Reply #160: Freak dancing involves genital contact.

[Xithras]

My daughters junior high doesn't ban freak dancing per se, but they do ban any dancing that involves any contact by one dance partner with the clothing covered genitals of another. This keeps the worst parts out, but still permits some dancing that a lot of people would find offensive.

Even given that, my daughter wont go on the dance floor once people start freaking. She came home crying after one dance when the whole thing ended with this giant 200 person freak. She said that guys were coming up to her and poking her in the butt with their hardons while they tried to freak her uninvited (a main component of freak dancing is guys rubbing their genitals against the womans rear while she "bounces" her butt), her breasts were grabbed a few times by guys she didn't know, and when she shoved the guys off they called her a tease and a bitch. When she tried to complain to the school, she just got "What do you expect when you're dancing like that?"

When I called to complain, I was told that the chaperones had banned that kind of dancing all night, but had permitted the kids to have a little fun and enjoy the last song of the night without rules. The principal told me that everyone knew the last dance of the night would be a freak, and repeated that she shouldn't have been on the floor if she didn't want to do that.

Did I mention that my daughter was only 12 at the time? Sexual assault is apparently OK if it happens at a school dance and it's "the last song of the night".

Kudos to this school for banning it outright.