Reply #35: I was unemployed for years and had to pay my hubby child support!

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He insisted on getting custody in the divorce and making me pay child support when he was the one with the good, steady job. I have far more education than he does. He was doing everything he could to destroy me and my family -- he punished me for 18 years for my crime -- having a beautiful, bright, healthy child WITHOUT HIS PERMISSION, while we were married.

He wanted me to donate money to send the child to college. I said NO. I had paid private school tuition and child support for years.

He also destroyed a college fund my parents had set up for my child. He did this by suing my parents during the divorce. He was warned by their attorney that if he sued my parents, he was jeopardizing his child's education by suing my parents, because they had to liquidate that trust fund to finance their legal defense. He did it anyway. He tried to get my father's law license yanked as part of this legal action. My parents were quite old at the time.

And we never said an unkind word to this SOB...l.what would he have done if we had been mean to him? I don't know.