Reply #62: we all had our own rooms. his wasnt bad

[seabeyond]

my middle brother obsessively clean. would rake the rug. my room,..... it was the one. the only thing i consistantly got in trouble for. i started outgrowing it in my twenties. he started getting into it in hsi twenties. oh that is funny. now.... i can having anything lying around or mess or pile.... eeeew. my mama would be proud.

on the depression part. he went thru a decade fighting for his daughter. a lot of the stuff is things he would buy for when he got her. like a bedroom set.... huge ass and sat in living rooom. all her stuff.... waiting for her. very very depressive situation. i often think thank god he made it thru that. you may have something on that. thank you

*one of the reasons i dont automatically side with women in these cases. i saw how they treated brother, the father. was more about money than allowing him to be father. it was he is great parent but hte mom....... she isnt THAT bad so child went to her. very very hard. it was when mom kidnapped daughter and put her in a child psych ward that brother finally got her at 11 and 150k later. whereas the mom had free legal fee.,

just an add on