Reply #25: and i dont have that concern. i would only bring in so much money. a lot more money would go out

[seabeyond]

i dont know that we would have come out ahead. hubby bought a business and for five years worked ass off. i did the young kids, house, cooked, all of it so he could put the energy into the business with no interference. he sold it and we made huge bucks

IF i had been working, he would not have been able to be so successful. so i ask, would he even have taken the risk to own business, would it even have been possible, could it even have been successful with diverted attention to home life and would we have made that money