Reply #5: Very good news.

[SheilaT]

Do not, do not, I repeat do not let him bully you. If he calls and starts bullying, just hang up on him. Take notes on every conversation. Don't meet with him alone.

Congratulations on starting a new life. It can be very difficult, as I well know.

I've recently realized that even in my most optimistic fantasies of my marriage not ending, we would not have moved to Santa Fe, and I cannot describe how much I like living here. I have new friends, new work, and could hardly be happier.