Reply #170: move on, you can't share a life w. someone you believe to be either stupid or evil

[pitohui]

most republicans, maybe all of them, fall into one or the other category, there is the evil greedy racist who figures that he'll be enriched by following policies that cut off funding to the poor, social services, etc...and there is the stupid (usually racist) person best described as brain washed

you cannot respect either type of mind, and there is no reason to be involved in a long term relationship w. someone you can't respect

i vote dump him, shared values, dreams, and goals are the heart and soul of a partnership or marriage

a problem arises when people think, well, we have nothing in common, but he can be "mr right now" and i can get my goodies while i'm waiting for something better...HOWEVER...the fact that you already have this man in your life makes it MUCH more difficult for you to meet a decent man -- terrific idealistic guys tend to not want to be your backdoor man

unless you can really keep the wingnutter as strictly a booty call and not get emotionally involved, and not have him hanging around killing your chances w. guys who share your beliefs...you're just screwing yourself over by continuing with someone you don't respect...you really need to cut the cord and make the distance there