Reply #1: i am surprised they even are trying. well, women have money, so i guess it makes sense.

[ejpoeta]

the pharmas want money makers. it may not cure cancer, but everyone knows viagra.... companies want that, and the money that goes with it. there are many things, though that go into a woman not feeling like having sex. try having kids clinging to you all day, running around trying to clean up the house when it seems to not be any cleaner than when you started.... not being able to even think with the fighting kids and their mindnumbing noise.... at the end of the day if I am lucky enough to not have a 9 month old firmly attached to my nipple, I just want to go to sleep. I feel bad for my husband. he's tried to be helpful. and i am sure my desire will come back at some point. but I was falling asleep in my daughter's room while waiting for her to pick out a book for her bedtime story. i could barely keep my eyes open. how can you feel like fooling around when you don't even feel like a person....

it is definitely about more than mechanics. women have to do a lot as mothers or working mothers in their day. men.... it's like every other thought is about sex. but when you are sitting at your computer while your wife runs around making dinner while doing laundry and changing diapers.... of course YOU still feel like fooling around.... while the wife just wants to friggin run away. of course you worked hard at work all day. and your wife knows that and that's why she doesn't ask for your help. but while you are on the computer and she is doing five things at once, remember that she has been doing five things at once all day. so i bet she has been working hard all day too.