Reply #3: Yeah. It took me a bit to figure all that out about the Longue.

[BlueIris]

The bullying and the "he/she is just being cute" tolerance for the abusers and the misogynists. Some of the threads they start sometimes reflect such ignorance--and I love it when they disrupt threads discussing anti-female sexism and gender-based discrimination to "point out" all the ways in which men are the victims of inequity and unfairness in America. Reminds me of shit my ex used to do. Sorry to take it to that place, fellow DUers, but that's why their attitude enrages me so much--when other people with that attitude polute my life, I remove them from it. Because that attitude is unacceptable. But in the Longue, it's the norm.