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Edited on Tue Apr-12-05 03:38 PM by SoCalDem
Think about it..
Years ago, marriage was a necessity because women were mere chattel, and in order to "get one" to cook, clean, help with the chores on farms and in small businesses,and bear children, marriage was the "hook". Women did not have much to aspire to job wise, so "old maids" became schoolmarms and church workers. The married ones had a job to procreate and take care of the home. Those were Full Time PLUS jobs since modern conveniences were a long ways off.
Women have always known that they shouldered a huge burden, but they had no REAL choices until fairly recently, so they were content (not all were) to "just be a wife and mother". Recent times have literally FORCED women into the workplace, and once there, lots do not WANT to go back. The irony is that the financial climates that PUSHED women out of the home were largely CREATED BY REPUBLICAN CONSERVATIVES. They see an "assault" on marriage lurking behind every home, and yet they do not realize that THEY created the assault.
It takes TWO or THREE incomes to live in a manner even CLOSE to the eras they claim to long for.
Women today have learned the hard way that marriage is because they WANT to share their lives , not because they have no other choice.
The stigma of out-of-wedlock births is less today, largely because of divorce. It's not uncommon to see women raising children alone (financially and geographically). In days past the children were actually awarded to the MEN, because it was assumed that only HE would be able to support them. That has changed now.. It;s not easy, but women are doing it every day..
Hard times KILL marriages, and we all know whom we can thank for the hard times.
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