Reply #31: Never been married myself, but I feel much as you do

[Lorien]

visiting a prostitute would be a tough one. It would mean that he viewed a woman as a commodity, and that's a bit different than the average garden variety affair. There would also be the sheer stupidity of it, as there's a better than average chance that a prostitute could carry a nasty STD. But, as you say, it would have to be weighed against everything else. Physical violence, extreme, ongoing emotional abuse and any child abuse are the only absolute unforgivables in my book.