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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 09:56 PM
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Stories From the Road. Ronny, Darla, and Rose
I delivered a load of clothes to a department store in Sheboygan, Wisconsin the other day at 6 AM. I had driven until 2 in the morning to get there and I was very grateful when the dock worker let me sleep with my truck in the dock after I was unloaded because I didn’t think there was a close place to park and I was dead tired.

At about noon I awoke and called dispatch. They said that they would not have a load for me until 8 AM the following day. So I pulled the truck out of the dock thinking that I would head toward the direction where the load was coming from and try to find a truck stop along the way. When I got to the intersection of the interstate I saw a small truck stop on the other side of it that I had not noticed the night before when I pulled into the department store lot. I went to the truck stop and parked the truck.

There was a restaurant right beside the truck stop and I decided I would go over there to have something to eat. The place was almost deserted. There was an older couple there in the non-smoking section and a young man back in the smoking section. A host asked for my seating preference and I told him smoking. He then escorted me to a table across the aisle from the young man. A waitress came to get my order. When she was done the young man across the aisle started speaking to me. I’ll call him Ronny.

“Do you know what time it is?” Ronny asked.

“It’s right around noon,” I said.

“Thanks,” he said, “Do you come here often?”

“No, this is the first time I’ve been here. I’m from out of town.”

“Really? What do you do for a living?”

“I’m a trucker. I delivered at that department store right across the freeway this morning.”

“Does that pay good?”

“It’s decent,” I said not wanting that part of the conversation to go any further.

“I’m a professional waiter,” he said.

“Do you work here?”

“No, but I’m trying to get a job here.”

A few minutes later the waitress, I’ll call her Darla, came back with my food and to fill Ronny’s glass. He asked her if the manager was in and she said no. He then told her that he had put in an application earlier but had put the wrong date on it and wanted to fill out a new one. She fetched him another application.

While Ronny and Darla were talking another waitress came into the room and started sweeping the floor. She then heard Ronny and Darla talking about jobs and joined in the conversation. I’ll call her Rose.

Rose spoke of her time down in Florida. She had a job waiting tables down there and said she made very good money. She had a nice apartment and a nice car down there. We all wanted to know why she decided to move back to Wisconsin as she was originally from there. She said that she had lost everything in the Katrina hurricane. She had to move back up here with her folks. She was new to the restaurant and they wouldn’t let her wait tables yet because she was in training. She said that she had a second job, but she was still not able to get on her feet yet. She had been in Sheboygan four months and was still not able to get her own place.

Then the topic turned to wages. Ronny said he made $3 an hour plus tips at his current job.

“Why do you want to switch jobs then?’ Darla asked, “I only make $2.33 an hour here.”

“I only average about $18 in tips a night at my current employer.”

I decided I would chime in, “Man, that ain’t right. I think they should at least have to pay you guys minimum wage.”

Ronny and Darla looked at me like I had sprouted a third eye on my forehead.

“Minimum wage is $2.15 an hour for waitresses,” Darla said.

Rose clarified, “Minimum wage for most people is 5 or 6 bucks an hour.”

Then all three of them looked at me like I was some kind of weirdo.

Rose was in her 30s I guess. She spoke of having a teenaged girl. Darla appeared to be about the same age. Ronny looked to be in his early 20s. I was thinking that these people weren’t going anywhere in life. I need to gross about 40k a year just for my house, food, clothes, and a modest S-10 pickup. I have no idea how people survive on less money than that. My house is only a two bedroom deal that’s about 700 square feet and I don’t have to support anyone but myself.

Then I did a little digging and found that the median, national, annual wage is $13.98 per hour. That means that half of the people who work in this country make less than 30k a year. http://www.bls.gov/oes/current/oes_00Al.htm

I’m Tobin and I drive a truck for a living. Apparently I’m one of the wealthy elite. Pleased to meet you.


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dolo amber Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 10:08 PM
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1. Been there, lived that
:(

Also, read this:

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0805063897/104-6603868-5076757?v=glance&n=283155

Utterly ridiculous what people are expected to live on in the *wealthiest* country on earth.
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 10:17 PM
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4. I heard about that book
But I haven't picked it up yet. Thanks for the link.
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Suich Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 10:10 PM
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2. That story is so sad.
A lot of the waitress jobs are filled by single moms. How're they're supposed to survive on that is beyond me. Don't forget, they have to pay income tax on that $2 or $3 an hour job. They're also required to report a certain amount in tips, whether they got it or not. Gotta make sure the poor people aren't rippin' off the guvmint!
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 10:21 PM
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5. You got it
A lot of stories from the road are sad. Unfortunately I think I've written more sad ones than happy ones. But that's the way it is sometimes. I want to relate what life is like out there. The human side that rarely gets exposed when you meet strangers.
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 10:12 PM
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3. It's very sad
Thanks for your story Tobin.

Whenever I go out and I'm able, I tip very generously for that reason, I know these folks make next to nothing.

I make very good money right now, but I don't know how long it will last.
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 10:28 PM
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6. Thanks, supernova
I usually leave a nice tip, too. There was one time when I was at a truck stop and the restaurant staff was short a waitress or two. They were working their tales off, but it still wasn't fast enough for a few of the truckers. A couple of them started giving one of the waitresses a hard time about the slow service. I was sitting right next to them. I broke in and said, "here you go, keep the change," I tipped $3 for a $4 bowl of chili. I left thinking that maybe she'd smile at that. But now that I'm thinking about it that probably wouldn't make up for the tips lost from the truckers who were bitching. Sorry bastards probably weren't going to tip anyway.
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RevCheesehead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 10:39 PM
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7. Gee, I've missed your stories!
Welcome back, Droopy! :hi:
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 10:49 PM
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9. Thanks Rev
I hope you're still preaching the truth. I popped in last weekend for the first time in 6 months. I posted an "I'm back" thread and about 30 people responded saying that they were glad I was back and that they had missed my posts. It was very heartwarming. When I left I thought that the bad outweighed the good here. I was sorely mistaken. But maybe I needed that break to put things into perspective.
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RevCheesehead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 11:06 PM
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11. Taking a break is healthy.
It reminds us of what's really important in life. I applaud your taking that time, but I sure am glad to see you back again!
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 10:42 PM
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8. Poignant story!
Good to see you back on, Droopy!

:hi:
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 10:50 PM
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10. Thanks, Kitchenwitch
It's good to see you, too.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 11:55 PM
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12. Great but heartbreaking story, my dear Droopy!
You tell them so damn well.....

It heals my heart to have you here....

I truly missed you.....

I started to read "Nickeled and Dimed" but I couldn't.....

It broke my heart.



:loveya: :hug:
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 11:59 PM
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13. Thanks Peggy
Anyone who cusses while describing one of my stories is right on track whether in the positive or the negative. I want you to feel something when you read what I write. Damned straight. I missed you, too, with your cheerfulness and enthusiasm. You can't buy that, Peggy. Nope, you can't buy that.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-04-06 12:04 AM
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14. You have touched my heart, Droopy!
And now I wish you could see me smiling.....

Your response is right up there with my favorites...

And I have had some very special ones, too.....

I'm going to bookmark this thread, just so I can read your story anytime, and your response to my post!

I am nothing if not enthusiastic, sweetie! Damn straight.....

:loveya:
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EstimatedProphet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-04-06 12:09 AM
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15. Droopy's back!
Welcome back, man!
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-04-06 12:17 AM
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16. Thanks, dude
I was wondering if you were still here. It's good to see you. Very good. Please tell the mrs. that I'm back.
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Heidi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-04-06 12:27 AM
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17. Thank you, Droopy.
In my mind, your story depicts how things have been so bad, for so long, that many of it just accept it, even when we're clinging to the lower rungs of the economic ladder.

Very, very good story. :hug:
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-04-06 12:35 AM
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18. Thank you, Heidi
Unfortunately it appears that the majority of people who live in this country are living pay check to pay check. Where would Rose be without her parents? The American dream is dead.
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