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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:20 PM
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Oh. My. Stars! So I'm over on OKCupid
I make it pretty plain in my profile that I'm a liberal woman looking for other liberals to talk to, date, or whatever.

Look who wants to talk to me. http://www.okcupid.com/profile?tuid=11742016150761923100">I got a live one.

Oh. Looking is fine, but please don't bring his info over her since he's not in this convo.
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:24 PM
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1. Ooohhh hog hunting!
Surprisingly, he's "less scientific" too! :rofl:
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:27 PM
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2. Isn't he just the bestest?
And he's really over his grieving period. Honest.

:P
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madeline_con Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 10:47 PM
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36. Don't knock it. Fresh pork is best.
:9
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-20-08 12:05 AM
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45. My grandparents had a small hog farm when I was a kid.
Mmmmm... fresh pork. I guess I just never thought of them as game.
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:27 PM
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3. Good lord...
...and you let him slip through your fingers? :eyes::sarcasm:

He speaks Swahili and Afrikaans? And drinks 'desperately'? I smell shenanigans.
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:30 PM
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5. You're right.
I missed that part. :rofl:

I wonder if he's an Afrikaaner immigre?

If that's the case, he really is an SOB, worse than the home grown variety. :puke:
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:34 PM
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10. Not the worst I've seen...
...one guy (supposedly from San Antonio) had the BTK killer's pic on his profile. I alerted on that one. :puke:
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:37 PM
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12. OMG!!
x(

:puke:

You did the right thing. I bet that person was scarey.
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quakerboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:58 PM
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27. Mercenary?
any outfits in that area?
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KG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:28 PM
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4. living in kissimmee, he should have no problem finding a hog-hunting woman.
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:31 PM
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6. Is hog hunting a popular pastime in Kissimmmee?
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KG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:33 PM
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9. the interior of FL is nothing like the costal cities.
i'm sure they hunt anything what dont shoot back.
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Swede Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:31 PM
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7. Well at least he knows the three R's.
Readin',ritin' and raw corn likker.
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:35 PM
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11. ...
I can already hear Dueling Banjos in the background. :crazy:
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Swede Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:44 PM
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16. How can you not love a guy that goes hog hunting Friday nights?
This one is a keeper.
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:47 PM
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18. I must be frigid
to not want that.

:rofl:
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Critters2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:32 PM
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8. He loves to love. You don't find many like that.
With hog-huntin' to boot! You best snag him before someone else does!
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:50 PM
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20. It'll be hard
but I'll have to save him for some other woman. :-)
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Critters2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:56 PM
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25. You're a kind and generous soul. Not many could do it. nt
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:39 PM
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13. But, he likes LIVESTOCK!!!!!!!!
Why are you so heartless????????


:rofl:


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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:42 PM
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14. He loved that 9pt buck to death
:P
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PVnRT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:44 PM
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15. I don't know, he loves loving with his hands.
You sure you don't want to hit that?
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RoyGBiv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:46 PM
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17. Just curious ...

Is there something in that profile that makes you think that he wouldn't be interested in talking to a liberal woman?

If so, what?

I gather most of the people that posted in this thread don't have a clue what "hog hunting" even is. (It's quite a bit more challenging than deer hunting, I can tell you. Of course if one's version of liberalism excludes hunting altogether, then I suppose the dismissals make sense.)

Clearly you're not a match, but I'm just curious.

He's far more articulate than a lot of people I see posting personal ads. Or maybe the banjos on the lawn outside my outhouse have just fried my brain. I dunno.



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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:48 PM
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19. I'm going to guess:
"I am also a God fearing man who has very strong morals and conservative ethics."

:shrug:
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RoyGBiv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:51 PM
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21. Conservative ethics ...

Okay. My apologies.

I'm big enough to admit my error. Missed that part somehow.

I just read the thread and saw all the focus on "hog hunting" and prejudiced commentary seemingly derived therefrom, and was wondering.

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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:55 PM
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24. Well, honestly, I don't know
anyone who hunts for pleasure.

There are quite a few around here who hunt to fill up their freezers, and I don't have a problem with that. But this guy seems to do it for fun. I'm turned off by that.
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RoyGBiv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 10:02 PM
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29. Okay, again ...

Obviously you aren't compatible, so I'm not suggesting otherwise.

But you're probably speaking different languages. A lot of people I know hunt for food and at the same time talk about the experience in spiritual terms. I don't see a natural conflict given this person's tone.

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belladonna Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 10:51 PM
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37. My very first clue was this little gem.....
"I'm a big man, 6"1 at 231 pounds and LOOSING my hair thanks to family genetics that were passed down."


What is it with that word that makes so damn hard for them to get it right????
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 11:45 PM
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39. Ha! Hi babygirl!!
I miss you...Can I come down to VA and get hugs and play with the baby? I need a break!

:hug:

:loveya:
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belladonna Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-19-08 12:45 PM
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44. Anytime, my sweet!!
I've even got an extra bedroom and baby daddy is finally gone for good. Ah, it feels good to have my life back :D

And hey, Maggie's always up for extra playtime... she says come on down :loveya:
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:54 PM
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22. I will probably ask him
I'm not averse to talking to him, at least initially. That's true for just about everyone. Though I did stop talking to one guy, because he litterally waited for me to sign on and the minute I did, wanted to ping me to chat. I didn't like him wanting to monopolize my time like that.

But I'm thinking we have major differences that can't be smoothed over. I don't know, maybe he looks at me as a little "walk on the wild side" from his nice conservative life. Who knows. :shrug:
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RoyGBiv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:59 PM
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28. Or someone he can convert ...

If he's actually your typical conservative knuckle-dragger, he wouldn't have a very high opinion of women's ability to hold a valid opinion in general. So, when you hook up, you'll naturally go over to his side of the lord ... in his mind.

But, seriously, I asked the question mostly because on a first reading, I pegged this guy as someone who was in a relationship where the woman cheated on him. (Maybe he cheated too ... dunno ... can't tell.) Country boy (lots of liberal country boys), likes nature (odd how the "country boy" image seems to conflict with the liberal image, given they both have an interest in natural resource conservation), and seems kind.

Anyway ... I'm not one to give out advice on this sort of thing, so don't take anything I say as even meaningful. I just thought a lot of the comments got too focused on the "country boy" aspect and associated that with a natural incompatibility with liberalism, which, imo, is inaccurate.

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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 10:06 PM
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30. There's a lot of truth to what you say
that the "country boy" image is not incompatible with the liberal POV.

The problem is a lot of them have been brainwashed to think so.

As for me, there's a lot of my brother I'm looking at here, except for the hunting. Bro isn't much of a hunter, but does consider himself a proper rural man.
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MilesColtrane Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:55 PM
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23. He's a conservative who's taken the "Are You Good at Cunnilingus Test"?
To them a passing grade is just being able to pronounce the word correctly.
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 09:58 PM
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26. ROFL
:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 10:19 PM
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31. Dang!
now I looked and I'll be on Bubba's stalk list :scared:

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

:hi:

:hug:
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 10:20 PM
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32. Oh great!
Now he's gonna know I shared him with friends. :P

:hug:

:hi:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 10:31 PM
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33. Ewww...
:rofl:

:hi:
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Pushed To The Left Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 10:40 PM
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34.  Same here! He's going to wonder why all of these men are stalking him. However, I get "stalked" by
other men and by women who are very far away ever since I started posting on the forums.
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madeline_con Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 10:45 PM
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35. Something in your profile invited this.
I know a lot of "good ole boy" types. They're not all bad.
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Blue_Tires Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 10:58 PM
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38. thanks for the insight...i was about to check out OKcupid
(i'm currently on match.com for the moment, with little success) my dating miseries are well documented in the lounge, and just today i was debating whether or not to branch out and look into OK Cupid and the Onion Personals...
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Digit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-18-08 11:54 PM
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40. Hey, I am in Raleigh and get the same thing except I can't read the messages for the misspellings
I could tell you of one person I had dinner with, but I don't want to scare you.

It is one for the books, though.
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TreasonousBastard Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-19-08 12:00 AM
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41. I found myself on OKCupid for some reason...
maybe it was some silly quiz, and realized too late that I had registered. They were bugging me for a profile for a while, but I ignored them, hoping they would go away.

Sure enough, every two weeks like clockwork I get an email saying someone's checking out my imaginary profile, and it's always a link to a chat or porn site.

(Can't say I think all that highly of OKCupid)

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Lorien Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-19-08 12:14 AM
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42. Ugh. eHarmony send me two or three "matches" like him
their software must be completely fucked up, so I ditched the service asap.

Not only is me a barbecue eating fundie right wing wacko deer killer, he lives in Kissimmee, the armpit of Florida. I had the misfortune of living there for eight years, and sadly it's full of guys just like him.
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Runcible Spoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-19-08 12:34 AM
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43. what kind of good ole boy likes "Dances with Wolves"? this profile smells fishy!
seriously, that movie is a testament against all his supposed morals and ethics.
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Kat45 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-20-08 12:34 AM
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46. Do you have a picture up with your profile?
If you do, that might answer your question. It seems that a number of men go for looks first, sometimes not even caring much about anything else. So he probably thought you looked hawt and therefore decided he was interested in you.
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