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Bok_Tukalo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-20-05 06:33 PM
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Going on a date tonight
Edited on Thu Jan-20-05 06:34 PM by Bok_Tukalo
Weird. First time in awhile.

I even feel odd calling it a "date." Can't there be a word to communicate the same concept without sounding like a teenager?
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Floogeldy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-20-05 06:41 PM
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1. Just think of it as an outing with friends
Except for the sex part, if it should occur. :P
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-20-05 06:42 PM
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2. Could be friends with "benefits"?
:shrug:
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Floogeldy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-20-05 06:46 PM
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6. Could be, but not for me
You see, I fall in love with every woman I sleep with.
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Bok_Tukalo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-20-05 06:45 PM
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4. I've been out of it for some time
Edited on Thu Jan-20-05 06:45 PM by Bok_Tukalo
She invited me over to her house and I am going to cook dinner (I'm one of those males that likes to cook). I'm a little concerned that this is not the ordinary procedure for initiating a relationship or feeling out if you wish to do so. I would think a generic dinnerandamovie, or my perfect date, dinnerandamuseum would be more normal.
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msgadget Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-20-05 06:48 PM
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7. Maybe she feels her house if a more comfortable setting
where you can both relax and get to know each other. By the time dinner is prepared you will have probably discovered quite a lot about her and vice versa.
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Bok_Tukalo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-20-05 06:51 PM
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10. Makes sense
I think she is a bit of a home body (works and goes to school so I can see where that would make someone less likely to want to get out) and maybe she's trying me out; seeing if I go well with the furniture.
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msgadget Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-20-05 06:53 PM
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11. She's also showing a great deal of trust
by inviting you into her home. Wear something that matches the sofa and things will be fine!
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hickman1937 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-20-05 06:43 PM
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3. Where are you going? n/t
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Bok_Tukalo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-20-05 06:46 PM
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5. Her house
At her suggestion.
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achtung_circus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-20-05 06:49 PM
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9. Stop at the drug store on the way,
Ya know.
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prolesunited Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-20-05 06:54 PM
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13. A date at her house!?!?!?
She's not wasting any time. Have fun! :party:
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fluffernutter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-20-05 06:49 PM
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8. i like the word date, it means "fun" to me.
anyway, have a good time and let us know how it went :)
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Bok_Tukalo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 12:39 AM
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14. It went very well
She raved about my cooking. Spent half the time laughing at my witty banter and the other half rubbing her fingers through my hair telling me how attractive I was.

Not bad.
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Floogeldy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 11:26 AM
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17. Sounds like she was saying . . .
. . . "Jump on me." :P
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NewJeffCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 11:34 AM
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21. I'd agree
Is she a liberal and/or a Democrat?

When are you two getting together again?

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Bok_Tukalo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 12:03 PM
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22. She is apolitical but votes Democratic
We didn't really discuss politics much. We are getting together again Sunday evening.
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Mitt Chovick Donating Member (321 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 11:31 AM
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19. Not bad???


She was wanting to ride the salami.

So did you give it to her :-)
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Floogeldy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-20-05 06:54 PM
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12. Better bring a gun with you
It could be a setup for a robbery. :P
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NGU Donating Member (272 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 08:18 AM
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15. I hope it went well
Best wishes!
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DemocratSinceBirth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 08:21 AM
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16. Don't Have Roman Hands
eom
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Mitt Chovick Donating Member (321 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 11:28 AM
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18. Dude, you are already in
She invited you to her place :-)

Now just play it cool and don't forget to bring a jimmy hat.
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NewJeffCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 11:32 AM
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20. how old are you two?
And, I would agree with out, or just saying that you're going out with a woman.

Good luck.
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TexasSissy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 12:27 PM
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23. I'm middle aged and still "date" occasionally.
I call it a date. That's what it is to me. Guess I feel good about still having them!
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