |
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Rosie1223 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 02:09 PM Response to Reply #11 |
14. There's no call for that |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 09:55 PM Response to Reply #8 |
24. The cooking part is up to your mom isn't it? |
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Corgigal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 02:06 PM Response to Original message |
13. My belief is |
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ChickMagic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 02:16 PM Response to Original message |
17. I feel for you. That's tough. |
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susanr516 (823 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 02:27 PM Response to Original message |
18. Yes, I have |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 02:32 PM Response to Original message |
19. I think you're seeing all the important points. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 02:33 PM Response to Original message |
20. i am the stubborn one so maybe, i should give you my perspective and the compromises we have come to |
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msanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 05:20 PM Response to Original message |
21. I think you should speak up about a more equitable split. |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 05:57 PM Response to Original message |
23. 5 hours whereabouts... |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 10:28 PM Response to Original message |
25. As a child |
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debbierlus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 11:14 PM Response to Original message |
26. It sounds like you have let her dominate situations rather then deal with her 'resistance'... |
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EndersDame (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 11:32 PM Response to Original message |
27. Do your parents and inlaws get along? |
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Ishka Kibble (77 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-23-09 11:43 PM Response to Original message |
28. Try this. |
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