Reply #15: I'm so sorry for him and your family

[tavalon]

I do hope he recovers. That said, please say, with kindness, gentleness and love, everything you might have put off saying to him. Especially, those things you love about him. If he doesn't have much time left here, you will both benefit from that.

Damn, that really, really sucks.

Edited to add: Your post actually belongs here, in my opinion, where more DUers will see it. That said, you may need the extra support of the other group, so now you can post there (or at least you can when they put your star up, usually it's instantaneous but not today).