Reply #67: whatever/however she handles it, is just right for her, and hers to do. and concept of forgiveness

[seabeyond]

is not exclusively for rape, but all things. so the old true and tired comments of blaming the victim that we use for females being raped doesnt apply to the concept of forgiveness. this is getting beyond this particular henious act and looking at the whole, in healing self.

this is why i dont talk about this on this board. cause there is a desire for battle, and not a desire for thinking, feeling, understanding and discussing, ultimately healing. and being such a close issue to my heart, i take it much too seriously for flip, non thinking discourse.