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emad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 09:38 AM Original message |
Husband makes cheating wife pay for time spent raising lover's child |
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LiberallyInclined (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 09:44 AM Response to Original message |
1. i think that if every family in the U.S. was DNA tested- |
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emad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 09:46 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Maybe some surprised Moms too? |
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TlalocW (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 10:11 AM Response to Reply #1 |
5. There's been at least one case though |
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LiberallyInclined (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 12:21 PM Response to Reply #5 |
6. sooner or later, the laws are going to have to catch up with technology... |
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TlalocW (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 03:54 PM Response to Reply #6 |
51. Same here |
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Debi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 12:23 PM Response to Reply #5 |
8. More than one |
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Bok_Tukalo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 12:24 PM Response to Reply #5 |
10. Yep |
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Hugin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 09:50 AM Response to Original message |
3. What's the biggie... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 01:37 PM Response to Reply #3 |
39. I think the disclosure is key. |
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BikeWriter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 10:10 AM Response to Original message |
4. Whoa... I'd pitch a fit, too. |
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Bok_Tukalo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 12:23 PM Response to Reply #4 |
7. Doesn't really matter in the US |
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Debi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 12:23 PM Response to Reply #7 |
9. Correct, see above n/t |
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Bok_Tukalo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 12:28 PM Response to Reply #9 |
11. Males in family court are second class citizens |
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Debi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 12:31 PM Response to Reply #11 |
13. Okay, I won't agree with that |
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Bok_Tukalo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 12:34 PM Response to Reply #13 |
15. Reimbursement? |
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Debi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 12:47 PM Response to Reply #15 |
22. That sucks |
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Bok_Tukalo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 12:52 PM Response to Reply #22 |
25. They know |
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Debi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 12:57 PM Response to Reply #25 |
28. You are correct, that is just wrong. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 01:39 PM Response to Reply #25 |
41. While you're correct about these circumstances, |
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BikeWriter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 01:54 PM Response to Reply #7 |
46. True, in the U.S. once he's named the father, that's it. |
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Worst Username Ever (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 12:30 PM Response to Original message |
12. That poor child.... |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 12:35 PM Response to Reply #12 |
17. That was my first thought too. |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 12:33 PM Response to Original message |
14. Some day he will be old & alone. |
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Bok_Tukalo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 12:35 PM Response to Reply #14 |
16. Yes. Of course. It's the man's fault that his wife was unfaithful. |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 12:39 PM Response to Reply #16 |
19. It's about the child, not the woman. |
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Bok_Tukalo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 12:42 PM Response to Reply #19 |
20. Yes it is horrible and obscene what the mother did |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 12:46 PM Response to Reply #20 |
21. He sued for reimbursement and damages, that's why. |
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Bok_Tukalo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 12:50 PM Response to Reply #21 |
23. Still nothing about the mother |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 12:53 PM Response to Reply #23 |
26. Why is he not-dad? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 01:43 PM Response to Reply #26 |
43. Agreed - "family" means more than shared genes. n/t |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 01:00 PM Response to Reply #23 |
29. I think the mother was horribly wrong. |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 01:20 PM Response to Reply #23 |
33. If the man who I considered my father growing up |
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Bok_Tukalo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 01:31 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. "The mother is an asshole, and shouldn't have done it." |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 01:37 PM Response to Reply #34 |
40. If he pushes this, then yes. |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 01:44 PM Response to Reply #34 |
44. 'Not-dad' is ALSO a bad guy |
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Bok_Tukalo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 02:20 PM Response to Reply #44 |
48. No. It is the tale of ONE dirtbag and two innocent victims |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 02:42 PM Response to Reply #48 |
50. The father is indeed an innocent victim |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 02:37 PM Response to Reply #44 |
49. Right. Legal and moral are two different things. |
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Swede (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 12:51 PM Response to Reply #21 |
24. This is one time of having your cake and eating it too that I agree with. |
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Debi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 12:55 PM Response to Reply #21 |
27. And the biological father |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 01:05 PM Response to Reply #27 |
30. Then not-dad shouldn't be able to see her. |
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Bok_Tukalo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 01:06 PM Response to Reply #27 |
31. "Astrid should be pissed at them." |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 01:10 PM Response to Reply #31 |
32. Mom thought Astrid was his, though... |
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Bok_Tukalo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 01:33 PM Response to Reply #32 |
35. I didn't even notice you were following me |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 01:47 PM Response to Reply #21 |
45. 15k Euros Is Nada, Unless These Are Slum People |
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jukes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 12:37 PM Response to Reply #14 |
18. excellent point! |
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democracyindanger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 01:35 PM Response to Reply #14 |
37. Try reading the article |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 01:40 PM Response to Reply #14 |
42. Some people value money more than anything else, even family. |
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WI_DEM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 01:35 PM Response to Original message |
36. For 13 years he thought this child was his |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 01:37 PM Response to Reply #36 |
38. How can there be any basis for a loving relationship |
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BikeWriter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-05 01:57 PM Response to Reply #36 |
47. I have raised three step-children... |
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