Reply #287: yeah, SI, you just need to learn to live alone if he is what your option of being with someone is,

[Divine Discontent]

just my friendly advice to a DUer. I have helped the homeless and had the police called on me for doing so, and heard the negative comments that they're all just crazy or drunks, but even if someone is, hey, if my couple bucks goes to buy one out of two or three of them a beer - so be it! They deserve it, they're homeless for heaven's sake. I tell this to those of my girl friends who have guys who aren't open-minded and treat others derisively but still treat them fair to good, that someday, they'll treat them with the same malice they do others! Just advice... Regardless of what happens, I wish you well.