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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 02:08 PM Original message |
Why are some (most?) men so homophobic? |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 02:11 PM Response to Original message |
1. Many, many years of conditioning. |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 02:13 PM Response to Original message |
2. additionally, why do strate men like gay female porn, |
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progmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 02:14 PM Response to Reply #2 |
3. i have often wondered about that as well |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 02:16 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. Actually there was a study last year demonstrating that homophobic men |
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havocmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 02:28 PM Response to Reply #4 |
13. LOL That's always been my theory. Thanks for validating it! |
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khashka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 06:52 PM Response to Reply #4 |
58. It's got to do with objectifation |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 02:28 PM Response to Reply #2 |
14. this was covered in Seinfeld |
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progmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 02:33 PM Response to Reply #14 |
16. heh |
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Rob H. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 03:13 PM Response to Reply #14 |
22. I remember that one! |
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TheMightyFavog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 03:02 PM Response to Reply #2 |
20. Actually... |
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Bill McBlueState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 03:30 PM Response to Reply #2 |
35. i don't know about that |
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purr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 04:14 PM Response to Reply #35 |
41. I'm straight and I LOVE that show.. |
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TimeChaser (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 04:15 PM Response to Reply #2 |
42. Time to show my geeky side again... |
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Lilith Velkor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 04:35 PM Response to Reply #2 |
47. I like gay male porn |
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UncleSepp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 05:22 PM Response to Reply #2 |
52. Slash. Yaoi. |
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Mutley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 02:16 PM Response to Original message |
5. I really don't know. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 02:17 PM Response to Original message |
6. Because deep down inside they want another male to throw them against |
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Beware the Beast Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 02:17 PM Response to Original message |
7. Penis envy. |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 02:18 PM Response to Reply #7 |
9. How would you know? |
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Beware the Beast Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 02:20 PM Response to Reply #9 |
10. Precisely. I'm also not homophobic. |
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MrScorpio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 02:18 PM Response to Original message |
8. I'm not attracted to men |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 03:22 PM Response to Reply #8 |
28. Well, I'm not attracted to men, but it doesn't make me repulsed by |
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Southsideirish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 02:20 PM Response to Original message |
11. As you say, some are ok with it and have a "live and let live" attitude |
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stepnw1f (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 02:21 PM Response to Original message |
12. It's a Stupid Cultural Epidemic |
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johnnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 02:30 PM Response to Original message |
15. I'm not homophobic |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 02:48 PM Response to Original message |
17. Along similiar lines |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 03:14 PM Response to Reply #17 |
23. Yes, that's social conditioning... and I hate it. |
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Parche (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 02:50 PM Response to Original message |
18. men |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 03:14 PM Response to Reply #18 |
24. Why do you say that all the time? |
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Parche (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 03:29 PM Response to Reply #24 |
34. redqueen |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 03:38 PM Response to Reply #34 |
36. hehe |
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Parche (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 03:43 PM Response to Reply #36 |
38. freakin |
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short bus president (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 02:51 PM Response to Original message |
19. what about negative reactions to visual images of nekkid old people? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 03:17 PM Response to Reply #19 |
25. I wouldn't say that... |
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short bus president (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 03:26 PM Response to Reply #25 |
29. context... |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 03:18 PM Response to Reply #19 |
26. I would say they're less secure about their own bodies. |
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short bus president (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 03:27 PM Response to Reply #26 |
31. "I saw you naked!" |
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KamaAina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 03:06 PM Response to Original message |
21. They're not firmly convinced of their own heterosexuality |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 03:19 PM Response to Original message |
27. How does that saying go? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 03:28 PM Response to Reply #27 |
32. So even if they're not gay-haters, they're still repressing homosexual |
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Strawman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 03:27 PM Response to Original message |
30. Men are insecure about their gender identity and how others perceive them |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 03:41 PM Response to Reply #30 |
37. THANKS! |
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Strawman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 04:03 PM Response to Reply #37 |
39. Ties in nice with Thomas Frank's What's The Matter With Kansas |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 04:53 PM Response to Reply #39 |
51. That second point went over my head... |
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Strawman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 05:45 PM Response to Reply #51 |
53. the process by which we are gendered in this culture is fucked up |
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ovidsen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 03:29 PM Response to Original message |
33. I saw LOTS of naked men |
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intrepid_wanderer (559 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 04:13 PM Response to Original message |
40. severe chronic |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 04:28 PM Response to Original message |
43. I have no problem seeing a man naked |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 04:30 PM Response to Reply #43 |
44. For the record... |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 04:32 PM Response to Reply #44 |
45. Ahhh but they might ban me |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 04:34 PM Response to Reply #45 |
46. Hello! EVERY STRAIT WOMAN/GAY MAN NEEDS TO CLICK ABOVE!!!! |
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purr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 04:51 PM Response to Reply #46 |
50. I second that!!!!! |
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purr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 04:50 PM Response to Reply #45 |
49. oh my.... |
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Dr Fate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 04:45 PM Response to Original message |
48. The best way to be a "tough guy" is to stick up for people. |
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Zenlitened (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 06:01 PM Response to Original message |
54. Unfortunately, our culture (most cultures) places enormous pressure on men |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 06:05 PM Response to Reply #54 |
55. Thank you so much! |
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Parche (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 06:50 PM Response to Reply #55 |
57. phobic |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 07:44 PM Response to Reply #57 |
59. Not that I know of, no. |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 06:45 PM Response to Original message |
56. Fear. Not of becoming gay, but of being labeled gay. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-01-05 07:44 PM Response to Reply #56 |
60. Yeah... |
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