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sir_captain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 12:53 AM Original message |
At what point do you have to give up on someone you love? |
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Floogeldy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 12:54 AM Response to Original message |
1. What are your ages? |
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sir_captain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 12:57 AM Response to Reply #1 |
4. We're in our latish 20s |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 05:35 PM Response to Reply #4 |
53. Yeah, but most of 'em are poisoned by mercury! |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 12:55 AM Response to Original message |
2. Years ago in your case, she's no good for you! |
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sir_captain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 12:59 AM Response to Reply #2 |
5. Probably mainly because I've enabled her to |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 01:02 AM Response to Reply #5 |
7. Whatever,just bail |
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sir_captain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 01:04 AM Response to Reply #7 |
8. It sounds very simple,doesn't it? |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 01:04 AM Response to Reply #8 |
9. It is |
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sir_captain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 01:07 AM Response to Reply #9 |
10. Sure, but not that easy |
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Nicole (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 12:57 AM Response to Original message |
3. 9 years ago |
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sir_captain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 01:00 AM Response to Reply #3 |
6. That's certainly the truth |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 01:13 AM Response to Original message |
11. Perhaps it might be worthwhile to pursue counseling ...... |
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sir_captain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 01:19 AM Response to Reply #11 |
14. Thanks Peggy! |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 05:33 PM Response to Reply #14 |
52. I hope she is willing too. 9 years is an investment. Not a fling. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 01:14 AM Response to Original message |
12. If it's this hard, she's not the right girl |
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Nickster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 07:06 AM Response to Reply #12 |
24. DING DING DING! That's your answer right there. When you find the "One" |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 09:26 PM Response to Reply #12 |
62. I hope there isn't a "shining knight" complex somewhere in your mind, |
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u4ic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 01:15 AM Response to Original message |
13. 9 years? |
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sir_captain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 01:27 AM Response to Reply #13 |
17. Yeah, I know I can't fix her |
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u4ic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 01:33 AM Response to Reply #17 |
20. Oh, no |
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Random_Australian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 01:23 AM Response to Original message |
15. I say make it clear to them what you think, then make decisions from |
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reyd reid reed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 01:25 AM Response to Original message |
16. Okay...there's love |
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Blue-Jay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 01:28 AM Response to Original message |
18. You're the "reserve guy". Break it off completely. |
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Thtwudbeme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 07:30 AM Response to Reply #18 |
27. Bingo. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-27-06 12:14 AM Response to Reply #18 |
63. Blue-Jay knows the score |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 01:29 AM Response to Original message |
19. well don't know if these are words of wisdom but... |
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Thtwudbeme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 07:58 AM Response to Reply #19 |
30. I hope this poster pays attention to you and Blue_jay. |
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necso (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 01:36 AM Response to Original message |
21. If she cannot bring herself |
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kskiska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 01:36 AM Response to Original message |
22. When you realize you've lost your self-respect |
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Iniquitous Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 06:54 AM Response to Original message |
23. Sounds like you need to rip off that bandage and move forward. |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 07:11 AM Response to Original message |
25. Wouldn't you rather be chosen, than to "end up" with someone? |
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khashka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 07:28 AM Response to Original message |
26. Heidi is right.... |
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lizziegrace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 06:54 PM Response to Reply #26 |
61. You don't want to be the one someone settles for. |
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BlackVelvet04 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 07:34 AM Response to Original message |
28. And what if she all of a sudden wanted to give it a go now? |
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cobalt1999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 07:44 AM Response to Original message |
29. 9 Years? |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 08:19 AM Response to Original message |
31. Move on! You deserve better. |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 08:22 AM Response to Original message |
32. Move on |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 08:25 AM Response to Original message |
33. I agree with those who said she's probably stringing you along. |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 08:25 AM Response to Original message |
34. I'm sure you don't want to hear this |
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StellaBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 08:26 AM Response to Original message |
35. When it hurts more than it feels good. |
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Roon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 08:30 AM Response to Original message |
36. I always looked at it this way... |
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miss_american_pie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 08:30 AM Response to Original message |
37. Do you want to listen to your head or your heart? |
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regularguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 11:36 AM Response to Original message |
38. When your spend more time thinking and talking about |
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Metta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 03:52 PM Response to Original message |
39. When it takes more from you than it feeds you. |
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1monster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 03:59 PM Response to Original message |
40. Be careful about ending up together. Usually by the time that happens |
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Phillycat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 04:10 PM Response to Original message |
41. The "move on" answerers must never have been in love - not really |
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lizziegrace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 04:12 PM Response to Original message |
42. When I realized I'd rather be alone |
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querelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 04:15 PM Response to Original message |
43. It's Hard.....But Let It Go......... |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 05:29 PM Response to Reply #43 |
51. And do it GENTLY. Some people can be very cruel. |
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Scout1071 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 04:17 PM Response to Original message |
44. Walking away may actually drive her to you. |
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NMDemDist2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 04:19 PM Response to Reply #44 |
45. exactly what I was gonna say! she might realize how much you mean |
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Scout1071 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 04:29 PM Response to Reply #45 |
46. Bingo. nt |
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Scout1071 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 04:29 PM Response to Reply #45 |
47. Bingo. nt |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 05:21 PM Response to Original message |
48. At what point? When you jump out of her moving car. |
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IsIt1984Yet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 05:26 PM Response to Reply #48 |
50. Incredible breakup story! I hope you weren't badly injured!! |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 06:33 PM Response to Reply #50 |
58. I was definitely the crazy in that relationship. |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 05:25 PM Response to Original message |
49. Regardless, best of luck to you both. |
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kiraboo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 06:02 PM Response to Original message |
54. I wonder if it is even in your control? |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 06:06 PM Response to Original message |
55. Letting go hurts briefly, but hanging on to it hurts a lot longer. |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 06:08 PM Response to Original message |
56. Who is she to determine your happiness? Make your happiness independent |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 06:16 PM Response to Original message |
57. You need to move on. The sad thing is, once you do |
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Mayberry Machiavelli (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 06:39 PM Response to Original message |
59. For clarification, has she had other long term dating relationships during |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-26-06 06:46 PM Response to Original message |
60. When They Give up on you!!!! |
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