Okay, I'm drunk enough.

[Deja Q]

When the glasses fitting store supervisor checked my glasses prescription, she must've sensed I had the hots for her as, when she stepped up and went back to her other duties, she touched me on the shoulder after I said "Thank you for checking".

How should I read that incident? I did notice she had no wedding ring on, but that isn't indicative of much these days.

Much thanks.

Seriously.


P.S. For being hammered, I'm doing a great job of retaining my ability to spell and remain grammatically correct. My tolerance must be increasing... fascinating...

[QueenOfCalifornia]

1. That shoulder thing...

It means that she wants to own your soul and have your love child.... really..It's in the handbook all women get when the graduate from girl class.

[Deja Q]

2. Even I, as much as in a drunken pathetic stupor, can

see your response is utterly sarcastic.

Which is good, given the learning disability and other shit I had to grow up with despite being tested with a very high IQ... :cry:

[Gormy Cuss]

3. HT, I have no idea.

You may need to take the risk and ask her out.
Just remember that if she says no, it's not a reflection on you. Maybe she's in a committed relationship and just likes being nice to guys.

It's a minefield, but IMHO you're better off trying to navigate it.

[SPKrazy]

4. Two possible outcomes of asking her out

yes

no

yes, then you have to go out with her

no, you are in no different shape than you are now

:shrug:

[Pushed To The Left]

5. I've wondered about the shoulder thing myself. A young waitress touched my shoulder last week when

she brought my water, but I don't think she was interested in me that way. At a work party a few years ago, the wife of one of the higher-ups was standing by our table and had her hands on my shoulders. She looked down and said, "Who am I fondling?" and everybody started laughing.

If you think the supervisor might be interested, why not talk to her some more? You never know what might happen!

[Generic Brad]

6. I don't think you can read anything into that

You need glasses.