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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-13-06 11:42 PM
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I did some rithmutic and discovered I am now thirty years
older than I feel.

how about you?

how does your "real" age stack up against how you feel?
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-13-06 11:42 PM
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1. I'm 12.
Ask REV.
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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-13-06 11:44 PM
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3. so you are 17 years older
than you feel then . . .
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-13-06 11:49 PM
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6. Yes, that's it...17 years older than I feel...or actually am. (cough cough)
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-13-06 11:47 PM
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5. No, no you're 14.
You've matured greatly! :D
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-13-06 11:50 PM
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7. Yes, and the proof is in every thread I have posted with you.
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-13-06 11:51 PM
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8. Of course. But there's nothing wrong with embracing your inner 14 year old
Nothing. :7
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-13-06 11:56 PM
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9. You never met my inner 14 year old.
She put superglue on her daddy's toilet seat.
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:01 AM
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10. What about 13?
How's that one? :shrug: :P
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:06 AM
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12. 13 was Girl Scout suspension for stealing cookies.
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:12 AM
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14. Dare I ask what 15 was like?
:o
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:15 AM
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15. Goth Cher look-a-like, loner. Sooooo sad.
:rofl:
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:17 AM
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16. Ah ha! That might turn Lukas on...
I'm just sayin'.. ;)
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:20 AM
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17. Yeah, specially when I spontaneously burst into tears and my eyeliner runs.
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:24 AM
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19. Would the 12 year old cry if Lukas was around?
I think not! So neither shall the 15 year old! :P
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:29 AM
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23. OK, so I've grown up to be 15 now. This is good.
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:30 AM
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24. Yes, pretty soon you get to drive!
:bounce:
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:31 AM
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25. Speaking of drive
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Writer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-13-06 11:44 PM
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2. rithmutic?
Do you mean arithmetic? I'm not sure what you mean, but I can tell you that I feel no different than I did at 21... I'm just a bit more medicated. :)
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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-13-06 11:47 PM
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4. I certainly didn't mean ritin or readin
it's a cold okie-ism (or is that a colloquialism)?
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Writer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:07 AM
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13. Sorry...
I didn't mean to cast asparagus. :P :hi:
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:02 AM
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11. I am in denial
Completely
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:21 AM
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18. I think it's cruel, the way our bodies and faces take on
harsh evidence of the years while our minds get more and more interesting & wonderful. I have a grandmother who is 97 and she has never come to terms with it. Even wispy-thin and using an oxygen mask, her eyes are brilliant and her thoughts are original. Just the body fails her. Who thought up this crappy system anyway?
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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:25 AM
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20. proof that "intelligent design"
is bullshit


or is the work of a sadist
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:28 AM
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21. Once I was a religious person and I imagined
that the decay of the body was the Lord's way of forcing us to look inside, to search for God, after a lifetime of enjoying the pleasures He provided us. Part of me still thinks this might be the case. The other part agrees with you. Sadist!
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:32 AM
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26. I'm Thinking That There Is No Gravity
the earth just sucks.

Seriously though, gravity is what ultimately wins isn't it.

we get down and can't get up. It's a short trip to the cemetery from there.

(So I guess I'm saying when we can't get up, we're toast in short order)

:shrug:
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:34 AM
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27. In my family, you stop being able to get up some time
in your mid to late nineties. It's almost too long.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:40 AM
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28. It Is A Long Time
I think about that, I'm halfway to 90!

My Grandma died at 94.

My Grandpa died at 87.

(paternal)

My maternal grandparents were a little younger

I get your drift though, it does seem a little cruel to watch the body decay and the mind stay intact.

My mother slid downhill over 5 years of having cancer and tons of chemotherapy. The chemo killed her, the cancer would have. Not sure I'd have chosen the chemo. She wanted to live. Interesting woman. Was my Sunday school teacher turned atheist in her later years.

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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:46 AM
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30. Life will do that to you.
Another piece of proof that the grand design could benefit from a better designer.

I'm tired and must to to bed. Goodnight, S. I'll get back to you on the writing. :pals:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:53 AM
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34. You Too My Friend!
sleep good

thanks

Steve:hug:
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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:46 AM
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31. gravity wins
and makes plastic surgeons rich
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:54 AM
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35. Yes It Does
and in the end gravity does win
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:29 AM
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22. I Don't Feel Any Older Mentally
emotionally I feel about the same as I did when I was about 18

my body on the other hand, well it feels, sore right now.

But sore I can handle.

My mind is as agile as it was (I think) when I was younger. I feel I have more awareness, and things are less frightening to me.

I feel more confident.

Then I realize that I'm (hopefully) middle aged 45 years old.

I don't long for youth. I long for peace in all spheres of my awareness.

:hi:
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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:48 AM
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33. I'm not as skinny as I used to be
I long for long things.

:hi:
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Fleshdancer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:45 AM
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29. I'm 29....
and I have this horrible feeling that my life is already more than half over. Other people seem to think they have all the time in the world but all my life I felt rushed to live it and I have...and now I'm tired and I feel old. I can't pinpoint the exact age I feel, but it's definitely older than I am.
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:48 AM
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32. I felt the same way at thirty.
You have to fight it, because it isn't true. You are as young right now as you will ever be, and you have twenty years or more before anybody will look at you and think "middle-aged". Enjoy being young and strong. You truly are.
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Fleshdancer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 01:02 AM
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37. does that feeling go away after a few years?
I know logically that I'm young and I'm actually really excited about getting out of my 20's and embracing my new decade but I fear that at this rate I'll feel 110 by the time I'm 40.

I don't want to look back on this time and kick myself for thinking such stupid thoughts but I'm not sure how to change this weird "I'm old" feeling. Does it pass on it's own or should I do something to help me get a better personal perspective?
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 01:21 AM
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42. Take Care Of Yourself
exercise
eat right
use your mind
enjoy life as much as you can

eventually you will be old

but no reason to feel old until your body gives up
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 12:58 AM
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36. I Was More Upset At Age 25 than Age 40
I kept thinking "quarter of a century"

My advice: take care of your body now. You will thank yourself later. I'm 45 and playing catch up, it's working, but I wouldn't recommend it.

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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 01:12 AM
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38. All you whippersnappers! Quitcher bellyachin!
I'm 179 years old.










But I don't feel a day over 149.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 01:13 AM
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39. Hey, You Are OLD!
I mean really fucking old!

179!

what's your secret?

not that I want to live in this life that long!
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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 01:15 AM
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40. I can't tell you my secret!
I mean. It's a secret.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 01:19 AM
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41. Yeah, But SPILL!
or I'll turn you over to Rev and Gray and they will hold you hostage until Lucas and Toby get there!

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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-14-06 01:33 AM
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43. Aaaaiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii!
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