Does this make me a horrible person??

[lost-in-nj]

:evilgrin:
Went to a lunch at stbx's office, where I used to work for 20 years...
they had a lunch for someone who was leaving someone I know very well so I went

almost EX is away at a salesmen meeting...but the howorker was there..
I knew she would be, along with her sister who is the partner in crime.
So I got dressed to kill.... and I looked great. Plus I still wear my wedding ring. All of my friends were there
and we sat together..... along with my sister in law who's hubby is also an owner.

We had such a good time laughing and talking.... and as I was sitting there I realized that she would NEVER be in this circle, the people I was with do not respect her..... and I felt this sense of
nay nay nay nay nay.... ppffftttttt. or I guess what you might call a sense of superiority ......

Everyone said HI to me..... and bye.....

so does it make me a bad person because I ENJOYED that feeling????? :P


lost

[flvegan]

1. "howorker"?

How do I get a job here?

[lost-in-nj]

12. ugh

you don't want her

believe me...

there is a saying you know.....

they affair down....

and boy, well....never mind


lost

[KG]

2. nope

getting in a 'neener-neener' every once in awhile at someone that has it coming is ok in my book.

[lost-in-nj]

13. Thanks KG

neener neeener

like that!!!


:)


lost

[Parche]

3. YOU DICTATOR GORN

You are horrible, selfish, conceded Gorn, why did you have fun?
You are NOT supposed to have fun
Fun is something Gorns dont have..........

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:



found PFFFTTT

[lost-in-nj]

15. oh pffffttttt to you Mussolini

:spray: :spray: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:


lost

fun: its all relative

[HERVEPA]

4. Out of curiousity, why do you still wear the ring?

Seems like taking it off might be a step forward for you.

[HERVEPA]

5. And wearing your ring will cause all future disasters on this planet

(addded because I realized, after 5 or 6 years, that I just joined the 700 club.

[lost-in-nj]

9. I wear it for various reasons

first and for most I am still married.....

I know he isn't acting that way but until the judge signs the paper

well we are still "married"


I TRIED to take it off.... couldn't do it.... after 30 years it felt weird
but I do have this $5 blue mood ring band I bought in Fl.... I tried that on for a while :)

and last, my kids.... even though they are 24 and 30 it hit them hard...
both were very upset he took his ring off.....
so I guess I am trying to protect them to.....


lost

CONGRATS on the 700 club!!!

May your soul be saved !!!!!!!!!

LOL

[HERVEPA]

I separated after 30 years (now divorced).

I was very happy to get the ring off. But then I was the one who wanted to move on.
My kids, about same ages as yours, were happy for me.

[ScreamingMeemie]

16. You wear that ring as long as you want to lost.

You earned it.

I get really asinine comments about mine up to and including,"He ended your marriage the day he died."

My heart, and my love belong to him alone...and I will never take it off.

[HERVEPA]

21. Mrs. G - I wasn't telling her to take it off. Just asking.

And in your situation, I would probably not take mine off for a very long time.
Peace to you.

[1gobluedem]

24. Someone SAID that to you?

What is WITH people???? :shrug:

[lost-in-nj]

25. Thanks Mrs. Grumpy

I cannot believe some one said that to you

OMG.... :hug:

My father died in 1982
my Mom kept her ring AND his ring on till the day she died in 2006....
now my sister has one and I have the other...

you wear your rings for as long as you want.......

lost

:hug:

[Gormy Cuss]

6. Nah. Horrible would be if you walked up to the woman and 'splained this in front of everyone.

Taking some glee in knowing that you are better liked and respected by your former coworkers is just a way of reminding yourself of your own worth.

[lost-in-nj]

18. Thats the beauty

everyone already knows.....

I met a few people at the Christmas party and when I introduced my self as his wife you could tell they were trying to figure out what to say.....

That was comical


lost

[MrScorpio]

7. Living well is always the best revenge...

And make sure you serve that puppy nice and cold!

[lost-in-nj]

11. in the freezer

as we speak....


:evilgrin:

lost

[Deep13]

8. Feelings should not be cause for guilt.

You can't control them anyway, so what good is feeling guilty about it?

[lost-in-nj]

19. your right

and thank you


lost

[jgraz]

10. This thread is useless without pictures

:evilgrin:

[lost-in-nj]

20. he he

of me or her!!???


:rofl: :rofl:

lost

[jgraz]

26. Ugh -- not her!

SOooo past my howorker phase.

[leftofthedial]

14. no.

you are a horrible person, but not because of this.















just kidding! Don't turn me into a newt!

[lost-in-nj]

22. No newts here!!!!`

just salamanders......


LOL



lost

[MrCoffee]

17. nevermind. figured it out all on my own

[lost-in-nj]

23. ...

Soon To Be eX ??


sorry

lost

[MrCoffee]

29. i was right!

i did figure it out! i'm so smart.

[SPKrazy]

27. No, you aren't a bad person

not even if you enjoyed something you think might have been bad. (and it wasn't bad)

You are not a bad person :hi:

[lost-in-nj]

31. Thanks SPK

I know but I felt guilty for like.......

a milisecond..... :)


lost

posting during the day??? you home sick???

[SPKrazy]

33. no i'm just

home

finished work and it was either me or my coworker leaving and i decided it was ME!!!!

:rofl:

:hi:

[Midlodemocrat]

28. You are a class act, lost and not horrible in the least.

He is. And so is the howorker.

[lost-in-nj]

32. blush

Thanks Midlo

I will have a glass of boxed wine with you any day!!!



lost

[FloridaJudy]

30. Schadenfreude:

It's what's for dessert.

Perfectly understandable.

[lost-in-nj]

34. Thanks

I think.... I honestly had to go look that word up.....

there is no misfortune on her part....

lost

[FloridaJudy]

35. Oh I think she's unfortunate

She doesn't sound like the kind of person who will ever have a lot of close friends. I - for one - probably wouldn't trust her.

And good friends are what make the tough times endurable.