Reply #26: As a Christian, pray for her hardened heart and release from her judgementalism.

[Festivito]

She reaches out to you. This is better than having her drop all contact. Use it to advantage.

Why is she projecting this issue? Sounds like she's scared, either for herself or for someone else offering her respite from some other fear ridden part of herself.

You'd help her would you not, if you knew what it were? So, be kind to her. She may start to realize how her own words begin to choke in her throat, and how the kindness of others burns in her thoughts.

I wish you well, and God's blessings of peace, joy and the easily taken long suffering -- for you are free in your truth for as much as it is truth.