Reply #8: As man I can throw out some whys.., not excuses, buy whys.

[MicaelS]

In no particular order...

(1) Because for some men, there's never "enough". No matter what, or how much they have, they're never satisfied. Someone asked Donald Trump "How much money is enough?" His reply "One more dollar."

(2) Because your wife won't do what you want sexually. See the thing about men most women never find out, is that most man have a fetish. Often the woman in their life reacts with disgust when the man reveals said fetish. So man goes looking to get his fetish satisfied somewhere else.

(3) When you were in high school / college you were a nobody. The prettiest girls wouldn't give you the time of day. (And physical beauty matter a lot to men. A LOT.) Now, you're famous, and GORGEOUS females are everywhere. It's like a smorgasbord. You can think "Wow... "X, Y and Z tuned me down back then, just look at me now."

And it's a two way street. Explain why young, attractive women have affairs with men they KNOW to be married. Do they really think said man is really going to leave his wife, for HER?