Reply #2: A decision that directly or indirectly harms or hurts others.

[HughBeaumont]

If it's just you you're willfully train-wrecking and no one in your family's hurt by what you're doing, then by all means WIN that Darwin Award.

To me it's like - think of "Reagan Democrats". Neo-liberals. People who think offshoring jobs creates better paying jobs here. People who use the phrase "liberal media". People who embrace globalization as progress.

Me, I used to do and think dumb shit . . .like vote for Bush 41, read and love books like The Federal Mafia or believe Reagan was a great president. Unlike many people (for instance, Tea Partiers and Faux news watchers), I learned from my mistakes and didn't continue to make them over and over again.