Reply #67: If they were the same thing, you'd not have done the rewrite

[Bluenorthwest]

for rhetorical effect. You could not build an argument against what she actually said, so you pulled an inference out and stated that she said what you claim to have 'heard' implied. Others here did not 'hear' her say 'love it or leave it' at all.
If they meant the same thing, you'd not have pulled the rhetorical rewrite, but you did. With intention. That is a visible thing. It is one hell of a long walk to make a 'point'.