Reply #29: I'll tell you what. My private life is none of your business unless I choose to make it so.

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Not disclosing some public persona may be less defensible here.

But, your query is leading at best; slanderous at worst. You've posed your questions as if you've already made up your mind about some affiliation I may have. Was that intentional?

If you feel you know something about me or my life then you are free, I suppose, to express that here. I'm just as free to tell you to bug off. It's pretty much the same attitude I take with folks who've wondered aloud in the past whether I'm gay. It's really none of their business and of no consequence to them . . . or you.

Anyone who feels they have such an obligation to you is, of course, free to speak for themselves.