Reply #72: In my story or the OP's?

[YOY]

In my story they were both initially irresponsible and later he showed responsibility. We touched bases again recently. My friend is really a good guy still. She's still clueless according to all accounts and as I learned when I met her (she was not a student but a local girl at the time) borderline mentally retarded. (That's not an insult, she was and is actually that slow.) She was and still is incapable of living on her own unassisted but my friend loved her for "her sweetness" which I took to be her nine-year-oldesque fascination with the world. (Once again, not an insult but the way things are.) John really is a nice kind-hearted guy (not taking advantage of her) but his taste in women was horrible and has improved from all accounts. Also she was suffering from a severe case of "the Innsmouth look" but I digress (that indeed would be an insult...a true one but still an insult)...

In the OP they were both irresponsible and he is showing severe irresponsibility now. It's always her body in the end. Things happen. Nature find a way. Always be careful.

I hate to sound like a Repug but personal accountability is definitely a strong winner here. Even if she lied about the incapability to become pregnant he should have taken measure to be careful still. Gotta be careful where you stick your "business"... If you can't afford the risk and don't have protection or common sense...wait until you do.

My wife and I had a situation where we were surprised by an unexpected pregnancy. My wife always thought she would have problems conceiving. Nature found a way. Now little miss YOY-ette graces our dinner table with giggles and goos and lots of poos...