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RC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-09-05 08:09 AM
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I feel bad because no one responds when I start threads.
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iamjoy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-09-05 08:10 AM
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1. Me Too! (n/t)
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notadmblnd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-09-05 08:13 AM
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2. It happens sto all of us
somethimes you can post threads that people are interested in and other times not. I've been here a couple of years now and my post count is relatively low. Usually other people say what I have to say better than I do so I just read. I'm not one of those people that post just to increase my count. It matters not to me to be king of the hill.
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Art_from_Ark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-09-05 08:17 AM
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3. Don't feel bad
In the 4+ years I've been here, I have NEVER received more than 20 replies to a thread I have started-- and even in the 20-reply thread,, 10 of those replies were mine!
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Rockholm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-09-05 08:19 AM
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4. Me too. It's natural.
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Longgrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-09-05 08:20 AM
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5. I've had threads receive 400 posts and I've had threads receive 0 posts
Edited on Sat Apr-09-05 08:21 AM by Longgrain
The key is to post back to everyone that replies, and thread jack as often as possible (and even better if someone else hijacks the thread for you).
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GOPFighter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-09-05 08:30 AM
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6. You're probably in the majority!
It used to bother me that on those few occasions that I sit down and write something thoughtful and from the heart I would get no replies, yet two nights later I would post something frivolous in the Lounge and Boom! 40 silly replies.

After a few years here I realize that a lot of people here read, but don't reply.
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SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-09-05 08:59 AM
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15. That's so true.. When we had our "views" column
it would amaze me to see all the hits a post had gotten,. and yet vew replies.. lots of people are readers..but not writers :)
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nuxvomica Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-09-05 08:31 AM
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7. That only happened to me once
I rarely start threads but I've always had at least a few replies when I do except for one that I worked very hard on. I think people sense one's ambition sometimes and don't want to encourage it. ;-)
Here's some tips:
1) Start a poll and leave out one or two obvious options. Folks can't help but call you on it.
2) Say that you're drunk or stoned and post something incomprehensible. Folks seem to love to talk to the inebriated.
3) Indicate that you are posting pictures of dogs and/or cats. Puppies and/or kittens are surefire.
4) Use the word "Kleeb" anywhere in your subject line.
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psychopomp Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-09-05 08:39 AM
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9. LOL
Your post is hilarious ps I'm stoned and drunk. B-)

But really, I like your tips; seems that way these days.
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nuxvomica Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-09-05 08:49 AM
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12. I guarantee these tips
Go ahead and try any one of them and you're guaranteed to get responses. If you're already stoned and drunk (note how quickly I replied to your post) you're halfway there. :D
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BikeWriter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-10-05 08:52 AM
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29. LOL! Good tips!
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bridgit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-09-05 08:35 AM
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8. don't be sad get happy...
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DistressedAmerican Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-09-05 08:39 AM
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10. I Post Total Throw away threads and they are VERY popular.
Edited on Sat Apr-09-05 08:40 AM by DistressedAmerican
Ones that I expect to be popular frequently aren't. Who knows. Keep at it.

:toast:
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bridgit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-09-05 08:42 AM
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11. that's part of why i say 'get happy'...
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mtnsnake Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-09-05 08:52 AM
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13. RC, if you really wanna get a lot of replies, try this
Edited on Sat Apr-09-05 08:56 AM by mtnsnake
Post something that's either controversial or something that everyone disagrees with. The more negative the subject the better. Lots of people around here seem to love negativity.

If that doesn't work, try this for a thread title: "I slept with Michael Jackson in 1994 when I turned 10. Ask me anything!" I guarantee you'll get lots of replies. :evilgrin:
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pretzel4gore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-09-05 09:08 AM
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16. but jackson has no xxx drive!
too many hormones...isn't that right? Sex is a fading memory to the old girl.....(i expect to hear he's had srs any day now)
btw michael jackson is white racism's finest achievement. also, as far as replies to threads, after 24 hrs cannot follow up unless the thread is marked, which i always forget to do, thus rarely if ever chk replies to anything posted (i think i started 2 threads since i be here 3 yrs...have no idee what happened to them)
now, back to michael jackson, do you think
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GOPBasher Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-12-05 06:33 AM
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53. You're right. The negative threads get way more attention than
well-thought out, informative and interesting threads.
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SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-09-05 08:57 AM
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14. It happens to us ALL,,don't feel lonely
you just never know when a thread will "catch on".. a silly thread will garner hundreds of posts when another one that you work on for a long time gets zippo..

just keep at it :)
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Rhiannon12866 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-10-05 03:27 AM
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17. I think this happens to all of us.
It depends on where you post, time of day, and what else is going on. It's not necessarily you, or what you have to say. I've gotten totally overlooked, at times, then received over 100 replies when I asked for advice for my sick little dog, who refused to take his meds, on a Saturday night, when no vet was available. DUers can be very compassionate, but things move very fast in The Lounge, and posts sometimes get buried too fast. You may want to try a slower forum. Or PM me and ask me to kick your thread, before it gets lost.:-)
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WhirlyGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-10-05 06:52 AM
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19. Hi, Rhi - I thought of you the other night, when we were having a serious
. . . discussion at one of our KOEB meetings.

I was thinking, this is the kind of conversation Rhiannon was hoping to find -- when we were jumping all around acting silly and talking about ties!

Anyway, glad to have crossed paths with you again --

-WhirlyG
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Rhiannon12866 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-11-05 03:29 AM
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40. I am not always able to get on when Keith is on, and I miss it!
Allison Stewart was on last week, not the same, but pretty good. And then Keith showed up with serious coverage of The Pope's funeral. I missed his humor, since this was far from a humorous occasion!:shrug:

Thanks for thinking of me, and I'm also so glad to have crossed paths with you. Did the KOEB Group take off? Silly question, I can find it. But any info would be appreciated. I'm still here, though not always at the right time!:-)

Rhi:hi:
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WhirlyGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-11-05 05:49 PM
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42. Rhi, you're still welcome to dive into the pool, whenever you get --
-- the impulse.

By the way, it's not just an estrogen pool any more, did you see? We now have a corresponding Alison Stewart Testosterone Brigade for the guys (the "ASTB") to go along with it!

Please join us, whenever we're not being too silly. There's usually a serious sub-thread to add your comments to. :-)

--WhirlyG
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Rhiannon12866 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-12-05 03:17 AM
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50. Thanks! I will whenever I can get on!
I still follow Keith, most days, since I know I can get the truth from him. I don't like Allison Stewart as much, but I'm warming up to her, since I think she's catching on to the spirit of things! LOL! And I don't mind silly, since that's the reason I appreciate Keith! I mostly agree with Lou Dobbs, but the man has no sense of humor! And, you're right, he's not as nice looking! Thanks for the invite! You'll see me, sooner or later.

Rhiannon:hi:
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Abelman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-10-05 03:32 AM
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18. That's a load.
I just responded!

You should start a Lounge Party thread sometime. I made one that lasted for two days once. It was amazing.
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freebird1 Donating Member (377 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-10-05 07:07 AM
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20. geez after 4,483 post ~ you'd think somebody gonna answer
:wtf::shrug:
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RC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-10-05 07:44 AM
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23. Yeah, you'd think that.
But I've had such a long string of no responses that I was beginning to think everyone had put me on Ignore. Really. Even when I responded to other threads with what I would have thought of as Flame Bait... nothing, zilch. I was really starting to wonder if they were really out to ignore me. You guys proved me wrong. Now I can start a thread asking why I am always wrong? :P
Never mind.
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freebird1 Donating Member (377 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-10-05 08:16 AM
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28. *giggle*
:hug:
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RC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-10-05 09:10 AM
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31. Thank you
I needed that. :blush:
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freebird1 Donating Member (377 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-10-05 09:21 AM
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33. I promise I'll do it again !
:loveya:
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RC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-10-05 09:54 AM
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34. Ok.
:applause:
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freebird1 Donating Member (377 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-12-05 06:29 AM
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52. someday
soon ... :kick:
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katinmn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-10-05 07:10 AM
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21. Guess you can't say that anymore, RC
:hi:

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RC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-10-05 07:48 AM
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24. Yeah, I can't say that..., at least for a while.
:hi: 'morning.
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katinmn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-10-05 07:52 AM
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26. Good morning. Have some java on me
:donut:

:)
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RC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-10-05 09:14 AM
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32. I'll share the donut
if it's alright. I never got into the coffee thing. To bitter.
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bling bling Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-10-05 07:18 AM
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22. Good morning.
:)
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RC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-10-05 07:50 AM
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25. And a Good Morning to you too.
:woohoo:
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bling bling Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-10-05 07:52 AM
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27. Woohoo is my new favorite smiley.
He's so cute. :woohoo:
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RC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-10-05 09:06 AM
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30. Something on common.
:woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
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goodboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-10-05 10:10 AM
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35. yep...I suggest having a conversation with yourself in the thread, until


no one can ignore it anymore.

hee hee.
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shesemsmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-10-05 11:00 AM
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36. Me also
sometimes I feel there is no one here but me. I don't get to come in as much as I would like. I'm sorry if I missed your thread
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RC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-10-05 11:43 AM
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37. Cheer up
You didn't miss this one. :hi:
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shesemsmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-10-05 05:05 PM
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38. Thanks
I guess your right lol
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ContraBass Black Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-10-05 05:47 PM
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39. I know how that is.
I'll let you know if I find a solution.
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Robeson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-11-05 03:32 AM
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41. Don't feel bad. I'm responding, as are others......
...you da bomb!!!!
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khashka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-11-05 05:53 PM
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43. Me too
Even worse, no one responds when I answer threads. I can't even count the number of threads that I've responded to and the whole thing comes to a screeching halt.

I sometimes get the feeling nobody likes me :)

Anyway, if you start a thread, let me know and I'll respond. It'll probably be a very short thread - but we can't have everything.


Khash.
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Anarcho-Socialist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-11-05 06:16 PM
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46. It happens to me too...
...some days every thread I reply to is given the 'kiss of death' and thus it gets buried.
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entanglement Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-11-05 05:58 PM
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44. Just checked pages 1-10
on lounge, I couldn't find a single thread started by you. So perhaps you should try starting more threads? :beer:
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mopaul Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-11-05 06:15 PM
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45. negative thread response is one of our nation's greatest threats
and millions suffer from this affliction so don't feel like the lone thread ranger.

and don't expect me to respond to any more threads of this nature, i feel bad just doing it. but you're worth at least one response i guess RC.
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Anarcho-Socialist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-11-05 06:17 PM
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47. Well, I'm replying to say...
Hello :hi:
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tjwash Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-11-05 06:37 PM
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48. Just wait until everyone gangs up and flames you.
:hi:
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Speck Tater Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-11-05 06:47 PM
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49. I know that feeling. AND WHAT'S WORSE is...
whenever I respond to a thread, it's a guaranteed thread killer. NOBODY ever responds to that thread again. :(
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Huckebein the Raven Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Apr-12-05 03:19 AM
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51. Don't feel bad, it happens to everyone
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