Reply #107: my 16 year old daughter refuses to dance with boys at her dances

[blondie58]

for that very reason. This is not just like "Dirty Dancing", but more like actual sex on the dance floor- with your clothes on. Pretty close to public masturbation, as you've stated, tblue37. I am no prude, but this is not appropriate for a public activity. Society in general has made sex too accepted. My daugher also told me that if she were to go out with a boy, that she would be expected to give it up by date #3. The ideas that this younger generation are forming are vastly different than ours- for example that oral sex isn't sex- and you don't lose your virginity.